Curfews and friends, 14 year antediluvian?
Curfews and friends, 14 year old?
my eldest son is 14, when he was 13 i found out he took dugs on more than one occasion near his two friends. it is one year later since he got caught and now he is doing powerfully at school and no longer takes drugs. i do not trust him at all and merely allow him to go out until 5pm on weekends and question where he have been and i will only let him be in motion out with parents i know. he wants to go out near one of the boys who is now good and not the one who is still off the rail, i said no and in the spurr of the moment 1 year ago i said he would be out of the house if i caught him with them. Should i deny him to do this? and is 5pm curfew with other friends still to precipitate?
btw my son was the only 1 of the 3 who got caught, he kept the other 3 out of trouble. 1 of them changed 1 didnt. so his parents dont know. My husband said he will see him out of the house if he goes out with them
thats pretty ridiculous in my assessment.. 5 oclock ? how many hours does he have between school and 5 not much.. yeah he broke the rules and you rounded him for a integral year ! he should be allowed out a lot later
For one
hes 14 he shouldnt be allowed to be with friends late at darkness!
his curfew should be 6pm
and you should know where he is!
drugs allready?
he shouldnt be allowed to be with those type of ppl,
He may get barmy
but he can have a succesful life
if he stops with the drugs
he may find a reward
but I wouldnt trust the kid that changed just yet!
Answers: I think that if your son is behave now and doing well in conservatory, that you might try to move his curfew up a little and give some trust. I know it will be hard, but the more that you hold him rear legs, the more likely he will do those bad things in the time that he have. My parents were the same way, I be sixteen and not allowed out after dark, and I had never done anything wrong at this point! Well it get to where I resented my parents and started doing lot's of bad stuff (sneaking out, drugs, drinking etc.) Don't give him adjectives the freedom at one time, but start out slowly. That way if anything happens you know about it and if he can prove that he have earned your trust, then you might be able to trust him more contained by the future! Source(s): Good Luck!
allow him to go out, if he get caught again don't allow him to go out till he turns 18. im his age and if i got caught (which i wouldn't i don't do drugs.lol) i would really want a chance to prove that i can be trusted again. that character who said that hes only 14 he shouldn't be alowed out at night is wrong. when your a parent like that no kid desires to listen to you. but of you allow him to stay out to like 10 that would probably be okay.
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my eldest son is 14, when he was 13 i found out he took dugs on more than one occasion near his two friends. it is one year later since he got caught and now he is doing powerfully at school and no longer takes drugs. i do not trust him at all and merely allow him to go out until 5pm on weekends and question where he have been and i will only let him be in motion out with parents i know. he wants to go out near one of the boys who is now good and not the one who is still off the rail, i said no and in the spurr of the moment 1 year ago i said he would be out of the house if i caught him with them. Should i deny him to do this? and is 5pm curfew with other friends still to precipitate?
btw my son was the only 1 of the 3 who got caught, he kept the other 3 out of trouble. 1 of them changed 1 didnt. so his parents dont know. My husband said he will see him out of the house if he goes out with them
thats pretty ridiculous in my assessment.. 5 oclock ? how many hours does he have between school and 5 not much.. yeah he broke the rules and you rounded him for a integral year ! he should be allowed out a lot later
For one
hes 14 he shouldnt be allowed to be with friends late at darkness!
his curfew should be 6pm
and you should know where he is!
drugs allready?
he shouldnt be allowed to be with those type of ppl,
He may get barmy
but he can have a succesful life
if he stops with the drugs
he may find a reward
but I wouldnt trust the kid that changed just yet!
Answers: I think that if your son is behave now and doing well in conservatory, that you might try to move his curfew up a little and give some trust. I know it will be hard, but the more that you hold him rear legs, the more likely he will do those bad things in the time that he have. My parents were the same way, I be sixteen and not allowed out after dark, and I had never done anything wrong at this point! Well it get to where I resented my parents and started doing lot's of bad stuff (sneaking out, drugs, drinking etc.) Don't give him adjectives the freedom at one time, but start out slowly. That way if anything happens you know about it and if he can prove that he have earned your trust, then you might be able to trust him more contained by the future! Source(s): Good Luck!
allow him to go out, if he get caught again don't allow him to go out till he turns 18. im his age and if i got caught (which i wouldn't i don't do drugs.lol) i would really want a chance to prove that i can be trusted again. that character who said that hes only 14 he shouldn't be alowed out at night is wrong. when your a parent like that no kid desires to listen to you. but of you allow him to stay out to like 10 that would probably be okay.
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