What happen when parents are TO overprotective next to in attendance kids?
Well if some kids feel their parents are too strict or w/e.. some tend to do doomed to failure things.. just because they 'can'. Even though they aren't supposed to.
Being overprotective parents can really have two results, depending on the personalities of the kids.
1) Either the kids rebel and do things aft their parents' back that their parents wouldn't approve of.
or
2) The kids are super obedient, but are secretly bitter just about the fact that they don't get to do a lot of matching things as other kids their age.
kids will lack socially.
ok, this is what happens.
1. The kids who live surrounded by a family where rules aren't so, strict will grow up with some what of a perception of life because, they were allowed to be themselves.
2. On the other hand near parents who don't allow their kids tho be themselves it allows them to rebel against society at the first chance they'll get. This is because, they're afraid of their parents and what they'll do to them if they terminated up even thinking about getting out of line.
3. Just because, you grow up in a domestic where there isn't hardly any rules you'll seize bored and lonely really quickly because, you don't have any rules so, there for you've get Anarchy on your hands and a kid who is rebelling against you? Why? I mean is it because, your the one who tell them whatever, you'd like, to eat move about ahead and get it? That's where you went wrong right here. Parents need to be strict at times not to strict but, however... Strict enough so, that a kid has a obedient enough understanding of what they need to do within life and how they can achieve anything if they put their minds to it.
4. Lastly, I feel that parents who are overly protective of their kids obligation to losing up a bit and allow their children to grow up stop worrying so, much about what's going to happen with them. If you trust them afterwards good that's all you can do is trust them. Enough with buying a 12 year hoary a cellphone they've got a friend who has a house phone right? Don't buy them a phone it's a waste of money and their not going to be paying for the bill anyways besides... The solely people I see having a phone if anything should be like, a 16 or 17 year prehistoric if they're driving that is if not then screw it. Because, you're going to be wasting your knotty earned money on what? so, that Billy can text Tiffany? At the age of 12? Come on now that's stupid lately let them use their friends house phone and stop with this nonsense of buying them things whenever, they want them.
there kids might take pre-eminence of having a little freedom. like if your strict near not eating sweets. EVER. your kids could go just guzzle a bag of sugar becasuse they can. true story by the way.
well i see being strict as setting rules and expecting them to be followed with consequences if they arent. anyone overprotective means that they are being kept from the things in go that they need to experience to learn. example: the crazy lady that wishes a permission slip from the school if the school plans on hand out sweets (cupcakes etc)...how will her kids ever learn how to make their own choices if mom is always on their azz?
impossible to tell apart goes for religious parents who keep their kids from halloween, do they realize that its all within fun? or fun just isnt an option or what?
kids that are super-sheltered only grow up to be confused, wild adults.
My parents were always strict on me. I couldn't go out near friends unless there was supervision from an adult. I couldn't budge to parties such as 16th's and I was not allowed to turn to a friends house without my mother or father knowing their parents very well. I couldn't amble by myself or my friends to the shops or anything, only when I was going to school. I couldn't carry off of my bus at a mall in the afternoons and I couldn't even stop a train anywhere because my parents believed it was too dangerous. This was horrible for me, I be in the years were I just required to be a kid and I never even got to. Be a little flexible with your kids, still be aware of danger but be fair. Sometimes my friends wouldn't talk to me because I didn't go near them and it really made me upset. I wish I could do all those things and have a enthusiasm again.
I have an idea that you just need to be sensible and compromise, put yourself in their shoes. likelihood are if you say no all the time your kid is going to resent you and do it anyways.
Good results with me.
Well, My parents were over protective when it came to constant things and they were laid back with other things. I'm surrounded by my 30s now and have children. I am grateful for them being over protective/strict when it come to dating and the friends i hung out with. I will definitely parent the same route. Now days, it seems like parents aren't really being protective at adjectives which allows teens the opportunity to get involved with sex and drugs and the wrong crowds.
I turned out all right. Never get pregnant at an early age, I don't have mental health issues, graduate college, started masters degree, have a good position. I found a good man and married him and had kids. I thank my mother now for helping me to realize when I be dating losers. She totally helped me build up my self esteem and she was always positive after a break up. This help me find a good man to marry.
So to all the teens reading this... if your mom is over protective/ strict about dating, you may not similar to it now, but realize that she loves you, and it what is best. They actually CARE about you. I would be worried if your parents be not all up in your business. Trust me, you will thank them later, approaching me.
Oh, and BTW, my brother ended up a good man himself.
Good Luck~
the kid grows up hate their parents because they cant have a life and are more prone to rebel and achieve into way more trouble than they would if you just let them own a social life. Source(s): Me
kids end up missing out...but if ur overprotective then u shood loosen up and learn to trust ur kids.
**Over protection can result in a Sh!tload of Sissys!!
It can also enjoy the children rebel once they get older.
Their is a BIG difference within Being Strict and being Over Protective!! BIG!
they become the president
You feel marginalized and depressed. Generally kids beside strict parents have a harder time fitting in and making friends.
I think kids who are not allowed a infallible amount of freedom to learn how to make choices, when they can make choices they cause REALLY bad ones that can get them kicked out of college.
The kids end up breaking the rules to do what they're not aloud to do. Then they get contained by troublee :]
the child will in reality develop low self confidence and independence. also, they may become paraniod about a number of things. Parents are other right to children, and if they make the world seem like a dodgy place that they can't handle throughout the child's lfe, they'll carry that onto adulthood. Source(s): parenting and child nouns class
You get crazies that start shooting people at college.
it all depends on the child. Not every child is the same. Some children may go into complete insurgence and get into even more serious problems with the world. Other children may become scared of the world and never seasoned past dependency. Then there is always that strong bunch of kids who grow up and put their bygone in the past to live balanced lives.
the kids commit suicide
Nooo, I think being overprotective is cute. (:
It means you nurture.
Results? You'll piss off your kids.
Rebellion. And then the kid goes out and get herpes!
the kids move out soon as they can and push their parents out of their life forever
kids usually mutineer and do stupid things like drugs n stuff
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