I'm trying to opt when the right time is...when did you?
I'm 22 years old, I work a good job, I live near my fiancee in a house we bought. She's 21, we've been together for over 5 years. She works as well.
I've lately been feeling like I want to enjoy a baby. I think about it abundantly and so does she. But when I try to say...lets go ahead and do it. I carry worried and back out.
I'm a very paraniod and I worry profoundly and I'm trying not to be that way.
I guess what I'm looking for is stories to when you decided it was the right time.
Thanks for answering!
First of adjectives in my opinion I believe you two should get married first...A child desires a secure family and knowing that his/her parent made the step to devote themselves to each other, will confer that child more confidence. Secondly once you have a baby your finances may prevent you from having the marriage ceremony you want until later. My husband and I started trying about a month ago. I was on the pill and I have secretly been desiring a child for quite some time but every time I brought it up he would voice no. And that particular night I sat him down and talk to him and he finally had a change of heart and now we are praying for a miracle soon. I hope this help...God bless
If solely there were more 22 year old men similar to you around! You have to be commended for thinking about this in a practical and sensible instrument, rather than just getting pregnant and thinking about the consequences after.
Although you give the impression of being to have everything going for you, 22 and 21 is still very young. Having a kid will change your life forever, but in a obedient way. If you are 100% sure you can be financially and emotionally responsible for a baby for the next 18 years, next go for it.
You are good to be cautious though and chew over about it, so that shows a sign of responsibility.
Answers: My husband and I granted not really to "try" to have a baby, but not prevent pregnancy about a year and a partially ago. Since we got married in May, we've put a little more try into it. I really thought this was my month and got a pretty good sign more or less a week after I ovulated. I got scared s***less! Even though I have considered necessary a baby for over 5 years and have had 3 step children, the thought of self pregnant and having one of my own terrified me. I'm pretty sure it's just a mundane feeling when you actually make the edict to become a parent. It is a big responsibility and something you can feel you are completely ready for, then realize you own no idea what you are doing! That's what makes being a parent so great. I'm sure you and your fiancee will kind great parents, especially if you both feel the need to love a child at such a young age! Good luck and lately relax! It will happen when the time is right and remember... making the baby is the best part! LOL
I beleive that wanting to own a child requires some deep soul searching, it is a very big step.
Good Luck
Sounds to me like you are ready! I would of late go for it! You just get terrified and that is normal, but once you do decide to here isn't going back because you can't put a baby back surrounded by the womb. Remember it can take a normal healthy a year to conceive. Good luck!
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I've lately been feeling like I want to enjoy a baby. I think about it abundantly and so does she. But when I try to say...lets go ahead and do it. I carry worried and back out.
I'm a very paraniod and I worry profoundly and I'm trying not to be that way.
I guess what I'm looking for is stories to when you decided it was the right time.
Thanks for answering!
First of adjectives in my opinion I believe you two should get married first...A child desires a secure family and knowing that his/her parent made the step to devote themselves to each other, will confer that child more confidence. Secondly once you have a baby your finances may prevent you from having the marriage ceremony you want until later. My husband and I started trying about a month ago. I was on the pill and I have secretly been desiring a child for quite some time but every time I brought it up he would voice no. And that particular night I sat him down and talk to him and he finally had a change of heart and now we are praying for a miracle soon. I hope this help...God bless
If solely there were more 22 year old men similar to you around! You have to be commended for thinking about this in a practical and sensible instrument, rather than just getting pregnant and thinking about the consequences after.
Although you give the impression of being to have everything going for you, 22 and 21 is still very young. Having a kid will change your life forever, but in a obedient way. If you are 100% sure you can be financially and emotionally responsible for a baby for the next 18 years, next go for it.
You are good to be cautious though and chew over about it, so that shows a sign of responsibility.
Answers: My husband and I granted not really to "try" to have a baby, but not prevent pregnancy about a year and a partially ago. Since we got married in May, we've put a little more try into it. I really thought this was my month and got a pretty good sign more or less a week after I ovulated. I got scared s***less! Even though I have considered necessary a baby for over 5 years and have had 3 step children, the thought of self pregnant and having one of my own terrified me. I'm pretty sure it's just a mundane feeling when you actually make the edict to become a parent. It is a big responsibility and something you can feel you are completely ready for, then realize you own no idea what you are doing! That's what makes being a parent so great. I'm sure you and your fiancee will kind great parents, especially if you both feel the need to love a child at such a young age! Good luck and lately relax! It will happen when the time is right and remember... making the baby is the best part! LOL
I beleive that wanting to own a child requires some deep soul searching, it is a very big step.
Good Luck
Sounds to me like you are ready! I would of late go for it! You just get terrified and that is normal, but once you do decide to here isn't going back because you can't put a baby back surrounded by the womb. Remember it can take a normal healthy a year to conceive. Good luck!
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