My friend be raped and in a minute is pregnant should she enjoy an abortion?
I have a very good friend whom I love to passing. She was raped and is now pregnant anyone she tells she is considering an abortion tears her apart and call her a murderer. I tell her the desission is hers I will love her regardless. But why are people so rude? Its not like she asked for this to appear and she hasent even made up her mind yet.. I feel bad for her
Your friend had a vastly traumatic, very horrible thing happen to her. It sounds similar to she didn't report the rape, because if she had, at the hospital they would have given her pills to make it so that she wouldn't go and get pregnant.
She really only has a couple of choices, she can have the abortion, she can enjoy the baby and give it up for adoption, or she can keep the little one and raise it. The choice is completely up to her, and whatever she decides to do, she shouldn't grain remorse for being put in this situation. She didn't ask to be raped, and she didn't ask to get pregnant.
She is lucky that you are supporting her.
Good luck to you both.
Whoever has been impossible mouthing your friend because she wants to have an abortion can shove it. I mean it's not something to do beside any pregnancy ya know, but considering the circumstance that she was raped I am with her all the method. If she wants to have an abortion I support her along with her okay. Having a infant from a rape can cause a woman more emotional stress and depression after having the toddler than if she were to have an abortion and many relatives have different views on abortion. If she is confiding in a friend something like getting in an abortion the best thing to do is support her in her ruling after a rape she probably feels bad enough already damn she requirements a shoulder to lean on because if you think about it she is really scared right immediately about making a decision.
I can understand why someone would consider abortion, having been sexually assaulted. But if I be in that place, I would want to give the baby a randomness at life. It's not the baby's fault some man was a insensitive thief. It deserves a chance. And if I was a child of a rape, I would be indebted for my mom to carry me full term, whether she kept me or placed me for adoption.
She is obviously hurting right immediately, from the cruelty of another, I don't want to see her hurt even more from choosing abortion. Many women regret abortion, not one ever regrets birthing her baby. Source(s): Have her email or IM me through my profile if she wants to talk to someone who have been through a situation somewhat similar. I care and would want to be there for her to listen to her story.
First of adjectives you are an amazing friend for being supportive. This is not an easy thing to step through. I have had personal experience with something similar to this. At the age of 16 i was raped and later found out i was pregnant. I be terrified about what would happen. After giving it like mad of thought i decided to keep the baby. My motivation be to raise my child to not be like his father ( i had a boy). Now i'm not motto that your friend needs to keep her baby. I'm a moment ago saying that she needs to give this some thought and really assume this through it is a tough situation. My advice to her is to steer clear of abortion. It is not the child's fault why she is pregnant it is the father's so punishing and "getting rid" of the baby will not fix things. Adoption is a lovely instrument to go if she does not wish to keep the kid. There are thousands of couples out there who wish they can conceive but can not. Give the blessing to them. But all within all tell your friend to really tink this through and make the choice for her not for anyone else.
You are a wonderful personality for supporting your friend like that it would be really nice if everybody could be as friendly as you
Good Luck to the both of you :] Source(s): Personal Experience
I was raped and I had a stunning baby girl. Almost all of my pregnancy I wanted an abortion. I thought I could never love a child conceived out of rape but I didn't obtain an abortion. I now have a beautiful daughter who I could never regret. Honestly sometimes I do deem about the rape, but seeing my little girl sleep takes all the backache away. Having an abortion won't make the rape go away...
She shouldnt have told race she became pregnant and she shouldnt have told him she is considering abortion. Sadly, thats not an easy talk about subject. People get very rude and horrible and may even stop individual friends with her simply because she considered it.
She needs to make her conclusion herself though, regardless of the nasty comments she has gotten.
