My little girl will be 3 surrounded by nov. and we are have trouble putting her to bed i don't own her on a routine?

she doesn't take a nap and she still fights me. i put her down more or less 8 every night with spongebob on her tv but she still will get up and unscrew her door
read her a book, definitely no tv, you can get her a dark light but no matter how many times she get up and opens the door take her hand and put her posterior to bed. first two nights could be tough for her and you but you gotta do what you gotta do. that's why routine is sooo important when they are little, kids are happier and easier when there is a structured environment.
The reason you are having trouble is because you don't have her on a routine. You inevitability to pull the television out of her room. It is not conducive to REM sleep and children don't get restful recovery sleep when it is on. That is probably WHY she gets up...she can't sleep because the television is on (and of all things crappy you can't get hold of much crappier than Sponge Bob), Lack of REM sleep results in sleep disorders/deprivation as well as behavioral problems. As far as having trouble getting her to stay down for a rest, she is probably ready to end napping. My daughter ended her's after her first birthday, we own a nightly routine that starts with television off, lights dimmed we play peace music and talk in low soft tones, we cuddle with our dogs and trademark everything calm. Then it's bath time, brush teeth, potty, pj's, into bed for a story, lights out (night light on) her "dark noise" cd on and I leave the bedroom. Except for the fact that she has be getting up in the middle of the night to go potty (yes she wake me to help her, we do not have a potty chair/seat, she was skilled on the toilet). I return her back to her bed, tuck her in give her a kiss and stride out of her room. But get rid of that television no toddler needs a box in their bedroom. Source(s): http://community.wegohealth.com/profiles…

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That is why you are having problems putting her to bed, you don't own a routine. Get a routine started and after about a week or so she will go to bed easily.
does she get underway the door and go back to bed? if so then she may be terrified with the door shut. you might also want to get her up early within the morn, like about 7 am maybe previously then that. then you can start making her take a rest about 10 or 11. her being 3 i would put her down around 7pm.
Answers:    Well that is kind of natural. You necessitate to get her into a routine and make sure she doesn't come out of her room or whatever by making sure she is silence etc.

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