Questiong going on for situation near a girl i babysit?
ok i was babysitting this girl.
all was fine...
untill she needed to stir to bed. i really told her to go to bed several times (and it really was not in a screaming mode or mean way) she said no.
after a while she started to hit me ( i did nothing but say travel to bed please )
she continued... and then it went to KICKING, SPITTING, HITTING, PINCHING.
i ignored. but the BITING! i moved away. a one point i moved away and i chew over i slightly knocked her. ( i swear NOT hard. Not hitting. a SLGHT knock by mistake )
she said i hit her. i swear i did not.
so i have grades on my arm and legs from biting and scratching. i told my mom and she called her mom.
the next light of day she said her mother said she didnt hit me and i was hitting her!! i DID not hit her!
:(
when her mom got contained by you should of showed her your marks for it to be edvident.
Your mother believes and supports you, that is what is important.
Her mother will probably not be calling you again to babysit.
You can warn any of your babysitting friends in the region of this girl's totally unacceptable behavior. Her parents may eventually run out of babysitters if their daughter continues to behave in this way!
Answers: that child - and more importantly, her parents, all need professional intervention. her parents are not coaching her how to act with other people, and it sounds close to they are spoiling her rotten and enabling her bad habits. the poor kid doesn't enjoy any hope of growing up well without some help.
i cultured a few ways to physically restrain a child who is throwing such a tantrum, without hurting the child and without letting the child hurt you. i used these tactics on my youngest son, who be prone to wild tantrums. it was pretty uncomfortable when it happen in a grocery store, but hey . it worked, and nobody ever called the cops on me for child abuse. sometimes i have to restrain him for 10 or 15 minutes. if he was REALLY on a rampage, sometimes much longer. but if i just kept talking sensibly to him, saying the same appropriate things over and over, eventually he would snap out of it and then we could both get hold of up off the floor and go on about our daytime.
maybe you could learn about some such diplomacy to help with this child. if you don't, then don't walk back to babysit there again.
parents like that don't deserve to own children.
Now I have a question: first; what's your question?
But my suggestion would be to not babysit for them; or if you want set up a surveillance camera; or just tell the girl you did.
Child Protective Services and Prosecutors Not Telling the Truth when They Say They Can't Do Anything About It
The removal of more than 400 children from the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter Day Saints (FLDS) compound in Texas made front page news for several days contained by April. However, a follow-up Associated Press story revealing that the
phone call that initiated the raid was a hoax get short shrift. Rozita Swinton, who has been arrested and charged with misdemeanors more than once for making false phone call about child abuse, has be questioned by Texas Rangers and may be the person who made the phone call.
Few ethnic group are ever arrested for filing false child abuse reports even though it is a crime. In New York State it is a class A misdemeanor (Penal Code Subdivision 3, subsection 240.50). I am a news junkie, perusing several the Fourth Estate and blogs each day as well as monitoring several talk shows, and I have only hear of one person ever getting arrested for making a false report of child abuse. That be a Glens Falls resident, already on probation for another crime.
One reason why few people are arrested for making false claims of child abuse is that those surrounded by authority just don't take the problem serious enough. They don't even embezzle it seriously when one man has had twelve false reports filed against him, apparently adjectives by the same person.
A few weeks ago I listened near incredulity as Al Roney of WGY interviewed Keith Ferguson of Valley Falls in Rensselaer County. Ferguson has been investigated twelve times contained by the past two years by the county's Child Protective Services unit following reports that he had sexually abused his children. None of the investigations hold turned up any abuse, and it's quite obvious that the anonymous phone call to the child abuse hotline are stemming from one individual who, for whatever reason, have a vendetta against Ferguson.
The calls and resulting investigations have, as one can imagine, disrupted Ferguson's enthusiasm. He has cooperated with Child Protective Services, even though he is not required to, and even took his daughter for a gynecological exam to prove that she had not be sexually abused. Source(s): DIDNT REALLY UNDERSTAND YOUR QUESTION BUT HOPE I HELPED ANYWAYS
parents are always going to believe and stand up for thier own child no matter what the situation is, however I would personaly write a memorandum to the parent of the child explaining what really happend, use referances that would make the parent have to stop and think, within other words like phrases the kid said to you things the parent may have heard come from this (awfull brat) child, purloin pictures of your bruises and scratches, and as well show them to this parent, explain that when the child went to bit you it be simple reaction to move away and in doing so the child being so outa control fell or what ever happen to the child, be totaly honest witht he parent and open, make sure you make copies of EVERYTHING prior to going over and conversation to them in person, then if they still dont believe you, consent to any one who asks you to baby sit know and keep the copies so that you have proff, tolerate any other baby sitters you know do not take this child on as they may go threw equal thing if not worse. this kid sounds like he/she is going to capture some one in serious trouble. keep your cool with the parent tho no thing what the parent says, let them know that no matter what the out come even if they believe you, you would not similar to to watch this child any more becuz your fearfull you may get in trouble becuz of what this child say.. good luck and blessings
Sounds close to the mother is weak to me! I'm surprised you put up with that much! That behavior is not allowed within my house! If you were babysitting my child and she did anything like that, first I would apologize to you and then I'd invite you over to view her punishment!
