How you disipline a 2 year elderly?
Ok I love my son to dead, he is my life, now that he only just turn 2 he is different, he want to stand up to me and says No or look at me bad, He wants to play next to my nice when we go and visit (she is 8) and she does not want to play he star hitting is not much but he has the model of hitting, I told him to stop doing bad things, I put him in time out and sit with him and explain, some time I spank him (not that hard) for discouraging behavior but he goes back what should I do. I'm a stay home Mom.
Give him time out for like 2 till 5 min. But don't sit beside him.
provide him timeout but don't sit with him. Tell him that you don't like when he hits or whatever he may doing sit him down after walk away. Have him sit in timeout for 2 mins (age or child) after the 2 mins ask him if he is ready to be in motion play nice if he says yes then let him shift if he tells you he tells you no tell him that he can sit and when he is primed to be nice to his friends he can come play then let him come on his own.
I know what you're going through. My son is a firey red-head. He is almost 3 and has been doing those type schedule since he was one. What I do is watch him closely in the situations when he might hit and pop him smartly on the hand if he raises his hand to hit. With my son, time out didn't work and taking things did not work. If you pinch him away from the situation and set him down and keep an eye on him but ignore words and faces for two minutes, he will not close to the lack of attention. Give him praise for being nice but do not give attention when punishing. I am impressively close to my son. I stayed at home with him until he was 2 1/2. So if he is sitting by a plain wall or in a corner away from toys and tv and I am not conversation to him he gets the point. Good luck! Source(s): Mom of an almost 3 year old red headed boy...
If you don't want him to hit anyone YOU have to stop hitting him. He LEARNED how to hit from you so don't blame him when he does it. HE is going through "the terrible twos" HE is a toddler, YOU are supposed to be the adult. Lecturing him isn't going to work because he doesn't deduce you. He nods, he will agree with you not because he understands you but because he requests you to shut up and by pretending that he knows what you are saying and what you mean you will shut up sooner. Constant "talks' bore toddlers. They are goers and doers. Time outs are great When you put him surrounded by you tell him simply "you are in time out for hitting (or whatever he did)" that's it you don't "discuss" it beside him he is in time out, no talking allowed. When you take him out of his time out you remind him "you be in time out for hitting". Then you tell him to apologize to the person he hit. Children own to be constantly reminded of the rules because they weren't born knowing the rules. YOU have to teach him and you have to be consistent. Taking his toys away, hitting him, putting him surrounded by time out, not allowing him to do something he enjoys aren't doing any good because you aren't consistent. Hitting in my belief is a major no no it is not necessary to hit a child especially a two year old. Time outs work wonders when they are used properly and consistently. Taking toys away is zilch to a child. He didn't have to earn the toy so it has no real significance. Keeping a child from doing something he enjoys really doesn't help because then you enjoy a whiny child on your hands. My daughter is 2 1/2 and at breakfast every morning we go over the "Mommy Rules" then she is stale to play or I take her to day care so I can shift to work. If there is something special she wants to do that day (go see grandma, budge see her cousins, go watch the guys working on her uncle's house) She knows that she have to behave all morning then after lunch we can go do that special something she wishes to do. If she doesn't behave, we don't go.
Answers: The only article you really can do is what you have been doing. Just keep a adjectives voice and the upper hand, and you are right to pop his bottom every once and a while when he is being bad. Maybe one that he is not responding to the discipline you need to do it a tad bit harder, just so that he knows he is surrounded by trouble and not just messing around. But one thing is that if he gets surrounded by trouble and starts crying, you cant let in to him. You cant start babying him and pick him up, you gotta tolerate him cry and be sad a little bit. Then he knows he is surrounded by trouble. If you pop his bottom and he cries but then you pick him right up to hug him he doesnt really learn anything. Im not saying you do it, but deeply of people do.. and it doesnt work. Its hard when they cry cuz they are in trouble, but you gotta be strong and do it.
Every little kid go thru this I think. The terrible twos :) But just save doing what you are doing, slap his hand, maybe pop his mouth a little for backtalking you, pop his bottom a couple times, and a moment ago keep your voice stern. He will learn if you a short time ago keep doing it. He will get tired of getting in trouble after a while :) pious luck, you are not the only one! at least you are trying to teach him discipline, I applaud you for that!
