15 and pregnant?...…
I am 15 and 15 weeks pregnant with twins... I AM STRESSED TO THE MAX like everyday i am trying not to snap my great aunt is visiting and she is immensely religiousa... She keeps treating me like a baby adage i shouldda waited till marriage and i should have abort the babies it is stressing me out to the max i cry myself to sleep all the time since she showed up and ince she start stressing me i have been getting discouraging pains in my side. I am beyond knowing what to do any advice..?
Plus: My Boyfriend proposed earlier today do you give attention to we should be married before the babies i am using his last name adjectives the time and we have got through alot and made it a year... What do you think??
you did the right thing and didn't abort
All you can do is distance yourself from the negativity and try not to worry about it. I think you should continue on getting married, you've only been together a year and that really isn't much time at all. I would loaf until after you have the babies and then raise them together, if your relationship can trademark it the first year with 1 baby, let alone 2, later you get married. The first year is the true test and its better to do it without person married because if it doesn't work out, you don't want to have to go through getting divorced.
i think you did a great article by not aborting and don't let her get to you my aunt is similar to that too. i wish you the best of luck and congrats ! the marriage thing is up to you ego wait because marriage is a big step ! GOOD LUCK
you should do what your heart tells you to. if you really believe that you two can create it through and stay to keep each other company, love each other, and for the babe; then get marry. as for your great aunt, try to stay away from her as much as possible or explain how you feel nearly her saying all those things. for the sake of yourself and your baby, do not agree to her get to you because there is a great risk.
YOU SHOULD LET ME TALK TO UR AUNT I GOT A COUPLE RUDE WORDS FOR HER nd can u stay with ur bf until she leaves
and congradualtions on the twins
hope u nd ur boyfriends r happy together!
=]
I'm glad u didn't abort. But have you considered adoption? Can you care for ur children financially? Ignore your aunt. Anyone that give advice of what u should have done in the recent past is just dumb. Marriage is tough. I got married at 19 which is considered young but I have already graduated from college with a bachelors I just finished elevated school early. Also didn't have kids. I don't know u or ur bf but I really do assume u r waaaay 2 young. U have two little babies to focus on right now.
Answers: Just cut your aunt. A lot of older people are traditional. I am nineteen and expecting my first and I just yell at a woman for mouthing that I was not married nor was I planning on it and I do not talk to the father.
And it take courage that you are keeping your babies. A lot of girls your age would abort them or give them up for adoption. Just keep your head high-ranking and make sure to remind your auntie how happy you are about everything. She will soon lay rotten.
About stress. I listen to soothing music. I wouldn't take it to extremes in buying a cd full of water falls. I listen to Indie music to keep hold of calm. Doll yourself up and always make sure you gurgle.
[: <3
I HAD MY FIRST WHEN I WAS 16 AND IT MADE MY LIFE SO MUCH BETTER... U NEED TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART! AND GOD GAVE U 2 FOR A REASON! TWICE THE BLESSING NOT TWICE THE PUNISHMENT.. LOL
IF YOUR AUNT IS SO RELIGIOUSE SHE WOULDNT APROVE OF ABORTION... GOOD LUCK HANG IN THERE THEY ARE YOUR BABIES NO ONE ELSES AND TRY NOT TO STRESS TOO MUCH FOR THE SAKE OF 2 HEALTH BABIES :) Source(s): MOTHER OF 2 GIRLS
One year isn't plenty but it's you and your bf's decision.
My bf and I have been together for 2 years. He's 18 and I'm 17, we love respectively other dearly and said maybe in the next year we will consider bridal, but who knows?
Give it time.
Our son is gonna have his last baptize, I decided on that.
Get used to the ppl saying things.
I did.
thanks for not abort
try not to let your emotions go crazy for the babies sakes
your great aunt is human being ridiculous
if you love him and think the relationship will last then why not?
honest luck, im sure you'll be a great mother!
Honestly the marriage point is your choice. I say it all depends on how old he is and if he is older enough to support you and if you guys have people who can back you then I dont see any reason why not. You cannot raise two children lacking any help, it is hard enough for me to lift up one child and Im married. Being around someone who only puts you down is going to make it a million times worse when your babies get here. Dont cry, it will mete out stress on your babies and you dont want that. If you need someone to talk to you can definately talk to me. I be a pregnant teen myself I got married at 17, im now 19 we own our own house, and we do NOT live off the political affairs and the only time we did was for the end of my pregnancy. I love my time, and im sure you will make the right decision for you and your little family. malabubarbie20002002@yahoo.com
just by curiosity
is your moniker keegan?
Thats what happens when you catch pregnant young.
People give you **** for it. It's going to keep scheduled, so you'll have to suck it up. It sucks, I'm sure, but you put yourself in that position. Don't expect pity. She's religious, what did you expect?
I think you should lurk another year or so to get married.
You're teenagers, your minds could change.
edit: LOL since when is human being honest the same as being rude? And you can't choose what kind of those answer your questions.
well i really don't think that u should capture married just cause u have babies. me and my boyfriend are pregnant also near twins and we have only been dating for 9 months so we own decided to wait to get married even though we are 27 weeks pregnant. as for your aunt u i know that it's sturdy but u can't let her get to u stress is bad for the babies. hold u guys decided to keep them. maybe u could travel stay with your boyfriends family if yours is stressing u to much twin pregnancy is already harder then a majority one so u should do everything u can to stay clam and as stress free for your babies i maybe a little older later u but i still now how u feel if u really need someone to tell to u can email me i won't judge just listen and try to help u out accurate luck hope that helped a little !
People will hate me for wise saying this, but...if you and your boyfriend are both responsible adults (acting-like anyway) then YES, I wholeheartedly think that you should get married. But NOT if the merely reason is because of the babies.
I don't agree with premarital sex, but what's done is done. This can still go right. Those babies will be a blessing. God say ALL children are blessings. I do think you should also try to get involved with a church. They won't conciliator you, and they can help you a lot. Help you find people to comfort you take care of the babies and help you procure through tough times. It's worth it. God always provides.
I wish you the best of luck!
My proposal is to avoid your aunt. Seriously I know your young but this kind of stress (any kind of stress) is simply not god for your babies time. Your young and having twins so I assume its going to be more high risk afterwards somebody carrying one. The last thing you need is to traffic with that. Yes you made a mistake your learning from it. I'm sure it wasn't intentional. Your doing the right thing, you call for to follow your heart with the marriage thing. I deliberate its great that he wants to marry you. But if I were you I would wait it out. Not because I meditate you guys are young or whatever. But I don't think you stipulation to be married in order to have children or to prove your love to one another. My boyfriend and I own been together for over 6 years (got together when I was 15 him 18) and been together ever since and be due (actually I'm pretty sure I'm in labor right now EARLY LABOR) with our second son Saturday. Were doing great, and I intuitively am not ready to get married. I don't see the rush. We want to do it right and have the wedding/honeymoon of our dreams. Were waiting till our boys are a bit older and then tying the notes. He isn't going anywhere and I'm not worried.
Follow your heart. If you want to go and get married do it, but do it because that's what you want not because of your aunt being religious. Shes your family yes I know but sometimes you just stipulation to do with out especially if shes going to act like this. . Have you tried discussion to her? Or your mother or whom ever you live with? How do they feel, maybe they can communicate her to back off...
Good luck hun. Feel free to add me as a contact and contact me if you enjoy need anyone to talk to.
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Plus: My Boyfriend proposed earlier today do you give attention to we should be married before the babies i am using his last name adjectives the time and we have got through alot and made it a year... What do you think??
you did the right thing and didn't abort
All you can do is distance yourself from the negativity and try not to worry about it. I think you should continue on getting married, you've only been together a year and that really isn't much time at all. I would loaf until after you have the babies and then raise them together, if your relationship can trademark it the first year with 1 baby, let alone 2, later you get married. The first year is the true test and its better to do it without person married because if it doesn't work out, you don't want to have to go through getting divorced.
i think you did a great article by not aborting and don't let her get to you my aunt is similar to that too. i wish you the best of luck and congrats ! the marriage thing is up to you ego wait because marriage is a big step ! GOOD LUCK
you should do what your heart tells you to. if you really believe that you two can create it through and stay to keep each other company, love each other, and for the babe; then get marry. as for your great aunt, try to stay away from her as much as possible or explain how you feel nearly her saying all those things. for the sake of yourself and your baby, do not agree to her get to you because there is a great risk.
YOU SHOULD LET ME TALK TO UR AUNT I GOT A COUPLE RUDE WORDS FOR HER nd can u stay with ur bf until she leaves
and congradualtions on the twins
hope u nd ur boyfriends r happy together!
=]
I'm glad u didn't abort. But have you considered adoption? Can you care for ur children financially? Ignore your aunt. Anyone that give advice of what u should have done in the recent past is just dumb. Marriage is tough. I got married at 19 which is considered young but I have already graduated from college with a bachelors I just finished elevated school early. Also didn't have kids. I don't know u or ur bf but I really do assume u r waaaay 2 young. U have two little babies to focus on right now.
Answers: Just cut your aunt. A lot of older people are traditional. I am nineteen and expecting my first and I just yell at a woman for mouthing that I was not married nor was I planning on it and I do not talk to the father.
And it take courage that you are keeping your babies. A lot of girls your age would abort them or give them up for adoption. Just keep your head high-ranking and make sure to remind your auntie how happy you are about everything. She will soon lay rotten.
About stress. I listen to soothing music. I wouldn't take it to extremes in buying a cd full of water falls. I listen to Indie music to keep hold of calm. Doll yourself up and always make sure you gurgle.