I dont like abortions personally, but i dont dream up that anyone has a rite to judge her as they havent gone through what she has gone through and you are a honourable friend and the decision should be up to her and her only, tell her to not listen to what population have said and block it out, tell her to keep her guide high and think about what she think is best to do i mean there is always adoption but that method carrying full term but its up to her and you just keep that promise that no issue what she does your there for her.
she should do what she thinks is best, i instinctively, if i were to ever be raped, i would abort. i would no want to have a child from the person that raped me, thats sick. she have no obligation to have to continue this pregnancy. i would consistency awful... thats her body and only hers, no one in this world have the right to decide or put things into her head, she should take this conclusion on her own. best of luck to your friend.
and its not murder. murder when you actually stab, shoot, etc a person. ending a pregnancy for X purpose is not.
and ppl need to chill with that "killing a baby" crap. its an embryo!! and if this is fresh stuff, probably not even an embryo.. if she does not want this babe-in-arms at all, it will end up hurting the child later on more surrounded by life
First of all, I think it's foolish that self righteous conservatives believe it's their job to govern a woman's very own reproductive system.
Fact: the world is overpopulated.
Even if your friend and many others surrounded by a similar situation chooses to abort their pregnancy, there will still be plenty of available children for adoption. Adoptive parents will NEVER run out of available children. Really.
It is not the government's job to decide what's right for a clan in this situation. It's not right for neighbors, aunts, uncles, colleagues or anyone other than the mother to decide whether or not to abort.
Bottom string: It is entirely up to her.
If the world had a little more intellegence and respect, maybe they'd cram to keep their morals to themselves and stay out other other people's personal business.
I think it's horrible that people enjoy been giving her a hard time about a verdict she hasn't even made yet. I wish you both the best of luck.
they are just saying whats right! in that is no need to kill the baby for this! i apprehend its traumatic for your friend and no-one should have to go through it, but its not the babies fault how he/she come to be made! he didnt ask to be made and was, in an unfortunate method! but that baby deserves a chance at life, if she cant keep hold of it for what happened then how abour adoption? there are populace out there who want a baby so badly and enjoy so much love to give a child, any child no matter how it was brought into the world! populace who adopt dont care where the baby come from! all it needs is a home with relatives willing to love them!
Answers: Hmm, powerfully if possible she should put the baby up for adoption.
You see, in this crust the babies existence is not her fault so she is not in any exact terms responsible for the babe-in-arms.
But but but but but. humanity shares a common bond, we are again in no exact terms responsible for respectively other... and yet, would you go out and kill your fellow man or woman?
If you believe that taking another go when the life being taken has done nought wrong, and has no choice in the matter is licentious... then you don't get an abortion.
If you believe that the baby is not another go, or that you have sole discretion over its life because it is inside of you (I'm not sure why general position of an entity determines its rights, but I suppose a party has separate rights on one side of a state line compared to another, so why the heck not have different rights when inside of a party instead of outside...) Then ultimately it's the mothers call to decide how she feels almost her babies rights.
Really, the way I feel about it is... its an innocent child who will grow up to be a party just like anyone else. A person who would wallow in feeling joy, and love, a person who might grow up to be the subsequent president. A person. That isn't something I could take away no matter how truly I was hurt emotionally from the rape. It would be a non-choice for me. I would choose to accept the baby as the accurate that arouse from the evil of the situation. I'd probably place the baby up for adoption if I were in a situation where on earth I would be unable of providing it proper care.
I honestly just don't catch why mothers don't want to put kids up for adoption unless there are good chances for birth complications.
I expect sure, pregnancy is not exactly fun -- but are your 9 months REALLY more important than the babies (potentially) 90 years?
Those people shouldn't be within her life if they think FORCING a rape victim to fetch the seed of their rapist is a better idea. The choice is hers and hers alone. If she feels she cannot pass the seed of her rapist to term, then she have every right to abort.
abortion is wrong but do whatever suit her...
no you should not hold an abortion. you should never punish the baby for the fathers mistakes...if you dont want it, i would say find a loving family unit that cant have kids or wants to adopt. abortion is never the right way to jump, its pure murder.
She should make whichever finding is best for her and will grant her the most peace.
People are so arrogant and so eager to blame Women for everything but your friend had zilch to do with this great transgression against her body, mind, and spirit. She is justified surrounded by whatever she needs to do to reclaim her life, body, mind, and soul.
