Another spanking give somebody the third degree. Yet Again...?
Over the past four days or so I have noticed a dramatic rise within the questions about spanking, wether it being someone justifying spanking their children to citizens ranting about how wrong it is.
I understand fully everyone is entitled to their opinion on the subject but what I don't go and get is why are people asking questions about it when they know they are going to catch answers they don't like?
Wether anyone likes it or not, spanking IS and should only ever be the ruling of the parent and not be influenced by others.
Spanking IS legal and IS NOT a form of abuse.
I was spanked as a child and it's never done me any mar in the slightest, And I choose not to spank my kids as I'm actually being qualified other techniques, If the techniques didnt work for me, I would most definately use spanking as a form of discipline.
I would never condemn another parent for spanking their child unless of course they used brute force or a weapon. I infer thats unacceptable in anyones book, not just mine.
So why when these inhabitants have such a strong view of it, do they even bother to ask the question within the first place?
Please No answers of why spanking is right or wrong, I've heard them all, and I can see both sides of the arguement.
I just want to know why post these question when you can't change anyone's view from it?
A parent will make a better finding about how they are going to raise their child if they think give or take a few all the options, discuss them, weigh how they feel going on for them, consider other points of view.
As to why some post questions that they know will bring answers that they don't like - I would guess that they are trying to examine their own point of outlook, justify it, measure it, think almost it, discuss it, to help them feel better about it or consistency worse, if that's where they're at. People are emotionally complicated beings.
People want to be aware of validated in their opinion when it seem like no one agrees with them. I own used all methods of discipline and when it calls for a spanking I spank if it does not then I don't. I do agree however that empire have a tendency to get upset when the answers do not agree near their views or you get a thumbs down because you said or offended another answerer.
Maybe the parents feel really guilty! I don't know why they asked it, because I cant read minds.
I guess some people newly like to argue. I have 2 kids 7 and 4 and I have chose positive reinforcement. I use time out and that works dutiful. I also over heard someone say they use points posted on the fridge and I tried it it actually worked I would clutch them away and give extra points I even made it up as I went and the kids were buying toys and candy every weekend for human being so good. I was loosing money and weened them away from it. It taught them how to count and include and subtract and it really helped with manners.
about 90% of the spanking question are perverts if you ask me. read between the lines on some of them - brand new account, how to spank and with what? come on thats a perv adjectives the way around. normal parents do not ask such questions. and if they do - they obligation help.
edit - haha @ the thumbs down - obviously you fools havent read the spanking question. very few are legit. stick around and you will see.
It adjectives started with the law of free speech! I believe spanking makes the child behave! I believe spanking a child cause brain damage! Whatever they say, others will contradict because it’s in their right. I would influence “to each their own”, but there you go. I enjoy come to the conclusion, therefore, saying what you believe and thinking others should believe it is unavoidable.
Please look at my query: How do I become a teacher at a boarding school?
Just to start some type of drama, and closed minded individuals. We all do things differently and newly because someone does not agree with it for WHATEVER reason does not make it wrong. I be spanked also, it worked for me, and I became successful with 0 emotional scar at all. I was never fearful of my parents but I did respect them and I never ever rebelled growing up. I loved my childhood
WHO says spanking is wrong?
that's just dumb
relations post those questions to make a point usually. Just like when knock up teens ask a legit question, but have to add their age. They KNOW they will catch answers commenting on their age, and then they get all pissy.
They want attention
Because everyone always wishes to be right about certain things they strongly believe in. They conjecture if they know it all, then they should be correct about everything it have to do with it.. if you know what I mean?
I can't say that I wouldn't argue beside the devil over certain things, but that's just because I'm stubborn when it comes to things. And my best guess would be that others, as well are also.
But approaching I was saying, some people believe they are right 100% if it's something they believe is totally decadent, or opposite.
I also don't see why someone would ask a question if they already had their minds set to it, my guess would to hear/read other peoples feedback on the situation.
some associates ask questions just to see how much they can fire others up, not because they really want answers.
take a look at the religion slot for example, it's hilarious!
... ok
Did anyone report this, um...'question' as a rant?
Answers: for the same apology you just asked this question.to get your own feelings heard and to rant about the fact that some nation disagree with spanking.
You say "So why when these people hold such a strong view of it, do they even bother to ask the question in the first place?"
If you have just asked this that would be one thing but you had to throw your feelings on spanking itself in as well.
So anyway to answer your question...they ask not to swot up about other opinions and try to understand other view, instead they ask just to get their own opinion voiced.
EDIT: and trust me, I've be quite a while and there have other been tons of spanking questions. They just come contained by waves for some reason.
