5 year elderly have a boyfriend?
I've got 12 kids (2 boys ten girls). Yes I am crazy. My 5 year old daughter Erin pretends to have a boyfriend. He's the boy across the street and they going to kindergarten together within the fall. At first when Erin told me about it I thought it was cute and they be just playing but they said its serious now. She has several sisters that are hard by her age that play with them and said they have been kissing. I own seen Erin kiss him on the cheek but that not a very big deal. I am a bit worried roughly them what they'll be doing. They are some teens in the family and she might has overheard stuff. Is it only a faze? Or what?
Nip it in the bud. Five year old's don't have boyfriend/girlfriends. Kids that young should relish being a kid.
My daughter have 2 boyfriends in her preschool class last year ( at the same time lol) It is non-hazardous... They are most likely just good friends and imitate what they see on TV or at home or something. Make sure to keep an eye on it to make sure it stays innocent but I wouldn't worry too much something like it :)
My son is 5 and he's had about 5 or 6 "girlfriends" from school. The teacher have said it's cute because they'll just play together a lot and he'll put his arm around her but they don't kiss. Surprisingly the guy that be his teacher told us that when he heard that my son had "girlfriends" he took him aside and said you know we don't kiss girls on the mouth at institution and that they can hug and that's it. Anything more than that and they'll get in trouble.
Try not to worry too much if they're not kissing on the mouth and doing other stuff. I be really impressed that his teacher took the initiative like that and didn't hide the certainty from us when we picked him up from school. I don't really think that they have a concept of what a "girlfriend" is at that age and it's pretty much purely their play buddy.
But If I were you I would keep a watchful eye on the situation and if anything happen I would definitely set your daughter straight. You should probably have a talk near her about boys and girls and why girlfriends and boyfriends are something that needs to be thought about much latter in life. Other than that it's just a phase try not to verbs too much over it. You can do just as much damage by over stepping as a parent as you can by never being in that.
Good Luck
Shez a lil young 2 have a bf.Wen shez close to 13 ya
Answers: My daughter went through the same thing. She only just turned 7. Sometimes little kids want to act really grown up and when they see teens doing it they want to do it too. I am guessing your teens having boyfriends/girlfriends. I bet she wants to be only like them. When little kids hear things they get curious about stuff and want to try it. It's their temperament.
My daughter is over it but when they were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend they would love kissing and embracing it was a short time ago getting little much.
Yes it is a faze. Now my daughter thinks that boys are icky haha. They are just playmates now and approaching eachother as friends. Girls get to one point when they want to be really grown up an want to be like the big girls flirting with boys and dating but afterwards they realize I don't want to be around boys and then when they're older most likely they'll be final at the boy faze again! I remember when we were having a family reunion my 2 nieces be in town. The oldest was 12 at the time. My father in regulation asks her so do you have a boy friend? no ewww she replied. In 2 years when she was 14 and he asked her she said OH YEAH! Its just a boy inclination faze.
When my daughter liked the boy and it was getting over the top I explained to her why she can't have a boyfriend all the same. She can have a boyfriend at maybe 13 when she is old ample. She's just not ready yet. She have to enjoy what she has as a little girl have fun. She can get into serious relationships when she is older. Maybe just for playing and holding hand. A kiss on the cheek is nice. One day Erin won't want to do that anymore. When Erin ends her faze tell her that she can still be friends with Tommy. They can still swing out and play but not in a boyfriend girlfriend just as friends.
I hope I helped!
I'd speak to the boy's mother and father about how much he knows. Unless you see them grouping one another or showing their parts to one another I wouldn't worry over much almost it. My son had a girlfriend in the first grade. They played together and walk down the school hall to lunch holding hands. they fast grew out of it because the other children made fun of them. Since you have older children in the home she is going to hear profusely of stuff she probably shouldn't as well as see and read stuff that she shouldn't. It's the nature of big families and elder siblings.
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Nip it in the bud. Five year old's don't have boyfriend/girlfriends. Kids that young should relish being a kid.
My daughter have 2 boyfriends in her preschool class last year ( at the same time lol) It is non-hazardous... They are most likely just good friends and imitate what they see on TV or at home or something. Make sure to keep an eye on it to make sure it stays innocent but I wouldn't worry too much something like it :)
My son is 5 and he's had about 5 or 6 "girlfriends" from school. The teacher have said it's cute because they'll just play together a lot and he'll put his arm around her but they don't kiss. Surprisingly the guy that be his teacher told us that when he heard that my son had "girlfriends" he took him aside and said you know we don't kiss girls on the mouth at institution and that they can hug and that's it. Anything more than that and they'll get in trouble.
Try not to worry too much if they're not kissing on the mouth and doing other stuff. I be really impressed that his teacher took the initiative like that and didn't hide the certainty from us when we picked him up from school. I don't really think that they have a concept of what a "girlfriend" is at that age and it's pretty much purely their play buddy.
But If I were you I would keep a watchful eye on the situation and if anything happen I would definitely set your daughter straight. You should probably have a talk near her about boys and girls and why girlfriends and boyfriends are something that needs to be thought about much latter in life. Other than that it's just a phase try not to verbs too much over it. You can do just as much damage by over stepping as a parent as you can by never being in that.
Good Luck
Shez a lil young 2 have a bf.Wen shez close to 13 ya
Answers: My daughter went through the same thing. She only just turned 7. Sometimes little kids want to act really grown up and when they see teens doing it they want to do it too. I am guessing your teens having boyfriends/girlfriends. I bet she wants to be only like them. When little kids hear things they get curious about stuff and want to try it. It's their temperament.
My daughter is over it but when they were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend they would love kissing and embracing it was a short time ago getting little much.
Yes it is a faze. Now my daughter thinks that boys are icky haha. They are just playmates now and approaching eachother as friends. Girls get to one point when they want to be really grown up an want to be like the big girls flirting with boys and dating but afterwards they realize I don't want to be around boys and then when they're older most likely they'll be final at the boy faze again! I remember when we were having a family reunion my 2 nieces be in town. The oldest was 12 at the time. My father in regulation asks her so do you have a boy friend? no ewww she replied. In 2 years when she was 14 and he asked her she said OH YEAH! Its just a boy inclination faze.
When my daughter liked the boy and it was getting over the top I explained to her why she can't have a boyfriend all the same. She can have a boyfriend at maybe 13 when she is old ample. She's just not ready yet. She have to enjoy what she has as a little girl have fun. She can get into serious relationships when she is older. Maybe just for playing and holding hand. A kiss on the cheek is nice. One day Erin won't want to do that anymore. When Erin ends her faze tell her that she can still be friends with Tommy. They can still swing out and play but not in a boyfriend girlfriend just as friends.
I hope I helped!
I'd speak to the boy's mother and father about how much he knows. Unless you see them grouping one another or showing their parts to one another I wouldn't worry over much almost it. My son had a girlfriend in the first grade. They played together and walk down the school hall to lunch holding hands. they fast grew out of it because the other children made fun of them. Since you have older children in the home she is going to hear profusely of stuff she probably shouldn't as well as see and read stuff that she shouldn't. It's the nature of big families and elder siblings.
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