Parents how would you pedal this?
This is an actual story that happened to an actual friend of mine.
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You have a 3 year old son and a 6 year ancient daughter. You and you're husband or wife have been teaching them manners so whenever they forget to say-so please and thank you you tell them what's the magic word. Well one day it's "help yourself to your daughter to work day" and you're in a situation where you need something so you right to be heard what you need without saying please. Your daughter looks up at you and tell you "mommy (or daddy) what's the magic word"
u sez to dat yung ladi "NIQQA SHUT, TO, DA, UP. K NIQQA?"
Of course you correct yourself and apologize.
This reminds me of when my daughter be about 4 and I wanted her to say please, so asked her "what's the illusion word?" She pondered for a moment and said "bibbity, bobbity, boo?" Now she's told that her 5-yr-old son is the most polite in his class and other groups. Source(s): mom and gramma
Why not say the magic word?
"and you're within a situation where you need something so you say what you involve without saying please"
Isn't that the same defence as the kids? Parents have to stay as an example. This isn't a big case, but what if it leads to...
Dad: Don't smoke its discouraging for you, i wont let you
3yo: Then why do you smoke?
Simply apologize for not using proper manners. Use the appropriate "magic word" And be sure to commend them for noticing the shortage of manners. We must always be the example of how we want our children to behave. If we demand a certain behavior out of them, we must show them that same behavior within ourselves.
Hope this helps.
Well, The magic words contained by my house is "You are thin and beautiful"!
What's to handle? The child has cultured something and has applied to a situation outside of them self. Victory. The parent's should feel proud and validated that what they are doing is working.
How be this "handled"?
You say you're right honey and say please close to you should have in the beginning!
I would say- you are absolutely right, I forgot to say please, and I would apologize to the person and repeat my request next to please at the end. Children learn the most from watching what we do. Source(s): teacher, mom of 2
You should practice what you preach... Do as you teach...
Wow, what a dumb cross-question. Of course you would say to your daughter that she is right and then say please. What else would you do?
Lol wow, I would read out plz, set a good example
Don't be a hypocrite
I would look at my daughter, than look at the character I was talking to and say "Please?" Trying to set a right example.
I'd thank my child for the reminder because grown-ups need reminders too. Any other response teaches our children that there are 2 sets of rules, which devalues the manners you are trying to guide them.
I dnt get wazz dah prob? juz say plz niqqah.
dass adjectives u gtta do say dat, Source(s): stay fierce~
not much of a situation, thats where you give your kids another time lesson, we are human and make mistakes and the proper way to handle it is to adopt your mistake and rectify it ... that simple oh and smile tell your kids they are right and how great it was that they recognized you forgot to read aloud please or thank you Source(s): mom of a 5 1/2 year old
I would influence - oh thats right! silly me, you're so smart! Then repeat what you asked for to your coworker, saying please. Children learn my example!
Answers: Whats to handle? You cant expect your children to be polite if you refuse to be polite yourself.
I would say..you are right...I am sorry..thank you for reminding me. Then say PLEASE!
I would enunciate, "Oh, excuse me. Please", and then say "Thank you"
Your kids learn sour of you, you have to teach them what's right. They learn by example :)
Well, I'm not a parent but i think i know something. You need to make clear to your kids that you are the parent and they are the children. You take care of them and tell them what they are supposed to do, not the other method around.
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You have a 3 year old son and a 6 year ancient daughter. You and you're husband or wife have been teaching them manners so whenever they forget to say-so please and thank you you tell them what's the magic word. Well one day it's "help yourself to your daughter to work day" and you're in a situation where you need something so you right to be heard what you need without saying please. Your daughter looks up at you and tell you "mommy (or daddy) what's the magic word"
u sez to dat yung ladi "NIQQA SHUT, TO, DA, UP. K NIQQA?"
Of course you correct yourself and apologize.
This reminds me of when my daughter be about 4 and I wanted her to say please, so asked her "what's the illusion word?" She pondered for a moment and said "bibbity, bobbity, boo?" Now she's told that her 5-yr-old son is the most polite in his class and other groups. Source(s): mom and gramma
Why not say the magic word?
"and you're within a situation where you need something so you say what you involve without saying please"
Isn't that the same defence as the kids? Parents have to stay as an example. This isn't a big case, but what if it leads to...
Dad: Don't smoke its discouraging for you, i wont let you
3yo: Then why do you smoke?
Simply apologize for not using proper manners. Use the appropriate "magic word" And be sure to commend them for noticing the shortage of manners. We must always be the example of how we want our children to behave. If we demand a certain behavior out of them, we must show them that same behavior within ourselves.
Hope this helps.
Well, The magic words contained by my house is "You are thin and beautiful"!
What's to handle? The child has cultured something and has applied to a situation outside of them self. Victory. The parent's should feel proud and validated that what they are doing is working.
How be this "handled"?
You say you're right honey and say please close to you should have in the beginning!
I would say- you are absolutely right, I forgot to say please, and I would apologize to the person and repeat my request next to please at the end. Children learn the most from watching what we do. Source(s): teacher, mom of 2
You should practice what you preach... Do as you teach...
Wow, what a dumb cross-question. Of course you would say to your daughter that she is right and then say please. What else would you do?
Lol wow, I would read out plz, set a good example
Don't be a hypocrite
I would look at my daughter, than look at the character I was talking to and say "Please?" Trying to set a right example.
I'd thank my child for the reminder because grown-ups need reminders too. Any other response teaches our children that there are 2 sets of rules, which devalues the manners you are trying to guide them.
I dnt get wazz dah prob? juz say plz niqqah.
dass adjectives u gtta do say dat, Source(s): stay fierce~
not much of a situation, thats where you give your kids another time lesson, we are human and make mistakes and the proper way to handle it is to adopt your mistake and rectify it ... that simple oh and smile tell your kids they are right and how great it was that they recognized you forgot to read aloud please or thank you Source(s): mom of a 5 1/2 year old
I would influence - oh thats right! silly me, you're so smart! Then repeat what you asked for to your coworker, saying please. Children learn my example!
Answers: Whats to handle? You cant expect your children to be polite if you refuse to be polite yourself.
I would say..you are right...I am sorry..thank you for reminding me. Then say PLEASE!
I would enunciate, "Oh, excuse me. Please", and then say "Thank you"
Your kids learn sour of you, you have to teach them what's right. They learn by example :)
Well, I'm not a parent but i think i know something. You need to make clear to your kids that you are the parent and they are the children. You take care of them and tell them what they are supposed to do, not the other method around.
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