4 year hoary stealing.?
it was my nephews birthday party on sunday, he was 5, so in that was all the family in that, well everyone who has a child around the same age, my cousin is 4 who be also there.
my sister has just have a baby last monday, i had bought the infant a teddy bear, id gone the tag on and wrote "to ~~~~ love from ~~~~" as you do...
my sister told me today she had lost the teddy i bought for her tot, i said oh its ok, you've been giving alot of new toys and clothes and stuff, probs just misplaced it.
tonight my mum be baby sitting my cousin at my cousins house while her mum was at work, she called me and said the cuddly toy was at her house with the tag still on beside my hand writing in.
my mum has took the teddy bear back, but should i tell my cousins mum what she did?
No she is probably jealous as hell because ppl are buying the baby that took her attention away gifts...she probably lately wanted something new to play with so she picked it up and took it into her room.
At 4 she did not sneak out of bed at 2am slither through the house and "steal" the babies toy.
ADD: I dont take to mean you people.one of the major lessons a child have to learn is sharing.yes you could point out that it is the babies bear and the baby would be merry to share with his sister for a while but the bear actually belongs to her brother or something liek that.
oh, whats the proof its her who took it? maybe her Mom totally unintentionally packed the soft toy with other staff after the party
seriously this might just be an innocent mistake, fashion sure nobody gets accused as that can be very hurtful :)
EDIT
i dont realize why i got the thumbs down
based on the story there is no proof the child STOLE the soft toy!
at 4 kids don't have a great theory about right and wrong so don't worrie to much i'm shore he got told of and the fact the doll been taking away should show him stealing wont work
Yeah I would consent to her know, also I would make the four year old be the one to give it posterior and apologize for what she did.It will help her take responsibility for what she did wrong.
Yeah sure share her mom. She probably won't get mad just because she's 4 and she didn't know any better.
at that age they like to get hold of things they like and they dont know the difference yet. i would tell her to look out for it though.
Answers: I'd tell her what he did, but could it own been a mistake, im assuming that a 4 year old is not the best at reading yet, I don`t know he got mixed up, as you said she had been given greatly of new toys and stuff.
If its just a one off don't budge overboard, just tell him that its his cousins toy, and when he is at his cousins house he can play with the doll, but it does not belong to him.
If he does it again, then you should tell him that everytime he takes something that does not belong to him, that he will be punished, i.e whip a toy away, or timeout.
she is solely 4, I doubt she knows right from wrong. this would be a perfect opportunity to teach her
i would get someone to have a word but don't make a big traffic out of it, the end of the day she probably thought that it was something she be allowed to take, and yes she does need to learn that you cannot freshly take things that don't belong, but being 4 she is not so aware of right and wrong, but she can still learn
Yeah otherwise how will the child learn what she did is wrong?
thrash that asss
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my sister has just have a baby last monday, i had bought the infant a teddy bear, id gone the tag on and wrote "to ~~~~ love from ~~~~" as you do...
my sister told me today she had lost the teddy i bought for her tot, i said oh its ok, you've been giving alot of new toys and clothes and stuff, probs just misplaced it.
tonight my mum be baby sitting my cousin at my cousins house while her mum was at work, she called me and said the cuddly toy was at her house with the tag still on beside my hand writing in.
my mum has took the teddy bear back, but should i tell my cousins mum what she did?
No she is probably jealous as hell because ppl are buying the baby that took her attention away gifts...she probably lately wanted something new to play with so she picked it up and took it into her room.
At 4 she did not sneak out of bed at 2am slither through the house and "steal" the babies toy.
ADD: I dont take to mean you people.one of the major lessons a child have to learn is sharing.yes you could point out that it is the babies bear and the baby would be merry to share with his sister for a while but the bear actually belongs to her brother or something liek that.
oh, whats the proof its her who took it? maybe her Mom totally unintentionally packed the soft toy with other staff after the party
seriously this might just be an innocent mistake, fashion sure nobody gets accused as that can be very hurtful :)
EDIT
i dont realize why i got the thumbs down
based on the story there is no proof the child STOLE the soft toy!
at 4 kids don't have a great theory about right and wrong so don't worrie to much i'm shore he got told of and the fact the doll been taking away should show him stealing wont work
Yeah I would consent to her know, also I would make the four year old be the one to give it posterior and apologize for what she did.It will help her take responsibility for what she did wrong.
Yeah sure share her mom. She probably won't get mad just because she's 4 and she didn't know any better.
at that age they like to get hold of things they like and they dont know the difference yet. i would tell her to look out for it though.
Answers: I'd tell her what he did, but could it own been a mistake, im assuming that a 4 year old is not the best at reading yet, I don`t know he got mixed up, as you said she had been given greatly of new toys and stuff.
If its just a one off don't budge overboard, just tell him that its his cousins toy, and when he is at his cousins house he can play with the doll, but it does not belong to him.
If he does it again, then you should tell him that everytime he takes something that does not belong to him, that he will be punished, i.e whip a toy away, or timeout.
she is solely 4, I doubt she knows right from wrong. this would be a perfect opportunity to teach her
i would get someone to have a word but don't make a big traffic out of it, the end of the day she probably thought that it was something she be allowed to take, and yes she does need to learn that you cannot freshly take things that don't belong, but being 4 she is not so aware of right and wrong, but she can still learn
Yeah otherwise how will the child learn what she did is wrong?
thrash that asss
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