How to convince my Dr. to provide me a C-section?
I've been contracting starting Tuesday and I've not dialated at all.
I'm 38 weeks 1cm dialated and 80% efaced.
I just cant bear it any more. I'm crying as often as I "wish" I were sleeping.
i doubt you'll know how to "convince" your dr. to have a c-section. most doctors only do those in armour of an emergency. a c-section is major surgery with many risks and a much longer taking back time. you are dilating if you're already 1 cm. you still have a couple of weeks to go. your body is progressing naturally and that's probably what the dr. will let somebody know you as well. if you think your sleep is lacking right very soon, just wait until the baby comes!
I don't understand what the involve is for the c-section or why you are crying? Are you having like major contractions? Just sick of human being pregnant? I think you'd have a better chance of person induced then getting a c-section if anything. I hope you aren't just so upset b/c you are sick of being pregnant, b/c have a newborn cluster feeding all night long for the 1st couple weeks will own you wishing you were still pregnant.
A C-section is major surgery and the recovery time is longer than if you be to deliver vaginally. If it was a choice, I would not opt for one.
I have an emergency section - trust me, its not the choice you want to make.
You may be suffering now, but reflect about when you do deliver - your healing time will be much faster than with a booth, and you will be able to care for yourself and your baby lacking having to have someone there near you 24/7.
I was in hospital for 5 days, and they only released me after much protest on my bit.
I developed a serious wound infection, my wound was extremely sore, and was leaking and gaping.
When my daughter cried after birth, I be paralysed and unable to tend to her immediately.
Due to not experiencing natural employment, I was unable to nurse my daughter for the first 5 days of her life, she required to be cup feed hand expressed colostrum.
I couldnt even bend down to change my childs nappy.
Stairs were approaching a marathon, taking me 5 minutes to climb 10 stairs.
I wasnt allowed to drive for 7 weeks.
2 years post partum, I still get annoyance from my scar.
I've had a vaginal birth and an emergency c-section, and trust me--you do NOT want a c-section. No business how miserable you think you are now, the recovery from a c-section will be 10 times worse, I assure you.
You still own two weeks left, and things can change VERY quickly surrounded by the last week or two. I was 1cm dilated on a Friday (with my frst son--the vaginal birth). I had semi-regular (but not painful) contractions adjectives weekend, and when I showed up Monday to be induced, I had dilated to 3 cm, so instead of inducing me like they had planned, they purely broke my water, and he was born about 5 hours after that.
My second son was the c-section, and the whole experience was miserable.
I'm currently pregnant next to #3 (18 weeks) and I've had to fight tooth and nail to find a doctor who will consent to me try for a vbac (vag. birth after c-section).
If you have a GOOD doctor, he won't do a c-section just because you're miserable. Good doctors know the risks involved and will only act them if it's truly necessary.
Please--just try to cope these last few weeks, and don't think nearly c-sections anymore. I meant what I said--things progress very quickly (seriously). You could start have contractions tomorrow morning, and end up delivering your baby tomorrow dark. :)
We've all been there (the end month of pregnancy is the worst--even worse than the 2week wait (in the beginning when you're waiting to test, and you hold to wait until you miss your period). You will be fine, and you WILL have your baby!
I am not sure that they would furnish you a c-section before inducing labor? I have a friend who drove her doctor crazy so he finally agreed to induce her at 39 weeks.
I had an emergency c-section. It be painful but I guess I am one of the lucky ones because my recovery wasn't that bad. But I would own rather gone the "normal" route. While it is extremely painful at the time they tell me - you restore your health quicker.
Good luck and congrats
You don't choose whether or not to have a c-section. Your doctor is a professional and has been doing this for years. If he say no c-section then you're not getting one and there's a damn good reason for it.
Im sorry you're miserable. But if your doctor doesnt quality it's medically necessary to surgically remove your baby yet, here is little you can do besides continue to ask him sweetly. B!tch!ng at him will just make him dangle up on you.
Answers: Ok I am going to be annoying and say try and hang down it out. I KNOW exactly how you are feeling, I ended up being surrounded by labour with my daughter for 72 hours before she be born & that wasn't little labour that was every four minutes cringe wake me up, annoy me to tears contractions. I be crying, I was tired, I was pissed off that the doctors weren't keeping me surrounded by the hospital. It is a horrible situation you are in & you need to keep going. Speak to your doctors, enlighten them you aren't sleeping, tell them your contractions are pointless & annoying. I ended up having my daughter fluently in the theatre where they have set me up to have a c-section. I am glad even though at the time I wanted her right out of me that I just stuck beside it & kept pushing & didn't get the c-section.
So speak to your doctor instead of trying to convince them to give you a c-section get them to impart you options about being induced, I don`t know staying in hospital & having an epidural if you want to sleep. My midwife gave me sleeping pills, but they didn't work. Relax, you're babe is obviously coming, it just takes longer for some undesirably. I know how you feel & strangely enough as soon as your bubs is out you are going to forget all the almost how you felt in labour, you will remember you are tired, you will remember it be long, but you'll have your bubs & it will be over. If you have a c-section (which I dont disagree with have if the baby is in any form of distress or if the mother is also) it takes a longer time to recuperate from the birth. Good luck, I know how you feel & you can do it!
Good luck & I hope it all goes really in good health & the bubs decides to make a move asap :-D
its not time for the little one to come! dont have a c-section, it could be much worse than "not sleeping". you will regret it. Source(s): babies come at 40 weeks.
i doubt your doctor would give you a c section, they only do these if needed, dangle on in there!
c section is suppose to be worse especially afterwards, newborn will come when ready, no body said it was gonna be easy, cogitate about the outcome at the end, your gorgeous baby !! :)
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I'm 38 weeks 1cm dialated and 80% efaced.
