TTC awkward mood?
Me and my partner have a 13 month old son and are thinking of trying for number 2 .. we have single had sex once since our son was born and i just surface totally awkward about it still ... just the way he looks at me when hes surrounded by the mood makes me feel like im one used .. i dont know why .. dont get me wrong i want to have sex .. lol .. it just feel weird .. not physically .. and i dont want to just have sex to lately make a baby .. i hate it how you see some women on forums who solely have sex when they ovulate and wonder why their husbands sometimes have performance anxiety etc .. i love him so much and i dont know why i fell this route? any ideas how to get over it?
Answers: What is it about the track he looks at you that makes you feel awkward? Think on it, and then discuss it near him in an open and loving way. He probably newly misses having sex with you, but certainly wouldn't want you to have a feeling weird. Talk to him about it when sex isn't on the table ...so to speak.
Just go slow and possibly try for some romance? I'm due in 2 weeks, and romance sounds awful nice right now. And by romance I mean a nice dinner at home, baby's asleep, a chalice of wine, a movie, a backrub.
I know what you mean about women who only want to do it around ovulation. And consequently they wonder why their husbands can't perform or get attitudes about it.
I really don't know what direction to give about what you're going through though. Do you feel close to he's just using you to get you pregnant?
Is it just a impression, or does he actually wait til you're near ovulation until that time he wants sex?
Maybe just talk near your partner about it. I'm sure he's probably not feeling so great either since you've solitary had sex once in a year... ya know?
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Answers: What is it about the track he looks at you that makes you feel awkward? Think on it, and then discuss it near him in an open and loving way. He probably newly misses having sex with you, but certainly wouldn't want you to have a feeling weird. Talk to him about it when sex isn't on the table ...so to speak.
Just go slow and possibly try for some romance? I'm due in 2 weeks, and romance sounds awful nice right now. And by romance I mean a nice dinner at home, baby's asleep, a chalice of wine, a movie, a backrub.
I know what you mean about women who only want to do it around ovulation. And consequently they wonder why their husbands can't perform or get attitudes about it.
I really don't know what direction to give about what you're going through though. Do you feel close to he's just using you to get you pregnant?
Is it just a impression, or does he actually wait til you're near ovulation until that time he wants sex?
Maybe just talk near your partner about it. I'm sure he's probably not feeling so great either since you've solitary had sex once in a year... ya know?
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