How do I minister to my friend realize that?
She isn't ready for a kid.
Well first off i'm 17 and 30 weeks pregnant. My baby be not planned at all and was probably the biggest shock of my life. I cogitate she may just be excited about my baby coming and such but only just she's beem telling me about how she wants to receive pregnant and have a baby too and that she's going to stop taking birth control pills.
I don't know what to say to her, she's lone 17 and I don't want her to have to deal with some of the things i'm going through. But I don't want to be close to "You'll ruin your life." Because I don't think my life is going to be "ruined" It's kinda similar to a pot calling the kettle black type thing, how can i talk to her about it when i,myself, am going to bequeath birth in a few weeks?
You may want to bring up to date her that every pregnancy is different. It can be so hard for people, (I had morning sickness for the first 18 weeks) I couldn't jump to school, and had to get home-schooled (I'm 16). My friends couldn't come see me as much as they needed. They said it felt like I was abandon them.
Sure, I'm ecstatic about having my babe-in-arms in December, but it's definitely tough. Maybe you should tell her that it isn't going to be effortless. Or tell her to wait until after you have your newborn so she can really see if that's what she's going to want. (:
Good luck! You're a great friend. (:
Well hopefully she will wait until your baby is born, and she can spend plentifully of time with you so that she can see how hard it is, and how much work it really is. (sorry, not trying to freak you out) But there are profusely of young people out there who ruminate pregnancy is more like a novelty, or fashion statement...every body's doing it. But nouns is extremely hard work, it changes everything, and if you're not ready for it.you cant catch a refund.
Answers: I, too, had a baby at 17. You can basically explain to her that yes you may be excited to be having a baby but it is very difficult and enlighten her the ways that it has so far impacted your life. Try to show her the things that will change after the kid is born. Write down the expenses for having a child such as diapers, clothes, formula and child care. And that even with support from line and friends, it is very difficult raising a child. If she plans on going to college let her know how firm it will be to pay for child care and that you can't be a regular young college student because you will own a baby to take care of. Tell her that even though you are have a baby that is really not the best situation you could have be in at 17 and you are now trying to make the best of it but you really choice you had waited until later surrounded by life and you hope that she does too. Good luck!
This seems like a hard interview to answer, i would seriously sit her down and tell her she should just wait. Yes children are ADORABLE but long restless night and not being married is just something you should wait for.
THIS HAPPENED TO ME.
At school, some girl kept telling me she needed to get pregnant so badly. She was individual 15. I kept telling her the horrible stuff of pregnancy. Well guess what? 6 weeks later she tells me she is 4 weeks pregnant. I be like "that sucks..."
Some girls won't listen and won't know unless they are in that situation.
Try to tell her the horrible stuff and that one week's worth of diapers is resembling 50$+
and other stuff.
Good luck
consent to her do what she wants, you will be a hypocrite for telling her shes too young to own a baby. youre the same age.. Source(s): common sense
ask her the tough question like how is she going to support the child how would she feel if she had a miscarriage remind her that 1 in4 pregnancies do cessation in miscarriage it's hard truth but i think it will work
First of all it sounds like you've got your lead on straight and will be a really great mom even if you're doing it at an early age.
I cant tell you enough ho w several friends I've seen have a baby at a babyish age in high school or directly after. Make sure she understand that having a baby is all cute and sweet while your pregnant (especially for those looking inward at someone who is) but.. the realness is that its hard. Its not something that you can just decide on a impulse that you think you'll have a kid today.
Even though your pregnancy was not planned, and you've prepared yourself, backing her see that this is not exactly what you had in mind and would wish upon her as economically just because she thinks it looks good from her point of viewpoint.
Perhaps after the baby comes, be blunt/graphic with her about what the birth be like. She may realize "oh my god this is not what I think it is at all"
Tell her as a good friend, you can bring up to date her FIRST HAND that this is not easy and something that you can fully prepare for at any age. I think she may be a little toddler star stuck but hopefully once you've delivered she can realize that being pregnant and having a child and raise it are very different and a lot of work.
You'll be a great mom and the best of luck to you! Source(s): I've seen seriously of my friends have children at a young age.
