Aagggghhhhh! Now my best friend have get pregnant the first month trying! How can i contract near this?
I don't feel jealous. I feel really contented for her and am excited for her too. But i feel so down.
This month I was just going next to the flo. Adopted a `what will be will be attitude'. I felt calm, was taking the clomid and be going to BD every other day and just see what happens.
Now i am gutted! I surface all desperate for a baby again and hate myself for sensation like that.
Any tips on how to cope with this? Thank you.
I have be TTC # 1 for 16 months.
just always rememeber its not up to you when to get pregnant. its up to the man above. when he know its time you will be blessed with a healthy baby. accurate luck and god bless.
Hi - I haven't been TTC for as long as you have but I have a similar situation - I've be trying since Jan 09 with no luck yet my sil came rotten the pill and got pregnant within the first month - She doesn't know we are trying and although I am chuffed off her and really looking forward to anyone an auntie I still thought that I would be pregnant by now!
I'm 15dpo no AF yet took a test this morning BFN gutted again! :-(
The TTC business is so draining at times!
Just remain positive hun it will take place for you soon and just think you will both have babies that will grow up together.
xxx
Answers: Aw sweety I know exactly how you feel. I'm not going to yack about how you have no right to consistency that way or that it's a competition and especially not that it's God's decision because I don't believe in any of those things.
Trying to conceive sucks no issue how long you try...with the exception of people like your friend who procure it right the first or second time everyone starts to panic and get upset when their period shows up at the shutting down of the month. And the longer you try the more you realize how much the odds are against you getting pregnant...it truly is a difficult thing to attain no matter how hasty it happens for some people.
DH and I had be trying for about 15 months when our best friends got pregnant on the 4th month of trying. She was getting worried after three months herlself and admit that watching what I went through worried her so when it happend she was so happy. They invited us over for breakfast and told us at the finishing. I honestly was thrilled for them because we love them and have no real intention not to be. But the second we left my husband looked at me and said "so?" and I just broke down in the coupé...I felt so guilty for being jealous and he said he feel exactly the same way.
I don't really have tips on how to cope next to it...the fact that the husband was my husbands best friend since childhood helped him relateecstatice this time compared to when someone I work with gets pregnant or something. My advice is to show her that you honestly are delighted for her when she's around, after all you will get to be around her beautiful babe-in-arms one day and you'll love that kid regardless of if you have one or not. But, allow your feeling to be what they are at home contained by private...NEVER tell her you feel this way she doesn't requirement to know (and deep down she already may) Source(s): if you want you can always read my blog...and maybe start your own...writing is a great coping gears for me.
http://jennywithendo.blogspot.com/
You must perceive down but try and be happy for her, some people get pregnant straight away others own to wait months - years to concieve. Try not to stress about it though, i wish you adjectives the best huni x x
I went through a similar thing. We were trying for 18 months earlier I fell pregnant. In that time, 3 of my friends fell pregnant!! One of them I found it very difficult to talk to for a little while, especially when she moaned roughly speaking how horrible being pregnant was. A little insensitive methinks...
There's not an easy answer to dealing next to it, I think it gets better over time. You get used to other folks having babies and can sort of detach it from your own experience. Spending time with friends who don't have kids is rather helpful as it's not in your face adjectives the time. Try to remember the other things in life that you enjoyed until that time you were so desperate to have a baby, hang on to yourself busy with other things and one day you'll discover it finally happened. :)
just go with the flow and enjoy crazy sex all the time lol. don't think to much about it thats what i did i am 4 months pregnant immediately x
try not to be stressed its not a compation who can find pregnant first,
enjoy trying for a child its supposed to be fun. and when it happens it happens and you'll forget in the order of all the stress and let downs of the previous months :) just relish yourself and keep going with the flo good luck to you
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Hi girls! What are your stories, how did you grasp your BFP?
This month I was just going next to the flo. Adopted a `what will be will be attitude'. I felt calm, was taking the clomid and be going to BD every other day and just see what happens.
Now i am gutted! I surface all desperate for a baby again and hate myself for sensation like that.
Any tips on how to cope with this? Thank you.
I have be TTC # 1 for 16 months.
just always rememeber its not up to you when to get pregnant. its up to the man above. when he know its time you will be blessed with a healthy baby. accurate luck and god bless.
Hi - I haven't been TTC for as long as you have but I have a similar situation - I've be trying since Jan 09 with no luck yet my sil came rotten the pill and got pregnant within the first month - She doesn't know we are trying and although I am chuffed off her and really looking forward to anyone an auntie I still thought that I would be pregnant by now!
I'm 15dpo no AF yet took a test this morning BFN gutted again! :-(
The TTC business is so draining at times!
Just remain positive hun it will take place for you soon and just think you will both have babies that will grow up together.
xxx
Answers: Aw sweety I know exactly how you feel. I'm not going to yack about how you have no right to consistency that way or that it's a competition and especially not that it's God's decision because I don't believe in any of those things.
Trying to conceive sucks no issue how long you try...with the exception of people like your friend who procure it right the first or second time everyone starts to panic and get upset when their period shows up at the shutting down of the month. And the longer you try the more you realize how much the odds are against you getting pregnant...it truly is a difficult thing to attain no matter how hasty it happens for some people.
DH and I had be trying for about 15 months when our best friends got pregnant on the 4th month of trying. She was getting worried after three months herlself and admit that watching what I went through worried her so when it happend she was so happy. They invited us over for breakfast and told us at the finishing. I honestly was thrilled for them because we love them and have no real intention not to be. But the second we left my husband looked at me and said "so?" and I just broke down in the coupé...I felt so guilty for being jealous and he said he feel exactly the same way.
I don't really have tips on how to cope next to it...the fact that the husband was my husbands best friend since childhood helped him relateecstatice this time compared to when someone I work with gets pregnant or something. My advice is to show her that you honestly are delighted for her when she's around, after all you will get to be around her beautiful babe-in-arms one day and you'll love that kid regardless of if you have one or not. But, allow your feeling to be what they are at home contained by private...NEVER tell her you feel this way she doesn't requirement to know (and deep down she already may) Source(s): if you want you can always read my blog...and maybe start your own...writing is a great coping gears for me.
http://jennywithendo.blogspot.com/
You must perceive down but try and be happy for her, some people get pregnant straight away others own to wait months - years to concieve. Try not to stress about it though, i wish you adjectives the best huni x x
I went through a similar thing. We were trying for 18 months earlier I fell pregnant. In that time, 3 of my friends fell pregnant!! One of them I found it very difficult to talk to for a little while, especially when she moaned roughly speaking how horrible being pregnant was. A little insensitive methinks...
There's not an easy answer to dealing next to it, I think it gets better over time. You get used to other folks having babies and can sort of detach it from your own experience. Spending time with friends who don't have kids is rather helpful as it's not in your face adjectives the time. Try to remember the other things in life that you enjoyed until that time you were so desperate to have a baby, hang on to yourself busy with other things and one day you'll discover it finally happened. :)
just go with the flow and enjoy crazy sex all the time lol. don't think to much about it thats what i did i am 4 months pregnant immediately x
try not to be stressed its not a compation who can find pregnant first,
enjoy trying for a child its supposed to be fun. and when it happens it happens and you'll forget in the order of all the stress and let downs of the previous months :) just relish yourself and keep going with the flo good luck to you
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