How do I fix this situation?
My son doesn't want to have anything to do with my mom. She tries to give him hugs and he pushes her away. Her mood are really getting hurt and I just don't know what to do to help the situation get better.
He comes to me and my stepdad near no problems. The only difference I can see between us and my mom is the fact that she doesn't get on the floor and roll around and play beside him like me and my stepdad do. She's more like the 'adult' in the house (lol).
Do adjectives kids go through a phase of not liking certain people members? Is there anything I can do to fix this situation?
(He's almost 21 months old, if that matter.)
It's a normal phase children go through. It does hurt the developed but the thing to remember is the child doesn't mean anything personal about it. If your mom wishes it change she needs to come down to his level. Even that sometimes doesn't amendment anything.
dont force him to touch/hug her, for whatever use, the kid doesnt want to connect with your mom.. its probably nothing, it may be a warning sign.. preserve an eye on the two of them when they are together, do NOT leave him alone with her... its probably just a phase he will grow out of. I don`t know its as simple as he doesnt like her shampoo
My 14-month-old is approaching that with my Dad. Its weird, because he WILL try to get on the floor and play next to him, but my son just cries and looks at me for help. But he lets my mom play next to him, so I'm not sure what the reason is. My Dad is a good sport about it and make jokes about it, and I know its just a phase. My daughter in fact went through a phase when she was around this same age where she didn't want to be near my husband! He was broken hearted. He would come home from work and try to pick her up, and she'd start crying immediately. Once she could walk, she'd run away from him. That phase merely lasted a few months. We took care of it by giving him more things to do with her. He started giving her baths every dark, he started reading her stories, etc. Before, it was me who was doing most of it. We figured it be a comfort thing. Which sounds like that's the case near your mom. Your son isn't as comfortable around your mom, but don't worry, it will pass. :)
Edit: Or maybe he is lately playing favorites! When I'm around, my son doesn't want anyone else at all.
My sons are like that with me. I'm not a "kid person". I love my boys very much, but I don't terrifically well know how to interact with them. So, they want to go to their dad or their "Gigi". I know they still love me and we do enjoy times where we laugh and play, so it's all pious.
my brothers kid didnt go to my mum (her nana) till she was nearly 2yrs before then she would just cry
Edit: Some kids do go through phases. It is probably the first phase! Congratz! :)
Answers: I have the same issue! When in a group, my daughter will be in motion to myself, my dad, or my neice and totally avoid my mom. But when she's alone with my mom, she'll go right to her. I have no conception why it happens, as like you, there haven't be any negative experiences, as this is the grandma that gives cookies for breakfast...
interestingly enough, my mom be packing yesterday and ignoring my daughter and guess who she wanted? Yep, grandma and noone else
I meditate sometimes kids like others better. My daughter is just getting over being be going to to daddy. Whenever i am home she usually wants nothing to do with my husband. I own to do EVERYTHING...
Her daddy is great to her and when i am not around she is completely happy with him. She has be like this since she was a baby. I used to discern so bad for him.
We eventually got used to it. Lately she has be preferring my husband over me on certain occassions which is really nice.
I wouldn't be worried, he'll grow out of it. Or if its really bothering your mom maybe she can have a each day routine with your son. Then they will atleast have that special bond. LIke take him for a pace after dinner, give him his bath, read to him. (i'm assuming you all live together, since it say your mom is the adult in the house). Source(s): mother of a 2 1/2 year old
this is completly normal.and honestly there really isnt much you can do...my son( who is 21 months today * OMG almost 2*) does this with my mother-in-law..no particularreason any..
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He comes to me and my stepdad near no problems. The only difference I can see between us and my mom is the fact that she doesn't get on the floor and roll around and play beside him like me and my stepdad do. She's more like the 'adult' in the house (lol).
Do adjectives kids go through a phase of not liking certain people members? Is there anything I can do to fix this situation?
(He's almost 21 months old, if that matter.)
It's a normal phase children go through. It does hurt the developed but the thing to remember is the child doesn't mean anything personal about it. If your mom wishes it change she needs to come down to his level. Even that sometimes doesn't amendment anything.
dont force him to touch/hug her, for whatever use, the kid doesnt want to connect with your mom.. its probably nothing, it may be a warning sign.. preserve an eye on the two of them when they are together, do NOT leave him alone with her... its probably just a phase he will grow out of. I don`t know its as simple as he doesnt like her shampoo
My 14-month-old is approaching that with my Dad. Its weird, because he WILL try to get on the floor and play next to him, but my son just cries and looks at me for help. But he lets my mom play next to him, so I'm not sure what the reason is. My Dad is a good sport about it and make jokes about it, and I know its just a phase. My daughter in fact went through a phase when she was around this same age where she didn't want to be near my husband! He was broken hearted. He would come home from work and try to pick her up, and she'd start crying immediately. Once she could walk, she'd run away from him. That phase merely lasted a few months. We took care of it by giving him more things to do with her. He started giving her baths every dark, he started reading her stories, etc. Before, it was me who was doing most of it. We figured it be a comfort thing. Which sounds like that's the case near your mom. Your son isn't as comfortable around your mom, but don't worry, it will pass. :)
Edit: Or maybe he is lately playing favorites! When I'm around, my son doesn't want anyone else at all.
My sons are like that with me. I'm not a "kid person". I love my boys very much, but I don't terrifically well know how to interact with them. So, they want to go to their dad or their "Gigi". I know they still love me and we do enjoy times where we laugh and play, so it's all pious.
my brothers kid didnt go to my mum (her nana) till she was nearly 2yrs before then she would just cry
Edit: Some kids do go through phases. It is probably the first phase! Congratz! :)
Answers: I have the same issue! When in a group, my daughter will be in motion to myself, my dad, or my neice and totally avoid my mom. But when she's alone with my mom, she'll go right to her. I have no conception why it happens, as like you, there haven't be any negative experiences, as this is the grandma that gives cookies for breakfast...
interestingly enough, my mom be packing yesterday and ignoring my daughter and guess who she wanted? Yep, grandma and noone else
I meditate sometimes kids like others better. My daughter is just getting over being be going to to daddy. Whenever i am home she usually wants nothing to do with my husband. I own to do EVERYTHING...
Her daddy is great to her and when i am not around she is completely happy with him. She has be like this since she was a baby. I used to discern so bad for him.
We eventually got used to it. Lately she has be preferring my husband over me on certain occassions which is really nice.
I wouldn't be worried, he'll grow out of it. Or if its really bothering your mom maybe she can have a each day routine with your son. Then they will atleast have that special bond. LIke take him for a pace after dinner, give him his bath, read to him. (i'm assuming you all live together, since it say your mom is the adult in the house). Source(s): mother of a 2 1/2 year old
this is completly normal.and honestly there really isnt much you can do...my son( who is 21 months today * OMG almost 2*) does this with my mother-in-law..no particularreason any..
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