Related Questions:
Is this child within trouble?
My 2 years frail son doesn't close to fomula or milk. But he can put away around 500g of yoghurt/a hours of daylight. Is that ample?
My smoke alarm starting going sour later dark around 3am going on and sour notthin going on?
Give him time out for like 2 till 5 min. But don't sit beside him.
provide him timeout but don't sit with him. Tell him that you don't like when he hits or whatever he may doing sit him down after walk away. Have him sit in timeout for 2 mins (age or child) after the 2 mins ask him if he is ready to be in motion play nice if he says yes then let him shift if he tells you he tells you no tell him that he can sit and when he is primed to be nice to his friends he can come play then let him come on his own.
I know what you're going through. My son is a firey red-head. He is almost 3 and has been doing those type schedule since he was one. What I do is watch him closely in the situations when he might hit and pop him smartly on the hand if he raises his hand to hit. With my son, time out didn't work and taking things did not work. If you pinch him away from the situation and set him down and keep an eye on him but ignore words and faces for two minutes, he will not close to the lack of attention. Give him praise for being nice but do not give attention when punishing. I am impressively close to my son. I stayed at home with him until he was 2 1/2. So if he is sitting by a plain wall or in a corner away from toys and tv and I am not conversation to him he gets the point. Good luck! Source(s): Mom of an almost 3 year old red headed boy...
If you don't want him to hit anyone YOU have to stop hitting him. He LEARNED how to hit from you so don't blame him when he does it. HE is going through "the terrible twos" HE is a toddler, YOU are supposed to be the adult. Lecturing him isn't going to work because he doesn't deduce you. He nods, he will agree with you not because he understands you but because he requests you to shut up and by pretending that he knows what you are saying and what you mean you will shut up sooner. Constant "talks' bore toddlers. They are goers and doers. Time outs are great When you put him surrounded by you tell him simply "you are in time out for hitting (or whatever he did)" that's it you don't "discuss" it beside him he is in time out, no talking allowed. When you take him out of his time out you remind him "you be in time out for hitting". Then you tell him to apologize to the person he hit. Children own to be constantly reminded of the rules because they weren't born knowing the rules. YOU have to teach him and you have to be consistent. Taking his toys away, hitting him, putting him surrounded by time out, not allowing him to do something he enjoys aren't doing any good because you aren't consistent. Hitting in my belief is a major no no it is not necessary to hit a child especially a two year old. Time outs work wonders when they are used properly and consistently. Taking toys away is zilch to a child. He didn't have to earn the toy so it has no real significance. Keeping a child from doing something he enjoys really doesn't help because then you enjoy a whiny child on your hands. My daughter is 2 1/2 and at breakfast every morning we go over the "Mommy Rules" then she is stale to play or I take her to day care so I can shift to work. If there is something special she wants to do that day (go see grandma, budge see her cousins, go watch the guys working on her uncle's house) She knows that she have to behave all morning then after lunch we can go do that special something she wishes to do. If she doesn't behave, we don't go.
Answers: The only article you really can do is what you have been doing. Just keep a adjectives voice and the upper hand, and you are right to pop his bottom every once and a while when he is being bad. Maybe one that he is not responding to the discipline you need to do it a tad bit harder, just so that he knows he is surrounded by trouble and not just messing around. But one thing is that if he gets surrounded by trouble and starts crying, you cant let in to him. You cant start babying him and pick him up, you gotta tolerate him cry and be sad a little bit. Then he knows he is surrounded by trouble. If you pop his bottom and he cries but then you pick him right up to hug him he doesnt really learn anything. Im not saying you do it, but deeply of people do.. and it doesnt work. Its hard when they cry cuz they are in trouble, but you gotta be strong and do it.
Every little kid go thru this I think. The terrible twos :) But just save doing what you are doing, slap his hand, maybe pop his mouth a little for backtalking you, pop his bottom a couple times, and a moment ago keep your voice stern. He will learn if you a short time ago keep doing it. He will get tired of getting in trouble after a while :) pious luck, you are not the only one! at least you are trying to teach him discipline, I applaud you for that!
Related Questions: