How to describe my 7 year feeble son his dad have gotten his girlfriend pregnant?
my exhusband accidently got his girlfriend pregnant. my son already has been premonition extremely left out of his fathers life. his girlfriend have other children and his dad spends all his time with them including not showing up to pick my child up. I am remarried, my husband and I have no other children (nor will we) and a highly stable loving home. these other children pick on my son and when he comes back from his dads for the weekend he is upset. I am scarred of how it will be when his dad has a modern family and my son is excluded. any tips or experiences on how to break the news to my child.
Well, I assume you don't mean explaining the way it works...at 7 he should be well aware of how pregnancy works.
As for the exciting part of it, his father should be the one to tell him about that. He is still his father.
But it sounds resembling you need to talk to his father about his disaster with your son. That way, even if it doesn't help your son, it might oblige this new baby...
You don't. You aren't the one who is pregnant and you didn't get anyone pregnant either, so the best thing for you to do is play stupid and tolerate your ex do all the explaining. Why would you do his dirty work for him? And your son may not be excluded either. So why don't you just tolerate it unfold naturally and see what happens. The only article you should not do is tell your ex's bad news. If he be man enough to impregnate her, he can be man enough to tell his own son what he did.
Take effort.
I believe it would be best to let the father tell, it just isn't your place
Just say it..
Daddy's gonna own a baby with his new girlfriend..
Tell him he's gonna hold a little half brother or sister
I'm sure he will be excited.
I'm also sure it wasn't an accident getting pregnant..
Answers: oh I know that story too well... My 2 daughters father get his girlfriend pregnant he was over the moon I could care less roughly it he was the one who told the girls but if he hadn't have I would've I don't think it's right to save secrets from the kids when it comes to these sorts of things, My eldest daughter is a daddy's girl when she found out she was soo down in the dumps for it, I asked her constantly what be wrong she finally says when daddy has his new toddler he wont love me anymore and he wont want to be with my anymore... She is constantly picked on by his girlfriends youngest daughter she came home hating herself... You and your ex husband stipulation to leave the problems you had behind you sit down and have a word about your son. Don't yell and scream at respectively other it will do more damage then you both need to sit down and minister to your son feel more secure with his father... If you can't next he needs you more then ever... If his father wont help you later it's going to be very hard for him... Let your son tell you exactly how he feel about it then give him comfort don't lie back to him... Unfortunately my ex's girlfriend lost the baby at 24 weeks. My eldest daughter is 6.. it's going to be hard for him and maybe it'll be down to you to say-so no more if you can't be in his life alot more and show more effort to see him after just walk away now.. In the long run it might be better for your son, specially if your unmarked husband and he have a good bond.. GOOD LUCK! I do understand how fustrating it is for you to view the pain your son goes through everytime he's been tolerate down and picked on... I watch it every weekend when my kids ask if they're going to their fathers house or not.. my youngest daughter now call my partner dad and her dad by his real name she's 4. My eldest daughter still thinks the sun shines out of his backside end but it's slowly going down as she realises that her father just couldn't care smaller amount. Source(s): Experience
Help me better read between the lines this question, I am reading that your ex, got his 7 year old sons girlfriend pregnant.. Just kid, sometimes the truth hurts but just tell your son the truth.
If you talk near him on a regular basis, this would be less of a problem for you.
I don't mean articulate at him but rather to him, and listen to what he has to say.
And remember that at times its not what those say that's important, it what they don't say that money the most.
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Well, I assume you don't mean explaining the way it works...at 7 he should be well aware of how pregnancy works.
As for the exciting part of it, his father should be the one to tell him about that. He is still his father.
But it sounds resembling you need to talk to his father about his disaster with your son. That way, even if it doesn't help your son, it might oblige this new baby...
You don't. You aren't the one who is pregnant and you didn't get anyone pregnant either, so the best thing for you to do is play stupid and tolerate your ex do all the explaining. Why would you do his dirty work for him? And your son may not be excluded either. So why don't you just tolerate it unfold naturally and see what happens. The only article you should not do is tell your ex's bad news. If he be man enough to impregnate her, he can be man enough to tell his own son what he did.
Take effort.
I believe it would be best to let the father tell, it just isn't your place
Just say it..
Daddy's gonna own a baby with his new girlfriend..
Tell him he's gonna hold a little half brother or sister
I'm sure he will be excited.
I'm also sure it wasn't an accident getting pregnant..
Answers: oh I know that story too well... My 2 daughters father get his girlfriend pregnant he was over the moon I could care less roughly it he was the one who told the girls but if he hadn't have I would've I don't think it's right to save secrets from the kids when it comes to these sorts of things, My eldest daughter is a daddy's girl when she found out she was soo down in the dumps for it, I asked her constantly what be wrong she finally says when daddy has his new toddler he wont love me anymore and he wont want to be with my anymore... She is constantly picked on by his girlfriends youngest daughter she came home hating herself... You and your ex husband stipulation to leave the problems you had behind you sit down and have a word about your son. Don't yell and scream at respectively other it will do more damage then you both need to sit down and minister to your son feel more secure with his father... If you can't next he needs you more then ever... If his father wont help you later it's going to be very hard for him... Let your son tell you exactly how he feel about it then give him comfort don't lie back to him... Unfortunately my ex's girlfriend lost the baby at 24 weeks. My eldest daughter is 6.. it's going to be hard for him and maybe it'll be down to you to say-so no more if you can't be in his life alot more and show more effort to see him after just walk away now.. In the long run it might be better for your son, specially if your unmarked husband and he have a good bond.. GOOD LUCK! I do understand how fustrating it is for you to view the pain your son goes through everytime he's been tolerate down and picked on... I watch it every weekend when my kids ask if they're going to their fathers house or not.. my youngest daughter now call my partner dad and her dad by his real name she's 4. My eldest daughter still thinks the sun shines out of his backside end but it's slowly going down as she realises that her father just couldn't care smaller amount. Source(s): Experience
Help me better read between the lines this question, I am reading that your ex, got his 7 year old sons girlfriend pregnant.. Just kid, sometimes the truth hurts but just tell your son the truth.
If you talk near him on a regular basis, this would be less of a problem for you.
I don't mean articulate at him but rather to him, and listen to what he has to say.
And remember that at times its not what those say that's important, it what they don't say that money the most.
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