I NEED AN ANSWER ASAP!?
Do NOT answer unless you read my other posts. Okay my son is 15 years old and does not want to be alone at all! He woke up and screamed and said he have a bad dream and he asked me to stay with him. I asked what his dream was roughly and he said "Oh...uh...nothing." I said well it had to be something if you scream. he said it was just a dream about the dark he got drunk.I asked what happened and he said "Well nothing besides what I told you. I don't know why I scream. It wasn't scary. Sorry." I said it's fine I am his mother and that's what I am there for. He smiled and said thanks. I asked if he be tired and he said "No. I know you are tired but please PLEASE stay awake! I just don't...want to be alone. Please!" I said I am not tired and I said " Can I ask you something? Don't get upset I am just asking" He said yea so I asked why he doesn't want to be alone? Is it something you should make clear to me? He got upset and started crying but he managed to say "I..I merely don't know." What should I do now? I comforted him because he is crying but why is he crying? Please help!
It'll probably be his hormones...maybe explicitly why he's crying! I think he is crying because he dosn't want to be alone anywere, anytime...GOOD LUCK!
comfort him.
theres nothing more he needs
now, than a suitable sense of security.
open up to him about your own stories
from your adolescense, than he'll surface
much more comfortable talking to youu
about what happened.
my parents did it, & it worked.
hope i help.
((:
& i hope your sons okay, too.
edit: when i first read this
the first thing i thought
was rape, i dunno' why.
investigate, you must.
tell him 2 STFU
If he will not tell you, tell him you are going to take him to the ER so they can fully check him over. Which includes things that are much worse later just telling you.
Sarie, count your blessings that you hold a son who is so wonderful as to come to you for comfort. I know many mothers who would give anything for that, their sons are so emotionally and physically distant from them! Just be there for him, it will exceed! (though hopefully not the physical affection!)
i really do think its rape. i dont know why. it just jump out to me.
many diff answrs but hard to tell... it could be puberty and his hormones are only just messin with his sytem of being over emotionally and clingy to the person who care for him..or... if he keeps dreaming bout the night he got drunk.. afterwards as a mother you should take this very seriously.. wut if something happened that dark that he is afraid to tell you.. whether if it was sumone who hurt him.. or he hurt sumone.. who knows but something serious is bothering him and of late have to sit there and tell him wutevr happen that night you wont get mad if he tell you.. let him know he can tell you anything and that you are just nearby to help him.. no matter how bad or serious it I don`t know.. he needs to let it out n say it ..or it is in recent times guna continue to bother him until he tells someone! good luck beside this mission and hope all turns out for the best!
I know for a fact its hormones.
probably just a desperate dream and his hormones all over the place,
do what any other mother would do,
and just hug him and be there for him
he doesn't recognize why his body , emoticons and himself is changing.
as you already know he just needs company ,
you may give attention to i never went through this so why is he?
but the answer is some people feel well-mannered through hormones,
some feel terrible and all different reason
hope this is the answer your looking for :)
Answers: It sounds complicated. I do believe something else happened to him, and I'm guessing the worst, but you've get to let him tell you in his own time. Even if nil happened remember that 15 years olds are full of huge crashing waves or hormones doing terrible things to their emotion and sense of security about the world. he'll tell yo when he requests to, in the mean time stick by him, do whatever he wants and you'll be ok.
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It'll probably be his hormones...maybe explicitly why he's crying! I think he is crying because he dosn't want to be alone anywere, anytime...GOOD LUCK!
comfort him.
theres nothing more he needs
now, than a suitable sense of security.
open up to him about your own stories
from your adolescense, than he'll surface
much more comfortable talking to youu
about what happened.
my parents did it, & it worked.
hope i help.
((:
& i hope your sons okay, too.
edit: when i first read this
the first thing i thought
was rape, i dunno' why.
investigate, you must.
tell him 2 STFU
If he will not tell you, tell him you are going to take him to the ER so they can fully check him over. Which includes things that are much worse later just telling you.
Sarie, count your blessings that you hold a son who is so wonderful as to come to you for comfort. I know many mothers who would give anything for that, their sons are so emotionally and physically distant from them! Just be there for him, it will exceed! (though hopefully not the physical affection!)
i really do think its rape. i dont know why. it just jump out to me.
many diff answrs but hard to tell... it could be puberty and his hormones are only just messin with his sytem of being over emotionally and clingy to the person who care for him..or... if he keeps dreaming bout the night he got drunk.. afterwards as a mother you should take this very seriously.. wut if something happened that dark that he is afraid to tell you.. whether if it was sumone who hurt him.. or he hurt sumone.. who knows but something serious is bothering him and of late have to sit there and tell him wutevr happen that night you wont get mad if he tell you.. let him know he can tell you anything and that you are just nearby to help him.. no matter how bad or serious it I don`t know.. he needs to let it out n say it ..or it is in recent times guna continue to bother him until he tells someone! good luck beside this mission and hope all turns out for the best!
I know for a fact its hormones.
probably just a desperate dream and his hormones all over the place,
do what any other mother would do,
and just hug him and be there for him
he doesn't recognize why his body , emoticons and himself is changing.
as you already know he just needs company ,
you may give attention to i never went through this so why is he?
but the answer is some people feel well-mannered through hormones,
some feel terrible and all different reason
hope this is the answer your looking for :)
Answers: It sounds complicated. I do believe something else happened to him, and I'm guessing the worst, but you've get to let him tell you in his own time. Even if nil happened remember that 15 years olds are full of huge crashing waves or hormones doing terrible things to their emotion and sense of security about the world. he'll tell yo when he requests to, in the mean time stick by him, do whatever he wants and you'll be ok.
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