Going In For Induced Miscarriage :(?
So i am going in to the doctors tomorrow morning i couldn't pass the blood naturally so they will distribute be a tablet of cytotec to start the contractions. I am very sad because I really wanted this kid. I don't know what to feel i have am very panicky to try again i fear that this will happen again. My husband is a so mean we get into an argument today i yelled about his drinking and he got angry and said he wasn't going to be in motion with me tomorrow to my doctor's appointment that i would have to suffer he said he "has to drill me a lesson" like i am some animal or a child. He took his wedding ring off and departed it on the counter he said he dint care about me or the situation that 'I' am in so i come to my mothers house so she can go with me in the morning. Im a short time ago really confused about why all this is happening? I hold heard the saying God will never give you more than you can touch. And i don't get mad at God or blame him. I'm just down in the mouth and confused.
I'm sorry for what your going through=(. He sounds similar to a dick. But, (I know you may not what to hear this) maybe he's feeling hurt too? Maybe He'll lighten up. He lost something too, and probably feel real bad about it. First bad though, he should NOT be talking to you like that. It is COMPLETELY wrong.
I know that its a personal question but have he always drank alot? You shouldn't deal w/ the added stress. Its a real accurate thing you got out of there. Things might enjoy turned worse.
God will be there for you. I hope that you conceive again soon, and hopefully your husband is more of a man next time and will stick with you through "gelatinous and thin".
Good Luck <3
I'm so sorry about your loss. Words just can't express how tragic it is.
I know your husband is outlook it too, but honestly, I think his reaction is very indecorous. His words and actions are very abusive, not that of someone who care about his wife or the loss of his child. A miscarriage is not the time to "teach you a lesson" what is that??
I think BEFORE you draw from pregnant by this man again you should see a therapist and sort out if this relationship is healthy for you or not.
Good luck.
Answers: I'm so sorry. My heart is with you.
Your husband's behavior is uncalled for. I'm sure he is hurting, and likely confused and angry about this situation, and perchance for that reason he is acting out. Maybe it's his way of dealing with it, but it is thoroughly hurtful and wrong. I think he needs a good discussion to, when you feel ready to deal beside it. I don't know, it sounds like alcohol is a problem. When you brought it up, it sounds as though he got defensive because he be insulted, as he may know he's got drinking issues but doesn't want to admit it to himself. That problem probably created the domino effect of insult after insult at you.
Sometimes things are said and done that are too hard to forget. You really have need of to have a heart to heart with him to resolve this, when you feel all set. I'm so sorry that you are going through all this, and I'm so sorry for your loss. From my own experience, I find that once I allow myself to grieve and have quite a few angelic cries, it gets a little easier. The pain doesn't completely walk away, but I promise you are strong enough to handle all this, and things will start to look up. Good luck, hun and I desire all the best for you.
I am sorry to hear about your loss and your situation. I know that your husband is probably hurting, but that is no reason for him to conduct yourself the way he is. I just feel similar to if he truly cared about you, he wouldn't be acting in such a deportment. I think you should lean on your family and mother for support right now. One hours of daylight, you will look back on this valley in your existence and it will make the mountains seem that much greater. A person can never know true great pleasure without the sadness in our lives. I pray you will be blessed next to a child one day, because having been through this, I am sure you will be a great mother.
girl i am so sorry my man is heartless ometimes to i am ttc our 3rd and he is one an *** abu tit..
Sorry to read what you are going thru..
But what is your question doing in TTC section where on earth women are hoping for a baby and you are talking about abortion.. bit insensitive one..
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I'm sorry for what your going through=(. He sounds similar to a dick. But, (I know you may not what to hear this) maybe he's feeling hurt too? Maybe He'll lighten up. He lost something too, and probably feel real bad about it. First bad though, he should NOT be talking to you like that. It is COMPLETELY wrong.
I know that its a personal question but have he always drank alot? You shouldn't deal w/ the added stress. Its a real accurate thing you got out of there. Things might enjoy turned worse.
God will be there for you. I hope that you conceive again soon, and hopefully your husband is more of a man next time and will stick with you through "gelatinous and thin".
Good Luck <3
I'm so sorry about your loss. Words just can't express how tragic it is.
I know your husband is outlook it too, but honestly, I think his reaction is very indecorous. His words and actions are very abusive, not that of someone who care about his wife or the loss of his child. A miscarriage is not the time to "teach you a lesson" what is that??
I think BEFORE you draw from pregnant by this man again you should see a therapist and sort out if this relationship is healthy for you or not.
Good luck.
Answers: I'm so sorry. My heart is with you.
Your husband's behavior is uncalled for. I'm sure he is hurting, and likely confused and angry about this situation, and perchance for that reason he is acting out. Maybe it's his way of dealing with it, but it is thoroughly hurtful and wrong. I think he needs a good discussion to, when you feel ready to deal beside it. I don't know, it sounds like alcohol is a problem. When you brought it up, it sounds as though he got defensive because he be insulted, as he may know he's got drinking issues but doesn't want to admit it to himself. That problem probably created the domino effect of insult after insult at you.
Sometimes things are said and done that are too hard to forget. You really have need of to have a heart to heart with him to resolve this, when you feel all set. I'm so sorry that you are going through all this, and I'm so sorry for your loss. From my own experience, I find that once I allow myself to grieve and have quite a few angelic cries, it gets a little easier. The pain doesn't completely walk away, but I promise you are strong enough to handle all this, and things will start to look up. Good luck, hun and I desire all the best for you.
I am sorry to hear about your loss and your situation. I know that your husband is probably hurting, but that is no reason for him to conduct yourself the way he is. I just feel similar to if he truly cared about you, he wouldn't be acting in such a deportment. I think you should lean on your family and mother for support right now. One hours of daylight, you will look back on this valley in your existence and it will make the mountains seem that much greater. A person can never know true great pleasure without the sadness in our lives. I pray you will be blessed next to a child one day, because having been through this, I am sure you will be a great mother.
girl i am so sorry my man is heartless ometimes to i am ttc our 3rd and he is one an *** abu tit..
Sorry to read what you are going thru..
But what is your question doing in TTC section where on earth women are hoping for a baby and you are talking about abortion.. bit insensitive one..
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