You are a terribly great friend for supporting her in whatever she decides to do. I hope she finds peace and some closure surrounded by whatever she decides.
Peace,
Jenn
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Your friend had a vastly traumatic, very horrible thing happen to her. It sounds similar to she didn't report the rape, because if she had, at the hospital they would have given her pills to make it so that she wouldn't go and get pregnant.
She really only has a couple of choices, she can have the abortion, she can enjoy the baby and give it up for adoption, or she can keep the little one and raise it. The choice is completely up to her, and whatever she decides to do, she shouldn't grain remorse for being put in this situation. She didn't ask to be raped, and she didn't ask to get pregnant.
She is lucky that you are supporting her.
Good luck to you both.
Whoever has been impossible mouthing your friend because she wants to have an abortion can shove it. I mean it's not something to do beside any pregnancy ya know, but considering the circumstance that she was raped I am with her all the method. If she wants to have an abortion I support her along with her okay. Having a infant from a rape can cause a woman more emotional stress and depression after having the toddler than if she were to have an abortion and many relatives have different views on abortion. If she is confiding in a friend something like getting in an abortion the best thing to do is support her in her ruling after a rape she probably feels bad enough already damn she requirements a shoulder to lean on because if you think about it she is really scared right immediately about making a decision.
I can understand why someone would consider abortion, having been sexually assaulted. But if I be in that place, I would want to give the baby a randomness at life. It's not the baby's fault some man was a insensitive thief. It deserves a chance. And if I was a child of a rape, I would be indebted for my mom to carry me full term, whether she kept me or placed me for adoption.
She is obviously hurting right immediately, from the cruelty of another, I don't want to see her hurt even more from choosing abortion. Many women regret abortion, not one ever regrets birthing her baby. Source(s): Have her email or IM me through my profile if she wants to talk to someone who have been through a situation somewhat similar. I care and would want to be there for her to listen to her story.
First of adjectives you are an amazing friend for being supportive. This is not an easy thing to step through. I have had personal experience with something similar to this. At the age of 16 i was raped and later found out i was pregnant. I be terrified about what would happen. After giving it like mad of thought i decided to keep the baby. My motivation be to raise my child to not be like his father ( i had a boy). Now i'm not motto that your friend needs to keep her baby. I'm a moment ago saying that she needs to give this some thought and really assume this through it is a tough situation. My advice to her is to steer clear of abortion. It is not the child's fault why she is pregnant it is the father's so punishing and "getting rid" of the baby will not fix things. Adoption is a lovely instrument to go if she does not wish to keep the kid. There are thousands of couples out there who wish they can conceive but can not. Give the blessing to them. But all within all tell your friend to really tink this through and make the choice for her not for anyone else.
You are a wonderful personality for supporting your friend like that it would be really nice if everybody could be as friendly as you
Good Luck to the both of you :] Source(s): Personal Experience
I was raped and I had a stunning baby girl. Almost all of my pregnancy I wanted an abortion. I thought I could never love a child conceived out of rape but I didn't obtain an abortion. I now have a beautiful daughter who I could never regret. Honestly sometimes I do deem about the rape, but seeing my little girl sleep takes all the backache away. Having an abortion won't make the rape go away...
She shouldnt have told race she became pregnant and she shouldnt have told him she is considering abortion. Sadly, thats not an easy talk about subject. People get very rude and horrible and may even stop individual friends with her simply because she considered it.
She needs to make her conclusion herself though, regardless of the nasty comments she has gotten.
