13 and possibly pregnant, please relief.?
well i just turned 13 two days ago and had sex later month when i was 12. me and my boyfriend brian have been have sex since we were 11 almost 12. our birthdays are around the same day *same month* i love him and we hold been together for a while. today i noticed i hadnt had my extent this month at all and i got it a month and 3 weeks ago i get it resembling a clock every month perfectly but this month it didnt come ive gained like 5 pds. but nil really drastic, i have been a little more hungry lately and i took a pregnancy exam that came out positive BUT i have not visited the doctor so within is still a chance im not pregnant im very scared to recount my mom & step dad. they love me so much & my moms all against abortion so she would NEVER let me get one. my parents do NOT know i am sexually involved, & i dont want to tell them. The nearest clinic is an hour away so obviously im going to have to capture someone to drive me & most of my friends parents are to strict and id be to ashamed to tell them anyways. what should i do? & my mom is also 6 months pregnant so with another child im not sure we can afford it im very scared & have not told my boyfriend. what should i do?
WoW your so young :( im 14 almost 15 and i haven't had sex! i don't want to capture pregnant...God thats horrible. If you really have to. you can lie? and say you be raped maybe? I don't know im sorry. lying is horrible. i just don't know what to say.
Tell your mom and of late be honest.
I would first relax and take a deep breathe.Then sit down and address to your mom and step dad and be honest and tell them everything.Honesty is the best policy and then make an appointment next to a doctor and have your mom go with.you..Then get a decision as a family.Keep in mind that adoption is better than abortion.
Good luck.
If the test be positive you are pregnant. There are almost never false positives. Call Planned Parenthood. They are in the phone book and they will help you decide what to do Source(s): Mom of 6
i would communicate your boyfriend then have him go next to you to the clinic and ones you find out for sure that you are pregnant have your parents sit down and both of you can tell them theres not much you can do just hope your parents will be ok beside it Good Luck
Two weeks ago you didn't know how to be paid out -- you asked several different questions about a boy you liked. You go into great detail about it all. You've been 14 and 13.
1. Get your stories straight. We can check.
2. Stop fantasize about having sex and getting pregnant. You're too young.
3. Stop trolling.
im not going to tell u you are to young. a pos preg test usually does not not tell the truth. I couldnt believe my 6 reg tests so i bought a digital test. get one of those. they wont fake to you. if it is pos get help. if ur preg u need to start prenatal pills so dont be resembling me and wait. good luck to you
Answers: First of adjectives you have to tell your mother. She will most likely be extremely upset and hurt. Just stay calm with her and tell her how you consistency. Tell her you need her during this time. As soon as you can, try to get yourself some prenatal vitamins. Tell your boyfriend as soon as possible too. This will be a hard time for a while for everyone involved I am sure. If you get a positive on a home test though, there really is no need to presume that there is a chance you aren't. You would much more likely gotten a false refusal. Be careful through this time. Good luck with everything. By the way, please even if your mom does bring up abortion, please consider adoption if you opt not to keep him/her.
you should not one having sex! you should be playing with your dolls! that is disgusting!
wtf is this world coming to!?
babies should not be have sex!!
EDIT - HAHA STOP TROLLING! IN YOUR OTHER QUESTIONS YOU SAY YOUR 14 AND OTHERS SAY YOU ARE 15 AND THAT YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO MAKE OUT! GET A LIFE!!
One thing: OMG! DO not tell you are naughty... Why didya hold (yea yea) in the first place. I'm about 12 and a hlaf and you are already sucking a guy's groin and that groin is pushed up your (yea yea). I don't belive it. Try to be honest. What choice do ya have? Gulp. Damn, girl. Do not hold (yea yea) until you are 18.
Get a pregnancy test from the pharmacy. if you're pregnant = tell mom. if you're not pregnant = stop HAVING SEX! You're 13 years old. Watch Hannah Montana and soak up your teen years.
BREATH!!
Now if you 100% positive ur prego. Then transmit the baby daddy,
And He HAS to pay for it.
then follow these links:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CqFvfz1pk…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtHanmdOw…
its preganancy assist.
Now you should tottaly decide what you wanna do.
like adoption or keep it.
presently adoption is a good optition.You can have two kinds of unambiguous adoptions.
-one you only get junk mail and pictures
-two you see him/her
use adoptionnetwork.com
they are so freindly and sweet.
i can help on more info if u need.just agree to me know!
good luck
preserve a coat hanger in your vagina.
no, don't do that.
find an adult who will support you?
get it out!
Ok first things first. You need to tell your parents. You're are a short time ago a child whether you want to hear that or not, and they need to be informed of the actions that you have fixed to take recently. You made those choices and now you must agreement with the repercussions. Sex is a very responsible decision and should not be done if you're an irresponsible childlike girl. Don't take offense to that, as most girls your age are irresponsible and immature.And that's the fun in human being your age. You should enjoy your youth.