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Well first off i'm 17 and 30 weeks pregnant. My baby be not planned at all and was probably the biggest shock of my life. I cogitate she may just be excited about my baby coming and such but only just she's beem telling me about how she wants to receive pregnant and have a baby too and that she's going to stop taking birth control pills.
I don't know what to say to her, she's lone 17 and I don't want her to have to deal with some of the things i'm going through. But I don't want to be close to "You'll ruin your life." Because I don't think my life is going to be "ruined" It's kinda similar to a pot calling the kettle black type thing, how can i talk to her about it when i,myself, am going to bequeath birth in a few weeks?
You may want to bring up to date her that every pregnancy is different. It can be so hard for people, (I had morning sickness for the first 18 weeks) I couldn't jump to school, and had to get home-schooled (I'm 16). My friends couldn't come see me as much as they needed. They said it felt like I was abandon them.
Sure, I'm ecstatic about having my babe-in-arms in December, but it's definitely tough. Maybe you should tell her that it isn't going to be effortless. Or tell her to wait until after you have your newborn so she can really see if that's what she's going to want. (:
Good luck! You're a great friend. (:
Well hopefully she will wait until your baby is born, and she can spend plentifully of time with you so that she can see how hard it is, and how much work it really is. (sorry, not trying to freak you out) But there are profusely of young people out there who ruminate pregnancy is more like a novelty, or fashion statement...every body's doing it. But nouns is extremely hard work, it changes everything, and if you're not ready for it.you cant catch a refund.
Answers: I, too, had a baby at 17. You can basically explain to her that yes you may be excited to be having a baby but it is very difficult and enlighten her the ways that it has so far impacted your life. Try to show her the things that will change after the kid is born. Write down the expenses for having a child such as diapers, clothes, formula and child care. And that even with support from line and friends, it is very difficult raising a child. If she plans on going to college let her know how firm it will be to pay for child care and that you can't be a regular young college student because you will own a baby to take care of. Tell her that even though you are have a baby that is really not the best situation you could have be in at 17 and you are now trying to make the best of it but you really choice you had waited until later surrounded by life and you hope that she does too. Good luck!
This seems like a hard interview to answer, i would seriously sit her down and tell her she should just wait. Yes children are ADORABLE but long restless night and not being married is just something you should wait for.
THIS HAPPENED TO ME.
At school, some girl kept telling me she needed to get pregnant so badly. She was individual 15. I kept telling her the horrible stuff of pregnancy. Well guess what? 6 weeks later she tells me she is 4 weeks pregnant. I be like "that sucks..."
Some girls won't listen and won't know unless they are in that situation.
Try to tell her the horrible stuff and that one week's worth of diapers is resembling 50$+
and other stuff.
Good luck
consent to her do what she wants, you will be a hypocrite for telling her shes too young to own a baby. youre the same age.. Source(s): common sense
ask her the tough question like how is she going to support the child how would she feel if she had a miscarriage remind her that 1 in4 pregnancies do cessation in miscarriage it's hard truth but i think it will work
First of all it sounds like you've got your lead on straight and will be a really great mom even if you're doing it at an early age.
I cant tell you enough ho w several friends I've seen have a baby at a babyish age in high school or directly after. Make sure she understand that having a baby is all cute and sweet while your pregnant (especially for those looking inward at someone who is) but.. the realness is that its hard. Its not something that you can just decide on a impulse that you think you'll have a kid today.
Even though your pregnancy was not planned, and you've prepared yourself, backing her see that this is not exactly what you had in mind and would wish upon her as economically just because she thinks it looks good from her point of viewpoint.
Perhaps after the baby comes, be blunt/graphic with her about what the birth be like. She may realize "oh my god this is not what I think it is at all"
Tell her as a good friend, you can bring up to date her FIRST HAND that this is not easy and something that you can fully prepare for at any age. I think she may be a little toddler star stuck but hopefully once you've delivered she can realize that being pregnant and having a child and raise it are very different and a lot of work.
You'll be a great mom and the best of luck to you! Source(s): I've seen seriously of my friends have children at a young age.
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