I dont like abortions personally, but i dont dream up that anyone has a rite to judge her as they havent gone through what she has gone through and you are a honourable friend and the decision should be up to her and her only, tell her to not listen to what population have said and block it out, tell her to keep her guide high and think about what she think is best to do i mean there is always adoption but that method carrying full term but its up to her and you just keep that promise that no issue what she does your there for her.
she should do what she thinks is best, i instinctively, if i were to ever be raped, i would abort. i would no want to have a child from the person that raped me, thats sick. she have no obligation to have to continue this pregnancy. i would consistency awful... thats her body and only hers, no one in this world have the right to decide or put things into her head, she should take this conclusion on her own. best of luck to your friend.
and its not murder. murder when you actually stab, shoot, etc a person. ending a pregnancy for X purpose is not.
and ppl need to chill with that "killing a baby" crap. its an embryo!! and if this is fresh stuff, probably not even an embryo.. if she does not want this babe-in-arms at all, it will end up hurting the child later on more surrounded by life
First of all, I think it's foolish that self righteous conservatives believe it's their job to govern a woman's very own reproductive system.
Fact: the world is overpopulated.
Even if your friend and many others surrounded by a similar situation chooses to abort their pregnancy, there will still be plenty of available children for adoption. Adoptive parents will NEVER run out of available children. Really.
It is not the government's job to decide what's right for a clan in this situation. It's not right for neighbors, aunts, uncles, colleagues or anyone other than the mother to decide whether or not to abort.
Bottom string: It is entirely up to her.
If the world had a little more intellegence and respect, maybe they'd cram to keep their morals to themselves and stay out other other people's personal business.
I think it's horrible that people enjoy been giving her a hard time about a verdict she hasn't even made yet. I wish you both the best of luck.
they are just saying whats right! in that is no need to kill the baby for this! i apprehend its traumatic for your friend and no-one should have to go through it, but its not the babies fault how he/she come to be made! he didnt ask to be made and was, in an unfortunate method! but that baby deserves a chance at life, if she cant keep hold of it for what happened then how abour adoption? there are populace out there who want a baby so badly and enjoy so much love to give a child, any child no matter how it was brought into the world! populace who adopt dont care where the baby come from! all it needs is a home with relatives willing to love them!
Answers: Hmm, powerfully if possible she should put the baby up for adoption.
You see, in this crust the babies existence is not her fault so she is not in any exact terms responsible for the babe-in-arms.
But but but but but. humanity shares a common bond, we are again in no exact terms responsible for respectively other... and yet, would you go out and kill your fellow man or woman?
If you believe that taking another go when the life being taken has done nought wrong, and has no choice in the matter is licentious... then you don't get an abortion.
If you believe that the baby is not another go, or that you have sole discretion over its life because it is inside of you (I'm not sure why general position of an entity determines its rights, but I suppose a party has separate rights on one side of a state line compared to another, so why the heck not have different rights when inside of a party instead of outside...) Then ultimately it's the mothers call to decide how she feels almost her babies rights.
Really, the way I feel about it is... its an innocent child who will grow up to be a party just like anyone else. A person who would wallow in feeling joy, and love, a person who might grow up to be the subsequent president. A person. That isn't something I could take away no matter how truly I was hurt emotionally from the rape. It would be a non-choice for me. I would choose to accept the baby as the accurate that arouse from the evil of the situation. I'd probably place the baby up for adoption if I were in a situation where on earth I would be unable of providing it proper care.
I honestly just don't catch why mothers don't want to put kids up for adoption unless there are good chances for birth complications.
I expect sure, pregnancy is not exactly fun -- but are your 9 months REALLY more important than the babies (potentially) 90 years?
Those people shouldn't be within her life if they think FORCING a rape victim to fetch the seed of their rapist is a better idea. The choice is hers and hers alone. If she feels she cannot pass the seed of her rapist to term, then she have every right to abort.
abortion is wrong but do whatever suit her...
no you should not hold an abortion. you should never punish the baby for the fathers mistakes...if you dont want it, i would say find a loving family unit that cant have kids or wants to adopt. abortion is never the right way to jump, its pure murder.
She should make whichever finding is best for her and will grant her the most peace.
People are so arrogant and so eager to blame Women for everything but your friend had zilch to do with this great transgression against her body, mind, and spirit. She is justified surrounded by whatever she needs to do to reclaim her life, body, mind, and soul.
You are a terribly great friend for supporting her in whatever she decides to do. I hope she finds peace and some closure surrounded by whatever she decides.
Peace,
Jenn
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