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all was fine...
untill she needed to stir to bed. i really told her to go to bed several times (and it really was not in a screaming mode or mean way) she said no.
after a while she started to hit me ( i did nothing but say travel to bed please )
she continued... and then it went to KICKING, SPITTING, HITTING, PINCHING.
i ignored. but the BITING! i moved away. a one point i moved away and i chew over i slightly knocked her. ( i swear NOT hard. Not hitting. a SLGHT knock by mistake )
she said i hit her. i swear i did not.
so i have grades on my arm and legs from biting and scratching. i told my mom and she called her mom.
the next light of day she said her mother said she didnt hit me and i was hitting her!! i DID not hit her!
:(
when her mom got contained by you should of showed her your marks for it to be edvident.
Your mother believes and supports you, that is what is important.
Her mother will probably not be calling you again to babysit.
You can warn any of your babysitting friends in the region of this girl's totally unacceptable behavior. Her parents may eventually run out of babysitters if their daughter continues to behave in this way!
Answers: that child - and more importantly, her parents, all need professional intervention. her parents are not coaching her how to act with other people, and it sounds close to they are spoiling her rotten and enabling her bad habits. the poor kid doesn't enjoy any hope of growing up well without some help.
i cultured a few ways to physically restrain a child who is throwing such a tantrum, without hurting the child and without letting the child hurt you. i used these tactics on my youngest son, who be prone to wild tantrums. it was pretty uncomfortable when it happen in a grocery store, but hey . it worked, and nobody ever called the cops on me for child abuse. sometimes i have to restrain him for 10 or 15 minutes. if he was REALLY on a rampage, sometimes much longer. but if i just kept talking sensibly to him, saying the same appropriate things over and over, eventually he would snap out of it and then we could both get hold of up off the floor and go on about our daytime.
maybe you could learn about some such diplomacy to help with this child. if you don't, then don't walk back to babysit there again.
parents like that don't deserve to own children.
Now I have a question: first; what's your question?
But my suggestion would be to not babysit for them; or if you want set up a surveillance camera; or just tell the girl you did.
Child Protective Services and Prosecutors Not Telling the Truth when They Say They Can't Do Anything About It
The removal of more than 400 children from the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter Day Saints (FLDS) compound in Texas made front page news for several days contained by April. However, a follow-up Associated Press story revealing that the
phone call that initiated the raid was a hoax get short shrift. Rozita Swinton, who has been arrested and charged with misdemeanors more than once for making false phone call about child abuse, has be questioned by Texas Rangers and may be the person who made the phone call.
Few ethnic group are ever arrested for filing false child abuse reports even though it is a crime. In New York State it is a class A misdemeanor (Penal Code Subdivision 3, subsection 240.50). I am a news junkie, perusing several the Fourth Estate and blogs each day as well as monitoring several talk shows, and I have only hear of one person ever getting arrested for making a false report of child abuse. That be a Glens Falls resident, already on probation for another crime.
One reason why few people are arrested for making false claims of child abuse is that those surrounded by authority just don't take the problem serious enough. They don't even embezzle it seriously when one man has had twelve false reports filed against him, apparently adjectives by the same person.
A few weeks ago I listened near incredulity as Al Roney of WGY interviewed Keith Ferguson of Valley Falls in Rensselaer County. Ferguson has been investigated twelve times contained by the past two years by the county's Child Protective Services unit following reports that he had sexually abused his children. None of the investigations hold turned up any abuse, and it's quite obvious that the anonymous phone call to the child abuse hotline are stemming from one individual who, for whatever reason, have a vendetta against Ferguson.
The calls and resulting investigations have, as one can imagine, disrupted Ferguson's enthusiasm. He has cooperated with Child Protective Services, even though he is not required to, and even took his daughter for a gynecological exam to prove that she had not be sexually abused. Source(s): DIDNT REALLY UNDERSTAND YOUR QUESTION BUT HOPE I HELPED ANYWAYS
parents are always going to believe and stand up for thier own child no matter what the situation is, however I would personaly write a memorandum to the parent of the child explaining what really happend, use referances that would make the parent have to stop and think, within other words like phrases the kid said to you things the parent may have heard come from this (awfull brat) child, purloin pictures of your bruises and scratches, and as well show them to this parent, explain that when the child went to bit you it be simple reaction to move away and in doing so the child being so outa control fell or what ever happen to the child, be totaly honest witht he parent and open, make sure you make copies of EVERYTHING prior to going over and conversation to them in person, then if they still dont believe you, consent to any one who asks you to baby sit know and keep the copies so that you have proff, tolerate any other baby sitters you know do not take this child on as they may go threw equal thing if not worse. this kid sounds like he/she is going to capture some one in serious trouble. keep your cool with the parent tho no thing what the parent says, let them know that no matter what the out come even if they believe you, you would not similar to to watch this child any more becuz your fearfull you may get in trouble becuz of what this child say.. good luck and blessings
Sounds close to the mother is weak to me! I'm surprised you put up with that much! That behavior is not allowed within my house! If you were babysitting my child and she did anything like that, first I would apologize to you and then I'd invite you over to view her punishment!
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