Next find a good support system to help you discuss and choose your option. Abortions are very expensive and can be emotionally wrecking, but a child can be the same way contained by your situation. Chances are if that urine test came out positive, and you are experiencing all those symptoms, afterwards yes you are pregnant. If you're worried about letting your parents down, you have to get over it, it's what you chose.
View the pros and cons of respectively option you have: abortion, adoption, or motherhood. Discuss them near your family and tell them how you feel in the order of it. a 13 year old can not legally have an abortion minus parental consent anyways. Be responsible.
Ha! You're fucked. You're also proof of why CHILDREN should not have sex. It's gross that you had sex at 11, seriously. I be still playing with barbies at that time. You're still a baby. Do yourself a favor and get an abortion or put the babe-in-arms up for adoption, and then close your legs. Little girls should not do adult things.
EDIT: TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL!! Go look at her other questions. In one she's 15, contained by the other she's 14. Her second question asked her mom is a lesbian, but in the question her mother is pregnant. Gah, go and get a life you stupid little child.
*Slaps forehead*
Go to the free clinic, get a pregnancy test done.
They do not charge, they do not need parents blessing.
Take the bus to the clinic!
Ok you may very well be pregenant. Take another pregnancy test though sometimes they don't come out right. If you want to do this contained by secret and can get some money, take a bus to the clinic. Im so sorry for you. But you own many options if you are pregnant. You can give the tot up for adoption or just leave him in a fire station. But I know your really startled but your going to have to tell your parents. Im so sorry about this. But did you use protection when you be with your boyfriend. And about your mother being pregnant, I know its terrifying and all, and your parents maybe upset but don't be afraid. You'll get threw this be strong. And it would be best to describe your boyfriend. He should be aware. But for as your parents the best thing would be is to tell them, you don't want to handle this alone.
why were you having sex at 13?
let alone 11.
WTF?
If you are pregnant, and you prbably are with a positive test result, next this is so sad for three children, you, your friend, and the baby. Why oh why did you not think something like what you are doing??
You aren't old enough to be a good mother because you are still a child.
You don't love your boyfriend. At 13 you cannot possibly know the TRUE meaning of love, can you imagine being near him forever - having a child together means that you will be linked for the rest of your go!
You should go and tell your mum, and ask her if she can support you to learn almost why you should not be having sex until you are old enough.
I pray that the tes is refusal and that you learn from this.
If you are sexually alive and have had a home pregnancy test come up positive, next you are pregnant most likely. YOU MUST TELL YOUR MOM! You are 13 years old and your body is not ready for this. There are danger involved when children are pregnant. Read this and go directly to your mom and step-dad. It WILL be the hardest thing you have ever done, but you MUST. Go and speech to them right now.
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WoW your so young :( im 14 almost 15 and i haven't had sex! i don't want to capture pregnant...God thats horrible. If you really have to. you can lie? and say you be raped maybe? I don't know im sorry. lying is horrible. i just don't know what to say.
Tell your mom and of late be honest.
I would first relax and take a deep breathe.Then sit down and address to your mom and step dad and be honest and tell them everything.Honesty is the best policy and then make an appointment next to a doctor and have your mom go with.you..Then get a decision as a family.Keep in mind that adoption is better than abortion.
Good luck.
If the test be positive you are pregnant. There are almost never false positives. Call Planned Parenthood. They are in the phone book and they will help you decide what to do Source(s): Mom of 6
i would communicate your boyfriend then have him go next to you to the clinic and ones you find out for sure that you are pregnant have your parents sit down and both of you can tell them theres not much you can do just hope your parents will be ok beside it Good Luck
Two weeks ago you didn't know how to be paid out -- you asked several different questions about a boy you liked. You go into great detail about it all. You've been 14 and 13.
1. Get your stories straight. We can check.
2. Stop fantasize about having sex and getting pregnant. You're too young.
3. Stop trolling.
im not going to tell u you are to young. a pos preg test usually does not not tell the truth. I couldnt believe my 6 reg tests so i bought a digital test. get one of those. they wont fake to you. if it is pos get help. if ur preg u need to start prenatal pills so dont be resembling me and wait. good luck to you
Answers: First of adjectives you have to tell your mother. She will most likely be extremely upset and hurt. Just stay calm with her and tell her how you consistency. Tell her you need her during this time. As soon as you can, try to get yourself some prenatal vitamins. Tell your boyfriend as soon as possible too. This will be a hard time for a while for everyone involved I am sure. If you get a positive on a home test though, there really is no need to presume that there is a chance you aren't. You would much more likely gotten a false refusal. Be careful through this time. Good luck with everything. By the way, please even if your mom does bring up abortion, please consider adoption if you opt not to keep him/her.
you should not one having sex! you should be playing with your dolls! that is disgusting!
wtf is this world coming to!?
babies should not be have sex!!
