13 and pregnate. what to do?
abortion is out of the question and i dont think im strong enough for adoption. one and only 13, not old enough for a job. father?? out of the picture. its purely me... ='(
why is abortion out of the question? you are too young for this. what does your line think? i am guessing they don't know. i'm not an advocate of abortion as birth control but.. you have to step up to the plate and cart responsibility for your mistake AND the little one. at your age, you can't take care of the poor baby and it's not reasonable to bring it into the world with a handicap. now that you realize it's not all fun and games and , adjectives of a sudden, OOPS.. make a decision as quickly as you can for the sake of the fetus.
First of all, I noticed a great deal of people that answered your question are being jerk and keep saying that you are NOT OLD ENOUGH to do this and do that. Well, that is clearly not true cuz you are 13. You may be infantile, but your body is old enough to have a little one. And there are no age requirements for having a baby. BUT, you do enjoy a disadvantage because it is going to be hard for you to raise a baby at your age.
If you conjecture you're not strong enough for adoption, DON'T do it. You will probably regret it later on. You should keep your child. Don't give up just because you are not able to find a living. When you get in high institution, they have summer jobs available in the trade center at every school. Your relationship with your parents might be a little rough surrounded by the beginning, but they will eventually get over it and help you out.
Best wishes to you and your babe.
Oh and don't worry too much about what other people's opinions are give or take a few you. Just make sure you are happy with doesn`t matter what decision you make.
Some inhabitants are being a bit harsh here. Not the best of judgement on your part but since you've ruled out abortion afterwards you'll have to talk to your parents first. Then follow their advice on what to do. I'm 13 too and I craving you and your baby the best of luck. I guess it seems really awful now but you'll go and get through it. Like someone else said, just love the kid and be the best mom you can be and that's all anyone can expect of you. WIth a little relief from your family you'll do fine. Wish you the best and if you ever need someone to vent to, I'll listen =D
kookidoh@hotmail.com
Just please, please please don't worry, stay strong, and know that you are NOT alone.
There are so several girls going through the same thing that you are!
I know you probably regret having sex at such a infantile age, but whats done is done.
You can't take back time.
So, if I were you, I would a short time ago learn to accept the fact that you are pregnant.
Do your parents know even so? If not, you should tell them.
Why can't you get an abortion again? Yes, it is wrong. But in your
situation... it seem necesary. You are not ready to have this child,
and having the child very soon will make your life even harder...
You don't even have a employment to provide anything for this child.
Talk to your parents. Or whoever. An adult you trust, maybe.
Call a hotline for pregnant teens in your nouns.
Do something to help, and don't stress.
By your spelling skills, you were paying more attention to sex that your studies. Talk to your parents, and the best article you can do for that child is to give it up for adoption. At your age you're not going to take the appropriate care, and us the due payers will end up paying for it. And for heavens sake next time close your legs and tend to your studies.
Good luck!
Im not going to put you down bring i known girls 9 yrs old and pregnant. talk to your parents inflict your going to need someone to help you and to support your baby. subsequent you need to think how you are going to be there for your babe-in-arms while your still in school cause baby's bear alot more than love to get taken care of. and third you have to realise not everyone is going to be in that and your risking your friends your child hood and everything you wanted. its not all about you anymore . its more or less your baby
good luck!
talk to your parents
well within my country so much of that happens and i am tired of hearing teenage pregnancies. But the best point to do is talk to your parents about it. The last and the worst entity you could do is to abort the baby. I know you might be frightened and think your parents might evict you but it is the only preference you have. I hope I helped and good luck to you and your babe. Don't be a fool twice and get pregnant again. Oh and about the dude who got you pregnant. If he is a man himself, you could sue him for rape.
As another answerer said, lately talk to your parents.
You're in a difficult position, and you need their serve.
oh god, um well of cousre tlk to ur parents for push for. do some research on parenting a new born, wut to buy, etc.
jus love ur baby and be a good mom
best of luck
Answers: People are being harsh in their answers? Come on in a minute, what we have here is a clear case of making decisions, seeing the consequences of the decision, and looking for a way out of them, but listing what she "can't" do.
