What be your first pregnancy similar to?

i know everyone is different. that is why i am asking.
as i have mentioned in previous question. i have found out that im 4 weeks pregnant. and i mentioned in another question around being scared to tell race about it due to our situation (ie, living with partners parents almost 100 miles away from my parents, me being jobless, him working full time on min. wage, having little money)
what was it close to with your first? were you scared, inkling like you won't be able to handle it?
although im contented, i feel so clueless about every little thing. we we're contained by a department store and i saw a sleep suit. and at the time i didn't know what it was and just randomly burst contained by to tears because i didn't know what it was, or why baby would need one. (stupid i know)
its literally how im thought. so i would like people to share their pregnancy ups and downs please. just so i know im not alone really.

thank you
Feelings with my first child I felt matching way. I was very excited when I found out. It be at 20+ weeks was when everything started to sink in and I really thought to myself that things will never be the same and etc. It's okay though. Don't verbs about those things. Once the baby arrives it changes. Your perspective change and you're no longer worried about anything. You do what you have to do so support the baby. Everything will be alright.
Everyone is nervous when they pregnant for first time, its to be expected, you havent done it before but when newborn here , you will have support and you will learn yourself what to do.

Hormones are causing the mood swings and crying etc.

Cheer up, beyond question you will make a great mum.

Talk to your midwife aswell as friends and family about babies etc Source(s): 24 weeks pregnant next to baby 3
I've wanted to be a mommy forever so I was totally thrilled beside my 1st. I was sooo happy. Luckily my hubby & I both had correct jobs (and LUCKILY still have them in this economy) so I can single imagine the stress of having little money because I know how incredibly expensive new babies are. But if you buy used and breastfeed I'm sure it will be OK. Try not to stress out too much just about family. As long as you show them you are being responsible (not wasting money on stupid stuff) hopefully they will be good supportive parents. Your 1st pregnancy is other a learning experience. I recommend buying What To Expect While Expecting and other baby books to help you consistency more comfortable and ready. Good luck and congrats! Source(s): 19 weeks pregnant with baby #2
it be like my 2nd
I'm pregnant with my first as well. When I first found out i was pregnant I be the same way. Not that I was clueless as to what a sleep suit be. But hopeless. More than likely it's just your hormones. I wasn't planning on having a child either, but everyone tells me and I'll tell you alike thing. Your baby will come first and you will be able to provide for them, you may completion up working and your partner may end up having to work another job, but come hell or large water you will provide for your baby.
i be a wreck...it was unexpected, i was anxious, worried, and felt very uncomfortable just about something growing inside my body that i didn't think belonged there. (even tho obvoiusly a baby belongs contained by a mommy belly)... anyway, that was when i first found out, as teh months past i got used to the full situation, and was okay with it, even though i was honest to god probabaly the most insane hormonal personage you'd ever meet- you'd probabaly think i was effin' bi-polar or something!...anyway, we were other worried about money as well, but honestly, after 2 years, i can still say baby's aren't really that expensive. as long as you hold insurance. i'm sure once they're older they'll be like "mom i need money, mom i inevitability clothes, dad i need a car blah blah blah" and i'm sure that is when they'll acquire expensive but so far, our first isn't breaking our bank. as soon as i had him, we brought him home, and everything was fine and dandy.. i didn't requirement any help from any one, it just seemed...regular. i wasn't exhausted or nothing.. i felt great, and i was a mom... 3 months after that i was going to school, and working again... althought i did have postpartum depression for a year and the thought of sex didn't cross my mind for resembling a year afterwards (poor husband haha)... i'm telling you, everything may seem so scary, and clueless to you right immediately.but it'll all work it's self out, ...if theres a will, theres a way... you'll be fine. :-)...

and i am pregnant with my 2nd as we speak! i'm 5 weeks along. you should check out this one website.and find me on at hand my name is "mamacass1219".. it's www.i-am-pregnant.com.it's a great site you can chat with moms who are in like week as you are throughout your entire pregnancy and compare your thoughts and feelings, and symptoms- thru my first pregnancy it was realy a life shareholder!...

if you need me feel free to email at cassghetti3355@hotmail.com, and i can help next to whatever questions ya have! :-) appropriate luck..
Answers:    Every pregnant woman go through this whether it be their first of 30th pregnancy!! My first pregnancy I was 17 years old and in my ultimate month of high school. I had a cog time job waitressing (which did not last long due to sickness). The only entity I was sure of is that I had a great boyfriend that I knew loved me and he have a full time job to support our new family! Things be scary at first - I was sick CONSTANTLY and worrying about where on earth we would live and how we would afford our new baby.


I was so worried to tell ANYONE - I worried about what people would conjecture of me for getting pregnant at a young age, how we would make it, would Jacob regret us getting pregnant, etc. To top it off - I be very emotional so I was a complete B**** every in a minute and then to Jacob and my family. Every woman experiences those questions and concerns - it's character to do so.

We told our parents and they were shocked and a little disappointed at first, but we had be together for 3 years and they all new how crazy we are about respectively other. I found work at an insurance company LUCKLY! I was supposed to be a temp but they decided they liked me plenty they wanted to keep me so I excepted! It's been a year as of 7/22/2009!! We bought our first home - life span began! It took forever getting it ready and finally 3 months after our little one was born within December of 2008 we got to move in. We married in Jan of 2008.

Everything have been PERFECT since then - yes we have our ups and downs but we love respectively other and our little girl so it works! We are now expecting our 2nd child which is due 1/30/2010!! We are very excited about our contemporary addition!
I'm 5 weeks along with my first, and it's be ups and downs for me too. I'm happy but I have a lot of fears too. I construe it's a little scary for everyone, especially if it's your first pregnancy because you don't know what to expect and everything is so new. But, the great item is that you have nine months to prepare for your little one. You can read books about pregnancy and childhood and parenting and learn around what you can do to prepare. You can go to the library and look up books about pregnancy and early childhood. Everything is up to date right now, so give it some time to sink in.

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