EDIT - HAHA STOP TROLLING! IN YOUR OTHER QUESTIONS YOU SAY YOUR 14 AND OTHERS SAY YOU ARE 15 AND THAT YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO MAKE OUT! GET A LIFE!!
One thing: OMG! DO not tell you are naughty... Why didya hold (yea yea) in the first place. I'm about 12 and a hlaf and you are already sucking a guy's groin and that groin is pushed up your (yea yea). I don't belive it. Try to be honest. What choice do ya have? Gulp. Damn, girl. Do not hold (yea yea) until you are 18.
Get a pregnancy test from the pharmacy. if you're pregnant = tell mom. if you're not pregnant = stop HAVING SEX! You're 13 years old. Watch Hannah Montana and soak up your teen years.
BREATH!!
Now if you 100% positive ur prego. Then transmit the baby daddy,
And He HAS to pay for it.
then follow these links:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CqFvfz1pk…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtHanmdOw…
its preganancy assist.
Now you should tottaly decide what you wanna do.
like adoption or keep it.
presently adoption is a good optition.You can have two kinds of unambiguous adoptions.
-one you only get junk mail and pictures
-two you see him/her
use adoptionnetwork.com
they are so freindly and sweet.
i can help on more info if u need.just agree to me know!
good luck
preserve a coat hanger in your vagina.
no, don't do that.
find an adult who will support you?
get it out!
Ok first things first. You need to tell your parents. You're are a short time ago a child whether you want to hear that or not, and they need to be informed of the actions that you have fixed to take recently. You made those choices and now you must agreement with the repercussions. Sex is a very responsible decision and should not be done if you're an irresponsible childlike girl. Don't take offense to that, as most girls your age are irresponsible and immature.And that's the fun in human being your age. You should enjoy your youth.
Next find a good support system to help you discuss and choose your option. Abortions are very expensive and can be emotionally wrecking, but a child can be the same way contained by your situation. Chances are if that urine test came out positive, and you are experiencing all those symptoms, afterwards yes you are pregnant. If you're worried about letting your parents down, you have to get over it, it's what you chose.
View the pros and cons of respectively option you have: abortion, adoption, or motherhood. Discuss them near your family and tell them how you feel in the order of it. a 13 year old can not legally have an abortion minus parental consent anyways. Be responsible.
Ha! You're fucked. You're also proof of why CHILDREN should not have sex. It's gross that you had sex at 11, seriously. I be still playing with barbies at that time. You're still a baby. Do yourself a favor and get an abortion or put the babe-in-arms up for adoption, and then close your legs. Little girls should not do adult things.
EDIT: TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL TROLL!! Go look at her other questions. In one she's 15, contained by the other she's 14. Her second question asked her mom is a lesbian, but in the question her mother is pregnant. Gah, go and get a life you stupid little child.
*Slaps forehead*
Go to the free clinic, get a pregnancy test done.
They do not charge, they do not need parents blessing.
Take the bus to the clinic!
Ok you may very well be pregenant. Take another pregnancy test though sometimes they don't come out right. If you want to do this contained by secret and can get some money, take a bus to the clinic. Im so sorry for you. But you own many options if you are pregnant. You can give the tot up for adoption or just leave him in a fire station. But I know your really startled but your going to have to tell your parents. Im so sorry about this. But did you use protection when you be with your boyfriend. And about your mother being pregnant, I know its terrifying and all, and your parents maybe upset but don't be afraid. You'll get threw this be strong. And it would be best to describe your boyfriend. He should be aware. But for as your parents the best thing would be is to tell them, you don't want to handle this alone.
why were you having sex at 13?
let alone 11.
WTF?
If you are pregnant, and you prbably are with a positive test result, next this is so sad for three children, you, your friend, and the baby. Why oh why did you not think something like what you are doing??
You aren't old enough to be a good mother because you are still a child.
You don't love your boyfriend. At 13 you cannot possibly know the TRUE meaning of love, can you imagine being near him forever - having a child together means that you will be linked for the rest of your go!
You should go and tell your mum, and ask her if she can support you to learn almost why you should not be having sex until you are old enough.
I pray that the tes is refusal and that you learn from this.
If you are sexually alive and have had a home pregnancy test come up positive, next you are pregnant most likely. YOU MUST TELL YOUR MOM! You are 13 years old and your body is not ready for this. There are danger involved when children are pregnant. Read this and go directly to your mom and step-dad. It WILL be the hardest thing you have ever done, but you MUST. Go and speech to them right now.
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