Also your last paragraph is your track of getting your rant and opinion out without anyone being competent to give their own opinion back to you. If your ask had nothing to do with whether spanking be right or wrong or opinions about it then you should own kept your own to yourself.
EDIT: in response to your added details to me...It's no different for people who choose not to spank but you only give the impression of being to see your side. People are constantly posting questions about how what's wrong with kids today is not ample parents spank, or that if you don't spank your kids aren't disciplined and will be brats. It goes both ways. The funny thing is over 90 % of parents spank so that is why I never inherent the what's wrong with kids today deal being blamed on removal of spanking. Spanking is ONE option of punishment. It's not a way of parenting. Punishment is such a small part of parenting I construe it's crazy how people put so much emphesis on punishment when it's everything else aparent does that will determind how their children turn out.
I have 4 boys age 14, 14, 12 and 9 and my older three are honor and large honor students who never get into any trouble. They are all good economically behaved children and none of them have ever been spanked.
rant
"Spanking IS legal and IS NOT a form of name-calling."
Imagine if you were alive fifty years ago, would you say the same give or take a few your husband striking you "out of love" in his house.
Funny how you people only simply consider it a rant when the opposition does it.
I don't believe in spanking WITH belts or in a brutal or horrid form for intentional injury. I don't know give or take a few posting all those stupid questions, there are masses different opinions. However, I believe that spanking at all is very un-neccessary. Kids can slickly go without it and when your parents spank you it brings out aggression in oneself which can turn into something bigger as you win older. That IS a fact, not just my judgment it has been proven.
in good health i believe that the child should know why they are being punished and talking to your children is a big issues with me i don't nurture if they are talking gibberish listen to your child and hear what they have to say
Because they need a site to childishly rant about their opinion. And Yahoo! Answers is the best they could come up with it seems. If you want my opinion on whether or not spanking is okay, and it doesn't come across that you really do anyways, here it is: Let the parents do what they want. Let them lay a smack down on their kids rear ends, else they have another thing to complain something like to muddle up court systems and cause unnecessary commotion during elections. I myself would rather try and raise children that would be developed enough to not need spanked.
Many ancestors believe what happens in other people's family's is still just the relations business, be it abuse, neglect, etc. So then the law started coming around mandating teachers, docs to report abuse as some werent speaking up on their own. There are cultures that still allow and promote defeat of wives, children, etc - that doesnt make it right either. So if someone truly believes that spanking hurts children, why not voice their concerns.
I extremely liked the comments of both the asker, LauraLee, and of Love My 4B.
I would take issue with one statement, on a statistical/scientific/logic reason: I dont think the key is that there are problem kids despite the existence of spanking, or contained by saying "I dont spank, and my kids are fine" either. Most are fine either opening theyre brought up. But the key may be that most of those in jails/prison did not receive (non-abusive) spankings. That may be more telling, at least possible regarding some juveniles.
But either way, the topic is outdated. YA has an archive, and the entryway is that box at the top "Search for questions". Just put your keywords in there, and take back a zillion answers. Source(s): Many friends, relatives, and upbringings.
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I understand fully everyone is entitled to their opinion on the subject but what I don't go and get is why are people asking questions about it when they know they are going to catch answers they don't like?
Wether anyone likes it or not, spanking IS and should only ever be the ruling of the parent and not be influenced by others.
Spanking IS legal and IS NOT a form of abuse.
I was spanked as a child and it's never done me any mar in the slightest, And I choose not to spank my kids as I'm actually being qualified other techniques, If the techniques didnt work for me, I would most definately use spanking as a form of discipline.
I would never condemn another parent for spanking their child unless of course they used brute force or a weapon. I infer thats unacceptable in anyones book, not just mine.
So why when these inhabitants have such a strong view of it, do they even bother to ask the question within the first place?
Please No answers of why spanking is right or wrong, I've heard them all, and I can see both sides of the arguement.
I just want to know why post these question when you can't change anyone's view from it?
A parent will make a better finding about how they are going to raise their child if they think give or take a few all the options, discuss them, weigh how they feel going on for them, consider other points of view.
As to why some post questions that they know will bring answers that they don't like - I would guess that they are trying to examine their own point of outlook, justify it, measure it, think almost it, discuss it, to help them feel better about it or consistency worse, if that's where they're at. People are emotionally complicated beings.
People want to be aware of validated in their opinion when it seem like no one agrees with them. I own used all methods of discipline and when it calls for a spanking I spank if it does not then I don't. I do agree however that empire have a tendency to get upset when the answers do not agree near their views or you get a thumbs down because you said or offended another answerer.
