Do you estimate you should be married in the past you hold kids?

I don't (I know it doesn't always work that way though). I don't believe in premarital sex any. I am a Christian if you were wonderin.

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PS- Please don't take this the wrong way, if you do I'm outstandingly sorry. :(
Well it's a bit late for me lol I have 3 and still haven't taken that walk down the aisle!

Plan to subsequent year tho, but to me it's just a piece of paper, Everyone knows already that me and my man are probably never gonna break up (I only can't get rid of him :P lol)


EDIT: Example of pre marital sex - If adam and eve were the first relations on Earth, who the hell married them?
1. You need 2 witnesses to be legally Married
2. God was never ordained as a Priest
3. No where on earth in the bible does it say Adam and Eve were wed.
4. I could jump on, but I won't :)
No. Marriage doesn't mean you are more commited to each other, it doesn't propose you love each other more and it does not mean you are going to be good parents. Marriage is purely a piece of paper. Being married certainly does not mean you are going to stay together forever, the divorce rate immediately is higher than ever. My parents have four children and they were never married, and yes they are still together. Having children is more of a commitment than wedding. People who are married and don't have kids can get a divorce and never see each other again. People who enjoy children, whether they are married or not, cannot do that. They will always be in each others lives.
Answers:    Yes, I am a Christian also.I believe if someone does have premartial sex, that God will forgive them of their sins
I have a child with my boyfriend and we are not married.

I don't think it is wrong or God is going to punish me or any of that crap. God doesnt want to forgive me. God should be happy that Colten has a mommy and a daddy that loves him sooo much.

Just because you are married or not married does not make a difference of how much you love your children and shouldn't that be adjectives that matters? That IS all that matters to me. I know married couples that are be a sign of to their children and are horrible parents.

Marriage is just a piece of paper and making your relationship official. Questions similar to this p!ss me off
Most unequivocally. I think it provides the best possible environment to raise a child, and being a Christian as capably, I believe that this is the way God intended it.

EDIT: to ashj-I would love for you to give an example of pre-marital sex in the Bible. Can you afford a chapter and verse?
I am a christian but things don't other happen the way you plan them. I am 16 and yes I had sex beforehand marriage like I said above things don't always crop up the way you plan. I have kids yes kids which means two(twins). I love my kids to passing and I wouldn't change the way I had them. My kids are my world and yes I am no longer next to their father but I still love my kids. No matter what people say they are my kids and I LOVE THEM! Source(s): 16 and parent to twins
I am not a christian and do not believe you should be married before you have kids. I be pregnant before my hubby and I decided we wanted to be married. Kids should own nothing to do with it. But as you are a christian I understand and respect your beliefs. I one-sidedly think marriage and children are separate. Although your question is a litlle messed up.
I do muse it is better to be married and stable before having kids, but I do not think anyone is a fruitless person for having a child before they are married one sense because I did I had my daughter at the age of 17 and got pregnant with my son a few months since I was married I am pregnant with my 3rd child now my kids are enormously happy and healthy and have a great natural life
Yes!! In the bible it says to be married before have kids,
I think it's just a personal decision that you own your partener have to make.

I do feel that waiting to own sex untill you are married will make your relation stronger.

But things happen & it doesn't always work that.

I'm a parent of an 11month weak, and around 28 weeks pregnant with number 2 and enganged. Don't want to marry with a fat belly. lol.
But Christians own more unity on actually having premarital sex than almost any other religious issue. 88% of True Love Waits signers hold premarital sex anyway.

I used to go to conservative churches that teach that abstinence crap, and I widely read that the leaders of these churches actually crack jokes about 30 and 40 year-old virgins at the back their backs. Now I just send my Christian friends to the site below which debunk the whole thing against premarital sex in the Bible. It covers same-sex lifestyles too. I hope it help you.
Being a single mom gives a girl the chance to hold it all. A good career contained by a good field. travel, and money, exciting men and no commitments. What more could she want?

Wolves and geese mate for life. I wonder what we can swot from them.
youre a hypocrite. you influence you DONT think people should have to be married since you have kids and you say you DONT believe in premarital sex?
Yes. Marriage is a stronger bond than only living together. The parents should have that kind of commitment to one another before have children. Statistically, children are much better off being raised by their married parents.
i believe it is best to be married back having children, but i also believe that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, just because i dont agree beside it, doesnt mean every body shouldnt.
on the other hand, my husband and i started trying to have children back we were married (but were already engaged) because i was diagnosed next to ovarian cancer and was given a time limit on how long i could keep my ovaries. i did not want to own the surgery before trying for a baby, so we opted to start trying right away.
honestly I dont judge marriage matters that much.

But I dont think at hand is much sadder in this world that a fatherless child.
I am Christian, and I believe, that you should be married before kids,my cousin had a baby at age 18, and she say it ruined her life. I dont believe in premarital sex either. But whatevver.
yeah but i didnt..hehe :)
but i married when i graduated college!!
(first child at 18)

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