"How far along are you?"...I'm not even pregnant :(?

Today when I got home, I was going up the elevator and this women turned to me and said, "How far along are you?" I was so red and upset to tell her I wasn't pregnant. Sure I laughed it off, incentive all those extra pounds goes right to my stomach. Its weird, my arms and legs and water down, yet all my extra pounds goes right to my stomach, which does get me look pregnant. I wasn't upset over the fact she was basically calling me portly, but it ripped out my heart saying I'm not pregnant.

We've been trying to conceive for 19 months now. I've merely had enough. We're not 'trying-trying", like we're not doing charts and not forcing sex. We only do it when we feel like it. I'm just so depressed right in a minute. I try not to think about it, but its moments like this explicitly just heart breaking and puts me right in the dumps.

Has this ever happened to you?
Any tips to minister to TTC?
some women just convey weight in the tummy im the same. draw from bloated alot to. wouldnt let it bother you! after i had my son 8 months after i was within hospital went to get a tea, the lady asked me when i be due..i wasnt very nice to her tho lol i said im fat not pregnant love!! try haveing a care free attitude just about it.

as for trying to concieve- maybe pop to your doctor and have a chat they open up a proceeds of help to you. might be worth a go

wish you lots of luck
I wish people would say that to me, i of late look fat! I'm 22 weeks tomorrow and i was only a UK size 10-12 to start next to.

I was TTC for almost 2 years and had numerous M/C's. My best tip is relax, stop thinking about little one making and enjoy your sex life, that's what made it happen for me, and my little girl is stuck hurriedly :]

Good Luck & Baby dust
xx
Sometimes other people own weird premonitions and they could be right. Have you taken a pregnancy test recently? You never know you could be pregnant.
What I would hold done, is be polite and lie to her saying "I'm only give or take a few 3 months" and then left. It does make both of you have a feeling awkward to tell the truth and say "I'm not pregnant." I had be approached several times before being pregnant about whether or not I be, and I laughed it off too. But it also made me quite upset. Now I want those days hindmost. Source(s): 37 weeks pregnant
yes, lol but i be like 15! i dyed! after that i went on a diet. some ppl just take action diff to other ppls comments!!


i see you said you have a lil extra weight, im telling you if you loss some, and guzzle right and take prenatal vitamins everyday, you will get pregnant. and don't "try" anymore! that's how it happen for me!! i want you the best of luck and im sending a load of baby dust your way!! it will crop up!! Source(s): almost 26 weeks!
I am 37w 1d pregnant and we conceived after 3 months of trying and the following month not trying and I came up pregnant. It took us four months total.

If you have a regular 28 day cycle, you should ovulate roughly 14-17 days after the start of your ending period. However, some can be different so I would go to the drug store and buy an ovulation predictor apparatus to find out where your window is and definitely track it. After you own sex, lay on your back and keep your knees bent into you chest for about 30 minutes to preserve the semen inside of you. I hope this helps and best of luck.

Baby dust to you!

37w 1d pregnant with a precious baby girl!
I'm sorry.
I wish you luck, and LOTS OF BABY DUST*
I'm sorry she mistook you for pregnant :o(

As for TTC, I would start trying to chart your cycles and plan sex around your date of ovulation. If you aren't timing when you have sex, then there is a pious chance you're missing that window every month.

good luck!
I be at my sister in law's baby shower (so she was at most minuscule 7 months along) and greeting people at the door. One of the guests (my MIL's friend) came up and went to put her foot on my stomach. I thought it was kind of strange, and grabbed her appendage as if to shake it. She said, "Oh, you're one of those that doesn't like your pregnant belly to be touched? But it's just so perfect!" Um...no. I'm one of those that doesn't approaching my simply fat stomach to be touched. BACK AWAY!! It didn't help that I was for anything reason overly emotional that day. My husband and I be trying (secretly) for our own. I crazily wished that the emotions was a sign of pregnancy. It wasn't. :-(

It's tough for me to be around my SIL and her pretty baby, my beautiful nephew. I love him so much, but I can't bring myself to be around him sometimes. It does not help that she's going through severe PPD and have vocalized not wanting him around. (It is even worse because I know she and my BIL had been trying for a year to get pregnant, too.)

If you want to conceive, I would suggest you start by TRYING trying. Yeah, I know the total 'back into it' method; that's how we started. But it will increase your chances if you know when to time your sex to give you the best probability.
Answers:    People should never ask if someone is pregnant no matter how sure they think they are. I hear about that scheduled all of the time, people asking someone how far along they are when they aren't actually pregnant. A lot of women fetch all their extra weight in their belly. I enjoy and will never ask any one that question because I would never want to hurt anyones feelings or embarrass someone. It has never happen to me, but I know how you feel in a way. I am oddly thin even now that I'm pregnant (17 weeks along) and I always bring rude comments about my weight. I've been call anorexic, disgustingly skinny, "Auschwitz", people say all sorts of miserable things to me. I do everything I can to try to gain weight, but nothing works. You just can't tolerate those people get to you I guess.

About TTC: I got pregnant 2 weeks after coming sour the pill. We just had sex when we felt resembling it and it happened. I think it really just depends how fertile you both are. You might want to enjoy your fertility checked with the doctor to make sure neither of you have any problem within that department. Good luck hun.
I'm guessing i'm around ten weeks. We tried (my husband) for over a year, and I'm surrounded by the same boat too with the fat around the stomach..but it didn't appear until recently that we did it and it worked somehow. I always had irregularities. I be worried that it was like 3 months without a interval and that's when I found out. I think it might have been from adjectives the walking I've been doing since I go to school full time. Good luck, when it happen it will happen. This baby is a miracle to us.
Sorry to hear that hun.

I'm going to email you with one specific question before I hand over you some tips. So watch for it! :)
Awww. I am sorry. Yea, that would suck. I learned a long time ago not to ask that question unless I was SURE of the pregnancy. It can be knotty TTC. And there is a time that you just want to give up and when TTC #2, we did bestow up and that was the very month that I got pregnant. Now #1 be not planned. #3 was relatively easy. We BD'ed everynight! We did not chart or use OPK's or anything like that. We only had fun with each other and here we are. Good luck to you and I hope that you win your little miracle very soon. Lots of baby dust to you!

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