I just cant bear it any more. I'm crying as often as I "wish" I were sleeping.
i doubt you'll know how to "convince" your dr. to have a c-section. most doctors only do those in armour of an emergency. a c-section is major surgery with many risks and a much longer taking back time. you are dilating if you're already 1 cm. you still have a couple of weeks to go. your body is progressing naturally and that's probably what the dr. will let somebody know you as well. if you think your sleep is lacking right very soon, just wait until the baby comes!
I don't understand what the involve is for the c-section or why you are crying? Are you having like major contractions? Just sick of human being pregnant? I think you'd have a better chance of person induced then getting a c-section if anything. I hope you aren't just so upset b/c you are sick of being pregnant, b/c have a newborn cluster feeding all night long for the 1st couple weeks will own you wishing you were still pregnant.
A C-section is major surgery and the recovery time is longer than if you be to deliver vaginally. If it was a choice, I would not opt for one.
I have an emergency section - trust me, its not the choice you want to make.
You may be suffering now, but reflect about when you do deliver - your healing time will be much faster than with a booth, and you will be able to care for yourself and your baby lacking having to have someone there near you 24/7.
I was in hospital for 5 days, and they only released me after much protest on my bit.
I developed a serious wound infection, my wound was extremely sore, and was leaking and gaping.
When my daughter cried after birth, I be paralysed and unable to tend to her immediately.
Due to not experiencing natural employment, I was unable to nurse my daughter for the first 5 days of her life, she required to be cup feed hand expressed colostrum.
I couldnt even bend down to change my childs nappy.
Stairs were approaching a marathon, taking me 5 minutes to climb 10 stairs.
I wasnt allowed to drive for 7 weeks.
2 years post partum, I still get annoyance from my scar.
I've had a vaginal birth and an emergency c-section, and trust me--you do NOT want a c-section. No business how miserable you think you are now, the recovery from a c-section will be 10 times worse, I assure you.
You still own two weeks left, and things can change VERY quickly surrounded by the last week or two. I was 1cm dilated on a Friday (with my frst son--the vaginal birth). I had semi-regular (but not painful) contractions adjectives weekend, and when I showed up Monday to be induced, I had dilated to 3 cm, so instead of inducing me like they had planned, they purely broke my water, and he was born about 5 hours after that.
My second son was the c-section, and the whole experience was miserable.
I'm currently pregnant next to #3 (18 weeks) and I've had to fight tooth and nail to find a doctor who will consent to me try for a vbac (vag. birth after c-section).
If you have a GOOD doctor, he won't do a c-section just because you're miserable. Good doctors know the risks involved and will only act them if it's truly necessary.
Please--just try to cope these last few weeks, and don't think nearly c-sections anymore. I meant what I said--things progress very quickly (seriously). You could start have contractions tomorrow morning, and end up delivering your baby tomorrow dark. :)
We've all been there (the end month of pregnancy is the worst--even worse than the 2week wait (in the beginning when you're waiting to test, and you hold to wait until you miss your period). You will be fine, and you WILL have your baby!
I am not sure that they would furnish you a c-section before inducing labor? I have a friend who drove her doctor crazy so he finally agreed to induce her at 39 weeks.
I had an emergency c-section. It be painful but I guess I am one of the lucky ones because my recovery wasn't that bad. But I would own rather gone the "normal" route. While it is extremely painful at the time they tell me - you restore your health quicker.
Good luck and congrats
You don't choose whether or not to have a c-section. Your doctor is a professional and has been doing this for years. If he say no c-section then you're not getting one and there's a damn good reason for it.
Im sorry you're miserable. But if your doctor doesnt quality it's medically necessary to surgically remove your baby yet, here is little you can do besides continue to ask him sweetly. B!tch!ng at him will just make him dangle up on you.
Answers: Ok I am going to be annoying and say try and hang down it out. I KNOW exactly how you are feeling, I ended up being surrounded by labour with my daughter for 72 hours before she be born & that wasn't little labour that was every four minutes cringe wake me up, annoy me to tears contractions. I be crying, I was tired, I was pissed off that the doctors weren't keeping me surrounded by the hospital. It is a horrible situation you are in & you need to keep going. Speak to your doctors, enlighten them you aren't sleeping, tell them your contractions are pointless & annoying. I ended up having my daughter fluently in the theatre where they have set me up to have a c-section. I am glad even though at the time I wanted her right out of me that I just stuck beside it & kept pushing & didn't get the c-section.
So speak to your doctor instead of trying to convince them to give you a c-section get them to impart you options about being induced, I don`t know staying in hospital & having an epidural if you want to sleep. My midwife gave me sleeping pills, but they didn't work. Relax, you're babe is obviously coming, it just takes longer for some undesirably. I know how you feel & strangely enough as soon as your bubs is out you are going to forget all the almost how you felt in labour, you will remember you are tired, you will remember it be long, but you'll have your bubs & it will be over. If you have a c-section (which I dont disagree with have if the baby is in any form of distress or if the mother is also) it takes a longer time to recuperate from the birth. Good luck, I know how you feel & you can do it!
Good luck & I hope it all goes really in good health & the bubs decides to make a move asap :-D
its not time for the little one to come! dont have a c-section, it could be much worse than "not sleeping". you will regret it. Source(s): babies come at 40 weeks.
i doubt your doctor would give you a c section, they only do these if needed, dangle on in there!
c section is suppose to be worse especially afterwards, newborn will come when ready, no body said it was gonna be easy, cogitate about the outcome at the end, your gorgeous baby !! :)
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