What do you need immediately, at age 13, assuming this is a legitimate question and not a troll looking to stir things up? Support. So start by talking to parents. The world won't back, and they won't throw you out of the street. They might be disappointed and rant a bit, but after that they will help you. It is their grandson or daughter after all.
The father being "out of the picture" which I assume manner he doesn't like you anymore and isn't willing to help, doesn't mingy he isn't the father with an 18 year obligation to support his child. Your parents can help you within getting that started, and if he is over 18 it's quite possible he can be arrested.
Remember to start prenatal care for the sake of the baby (yes, little one, not fetus or any of the other names the people use to make him or her smaller number a person and less real). If you don't have the money for it, or medical insurance, travel talk to the county about getting some type of aid. It's not just you presently.
Also, stay in school. You aren't the first to be pregnant and you won't be the last, but individual a high school drop out is going to set the tone for the rest of your life, and your spelling skills yelp to the need for education.
And decide immediately what you are going to do sexually. Of course the best thing to do is not. But be honest with yourself, and do whatever it take to not be in this situation again. Remember that birth control will not prevent STDs.
Lastly, don't underestimate your strength. It will surprise you. Now, go talk to mom (yes, mom first, consent to her tell dad). Good luck.
You do have the people that made you! You ARE very immature but they will help you raise the baby. Parents are VERY loving they will take. Just tell them.
Ohhh ouch..
Well I have a friend who have a baby last year and she was so worried something like not being a good mother and telling her parents. Not to metion the father of the babe triped balls at her and dumped her -_-*. ***.
When she told her parents, they were very disapointed surrounded by her, but they were glad she told them. She was happy that she did it and it be for the best.
So you have to tell your parents, no matter how much it might panic you, my friend told me it was like lifting 1000pounds off her stern.
I wish the best for you and your baby =)!!
And if you have any question about your baby, I'll be happy to backing. (I know all about it, I was near her through everything) Source(s): I was with my friend when she was going through her pregnancy and she be 14 when she had her baby.
Run and run as fast as you can
i love that you said no abortion if u cant get a job adoption is your best bet i can merely tell u what i believe u have 2 make the declaration on your own
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why is abortion out of the question? you are too young for this. what does your line think? i am guessing they don't know. i'm not an advocate of abortion as birth control but.. you have to step up to the plate and cart responsibility for your mistake AND the little one. at your age, you can't take care of the poor baby and it's not reasonable to bring it into the world with a handicap. now that you realize it's not all fun and games and , adjectives of a sudden, OOPS.. make a decision as quickly as you can for the sake of the fetus.
First of all, I noticed a great deal of people that answered your question are being jerk and keep saying that you are NOT OLD ENOUGH to do this and do that. Well, that is clearly not true cuz you are 13. You may be infantile, but your body is old enough to have a little one. And there are no age requirements for having a baby. BUT, you do enjoy a disadvantage because it is going to be hard for you to raise a baby at your age.
If you conjecture you're not strong enough for adoption, DON'T do it. You will probably regret it later on. You should keep your child. Don't give up just because you are not able to find a living. When you get in high institution, they have summer jobs available in the trade center at every school. Your relationship with your parents might be a little rough surrounded by the beginning, but they will eventually get over it and help you out.
Best wishes to you and your babe.
Oh and don't worry too much about what other people's opinions are give or take a few you. Just make sure you are happy with doesn`t matter what decision you make.
Some inhabitants are being a bit harsh here. Not the best of judgement on your part but since you've ruled out abortion afterwards you'll have to talk to your parents first. Then follow their advice on what to do. I'm 13 too and I craving you and your baby the best of luck. I guess it seems really awful now but you'll go and get through it. Like someone else said, just love the kid and be the best mom you can be and that's all anyone can expect of you. WIth a little relief from your family you'll do fine. Wish you the best and if you ever need someone to vent to, I'll listen =D
kookidoh@hotmail.com
Just please, please please don't worry, stay strong, and know that you are NOT alone.
There are so several girls going through the same thing that you are!
I know you probably regret having sex at such a infantile age, but whats done is done.
You can't take back time.