[: <3
I HAD MY FIRST WHEN I WAS 16 AND IT MADE MY LIFE SO MUCH BETTER... U NEED TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART! AND GOD GAVE U 2 FOR A REASON! TWICE THE BLESSING NOT TWICE THE PUNISHMENT.. LOL
IF YOUR AUNT IS SO RELIGIOUSE SHE WOULDNT APROVE OF ABORTION... GOOD LUCK HANG IN THERE THEY ARE YOUR BABIES NO ONE ELSES AND TRY NOT TO STRESS TOO MUCH FOR THE SAKE OF 2 HEALTH BABIES :) Source(s): MOTHER OF 2 GIRLS
One year isn't plenty but it's you and your bf's decision.
My bf and I have been together for 2 years. He's 18 and I'm 17, we love respectively other dearly and said maybe in the next year we will consider bridal, but who knows?
Give it time.
Our son is gonna have his last baptize, I decided on that.
Get used to the ppl saying things.
I did.
thanks for not abort
try not to let your emotions go crazy for the babies sakes
your great aunt is human being ridiculous
if you love him and think the relationship will last then why not?
honest luck, im sure you'll be a great mother!
Honestly the marriage point is your choice. I say it all depends on how old he is and if he is older enough to support you and if you guys have people who can back you then I dont see any reason why not. You cannot raise two children lacking any help, it is hard enough for me to lift up one child and Im married. Being around someone who only puts you down is going to make it a million times worse when your babies get here. Dont cry, it will mete out stress on your babies and you dont want that. If you need someone to talk to you can definately talk to me. I be a pregnant teen myself I got married at 17, im now 19 we own our own house, and we do NOT live off the political affairs and the only time we did was for the end of my pregnancy. I love my time, and im sure you will make the right decision for you and your little family. malabubarbie20002002@yahoo.com
just by curiosity
is your moniker keegan?
Thats what happens when you catch pregnant young.
People give you **** for it. It's going to keep scheduled, so you'll have to suck it up. It sucks, I'm sure, but you put yourself in that position. Don't expect pity. She's religious, what did you expect?
I think you should lurk another year or so to get married.
You're teenagers, your minds could change.
edit: LOL since when is human being honest the same as being rude? And you can't choose what kind of those answer your questions.
well i really don't think that u should capture married just cause u have babies. me and my boyfriend are pregnant also near twins and we have only been dating for 9 months so we own decided to wait to get married even though we are 27 weeks pregnant. as for your aunt u i know that it's sturdy but u can't let her get to u stress is bad for the babies. hold u guys decided to keep them. maybe u could travel stay with your boyfriends family if yours is stressing u to much twin pregnancy is already harder then a majority one so u should do everything u can to stay clam and as stress free for your babies i maybe a little older later u but i still now how u feel if u really need someone to tell to u can email me i won't judge just listen and try to help u out accurate luck hope that helped a little !
People will hate me for wise saying this, but...if you and your boyfriend are both responsible adults (acting-like anyway) then YES, I wholeheartedly think that you should get married. But NOT if the merely reason is because of the babies.
I don't agree with premarital sex, but what's done is done. This can still go right. Those babies will be a blessing. God say ALL children are blessings. I do think you should also try to get involved with a church. They won't conciliator you, and they can help you a lot. Help you find people to comfort you take care of the babies and help you procure through tough times. It's worth it. God always provides.
I wish you the best of luck!
My proposal is to avoid your aunt. Seriously I know your young but this kind of stress (any kind of stress) is simply not god for your babies time. Your young and having twins so I assume its going to be more high risk afterwards somebody carrying one. The last thing you need is to traffic with that. Yes you made a mistake your learning from it. I'm sure it wasn't intentional. Your doing the right thing, you call for to follow your heart with the marriage thing. I deliberate its great that he wants to marry you. But if I were you I would wait it out. Not because I meditate you guys are young or whatever. But I don't think you stipulation to be married in order to have children or to prove your love to one another. My boyfriend and I own been together for over 6 years (got together when I was 15 him 18) and been together ever since and be due (actually I'm pretty sure I'm in labor right now EARLY LABOR) with our second son Saturday. Were doing great, and I intuitively am not ready to get married. I don't see the rush. We want to do it right and have the wedding/honeymoon of our dreams. Were waiting till our boys are a bit older and then tying the notes. He isn't going anywhere and I'm not worried.
Follow your heart. If you want to go and get married do it, but do it because that's what you want not because of your aunt being religious. Shes your family yes I know but sometimes you just stipulation to do with out especially if shes going to act like this. . Have you tried discussion to her? Or your mother or whom ever you live with? How do they feel, maybe they can communicate her to back off...
Good luck hun. Feel free to add me as a contact and contact me if you enjoy need anyone to talk to.
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