So, if I were you, I would a short time ago learn to accept the fact that you are pregnant.
Do your parents know even so? If not, you should tell them.
Why can't you get an abortion again? Yes, it is wrong. But in your
situation... it seem necesary. You are not ready to have this child,
and having the child very soon will make your life even harder...
You don't even have a employment to provide anything for this child.
Talk to your parents. Or whoever. An adult you trust, maybe.
Call a hotline for pregnant teens in your nouns.
Do something to help, and don't stress.
By your spelling skills, you were paying more attention to sex that your studies. Talk to your parents, and the best article you can do for that child is to give it up for adoption. At your age you're not going to take the appropriate care, and us the due payers will end up paying for it. And for heavens sake next time close your legs and tend to your studies.
Good luck!
Im not going to put you down bring i known girls 9 yrs old and pregnant. talk to your parents inflict your going to need someone to help you and to support your baby. subsequent you need to think how you are going to be there for your babe-in-arms while your still in school cause baby's bear alot more than love to get taken care of. and third you have to realise not everyone is going to be in that and your risking your friends your child hood and everything you wanted. its not all about you anymore . its more or less your baby
good luck!
talk to your parents
well within my country so much of that happens and i am tired of hearing teenage pregnancies. But the best point to do is talk to your parents about it. The last and the worst entity you could do is to abort the baby. I know you might be frightened and think your parents might evict you but it is the only preference you have. I hope I helped and good luck to you and your babe. Don't be a fool twice and get pregnant again. Oh and about the dude who got you pregnant. If he is a man himself, you could sue him for rape.
As another answerer said, lately talk to your parents.
You're in a difficult position, and you need their serve.
oh god, um well of cousre tlk to ur parents for push for. do some research on parenting a new born, wut to buy, etc.
jus love ur baby and be a good mom
best of luck
Answers: People are being harsh in their answers? Come on in a minute, what we have here is a clear case of making decisions, seeing the consequences of the decision, and looking for a way out of them, but listing what she "can't" do.
What do you need immediately, at age 13, assuming this is a legitimate question and not a troll looking to stir things up? Support. So start by talking to parents. The world won't back, and they won't throw you out of the street. They might be disappointed and rant a bit, but after that they will help you. It is their grandson or daughter after all.
The father being "out of the picture" which I assume manner he doesn't like you anymore and isn't willing to help, doesn't mingy he isn't the father with an 18 year obligation to support his child. Your parents can help you within getting that started, and if he is over 18 it's quite possible he can be arrested.
Remember to start prenatal care for the sake of the baby (yes, little one, not fetus or any of the other names the people use to make him or her smaller number a person and less real). If you don't have the money for it, or medical insurance, travel talk to the county about getting some type of aid. It's not just you presently.
Also, stay in school. You aren't the first to be pregnant and you won't be the last, but individual a high school drop out is going to set the tone for the rest of your life, and your spelling skills yelp to the need for education.
And decide immediately what you are going to do sexually. Of course the best thing to do is not. But be honest with yourself, and do whatever it take to not be in this situation again. Remember that birth control will not prevent STDs.
Lastly, don't underestimate your strength. It will surprise you. Now, go talk to mom (yes, mom first, consent to her tell dad). Good luck.
You do have the people that made you! You ARE very immature but they will help you raise the baby. Parents are VERY loving they will take. Just tell them.
Ohhh ouch..
Well I have a friend who have a baby last year and she was so worried something like not being a good mother and telling her parents. Not to metion the father of the babe triped balls at her and dumped her -_-*. ***.
When she told her parents, they were very disapointed surrounded by her, but they were glad she told them. She was happy that she did it and it be for the best.
So you have to tell your parents, no matter how much it might panic you, my friend told me it was like lifting 1000pounds off her stern.
I wish the best for you and your baby =)!!
And if you have any question about your baby, I'll be happy to backing. (I know all about it, I was near her through everything) Source(s): I was with my friend when she was going through her pregnancy and she be 14 when she had her baby.
Run and run as fast as you can
i love that you said no abortion if u cant get a job adoption is your best bet i can merely tell u what i believe u have 2 make the declaration on your own
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