Maybe the parents feel really guilty! I don't know why they asked it, because I cant read minds.
I guess some people newly like to argue. I have 2 kids 7 and 4 and I have chose positive reinforcement. I use time out and that works dutiful. I also over heard someone say they use points posted on the fridge and I tried it it actually worked I would clutch them away and give extra points I even made it up as I went and the kids were buying toys and candy every weekend for human being so good. I was loosing money and weened them away from it. It taught them how to count and include and subtract and it really helped with manners.
about 90% of the spanking question are perverts if you ask me. read between the lines on some of them - brand new account, how to spank and with what? come on thats a perv adjectives the way around. normal parents do not ask such questions. and if they do - they obligation help.
edit - haha @ the thumbs down - obviously you fools havent read the spanking question. very few are legit. stick around and you will see.
It adjectives started with the law of free speech! I believe spanking makes the child behave! I believe spanking a child cause brain damage! Whatever they say, others will contradict because it’s in their right. I would influence “to each their own”, but there you go. I enjoy come to the conclusion, therefore, saying what you believe and thinking others should believe it is unavoidable.
Please look at my query: How do I become a teacher at a boarding school?
Just to start some type of drama, and closed minded individuals. We all do things differently and newly because someone does not agree with it for WHATEVER reason does not make it wrong. I be spanked also, it worked for me, and I became successful with 0 emotional scar at all. I was never fearful of my parents but I did respect them and I never ever rebelled growing up. I loved my childhood
WHO says spanking is wrong?
that's just dumb
relations post those questions to make a point usually. Just like when knock up teens ask a legit question, but have to add their age. They KNOW they will catch answers commenting on their age, and then they get all pissy.
They want attention
Because everyone always wishes to be right about certain things they strongly believe in. They conjecture if they know it all, then they should be correct about everything it have to do with it.. if you know what I mean?
I can't say that I wouldn't argue beside the devil over certain things, but that's just because I'm stubborn when it comes to things. And my best guess would be that others, as well are also.
But approaching I was saying, some people believe they are right 100% if it's something they believe is totally decadent, or opposite.
I also don't see why someone would ask a question if they already had their minds set to it, my guess would to hear/read other peoples feedback on the situation.
some associates ask questions just to see how much they can fire others up, not because they really want answers.
take a look at the religion slot for example, it's hilarious!
... ok
Did anyone report this, um...'question' as a rant?
Answers: for the same apology you just asked this question.to get your own feelings heard and to rant about the fact that some nation disagree with spanking.
You say "So why when these people hold such a strong view of it, do they even bother to ask the question in the first place?"
If you have just asked this that would be one thing but you had to throw your feelings on spanking itself in as well.
So anyway to answer your question...they ask not to swot up about other opinions and try to understand other view, instead they ask just to get their own opinion voiced.
EDIT: and trust me, I've be quite a while and there have other been tons of spanking questions. They just come contained by waves for some reason.
Also your last paragraph is your track of getting your rant and opinion out without anyone being competent to give their own opinion back to you. If your ask had nothing to do with whether spanking be right or wrong or opinions about it then you should own kept your own to yourself.
EDIT: in response to your added details to me...It's no different for people who choose not to spank but you only give the impression of being to see your side. People are constantly posting questions about how what's wrong with kids today is not ample parents spank, or that if you don't spank your kids aren't disciplined and will be brats. It goes both ways. The funny thing is over 90 % of parents spank so that is why I never inherent the what's wrong with kids today deal being blamed on removal of spanking. Spanking is ONE option of punishment. It's not a way of parenting. Punishment is such a small part of parenting I construe it's crazy how people put so much emphesis on punishment when it's everything else aparent does that will determind how their children turn out.
I have 4 boys age 14, 14, 12 and 9 and my older three are honor and large honor students who never get into any trouble. They are all good economically behaved children and none of them have ever been spanked.
rant
"Spanking IS legal and IS NOT a form of name-calling."
Imagine if you were alive fifty years ago, would you say the same give or take a few your husband striking you "out of love" in his house.
Funny how you people only simply consider it a rant when the opposition does it.
I don't believe in spanking WITH belts or in a brutal or horrid form for intentional injury. I don't know give or take a few posting all those stupid questions, there are masses different opinions. However, I believe that spanking at all is very un-neccessary. Kids can slickly go without it and when your parents spank you it brings out aggression in oneself which can turn into something bigger as you win older. That IS a fact, not just my judgment it has been proven.
in good health i believe that the child should know why they are being punished and talking to your children is a big issues with me i don't nurture if they are talking gibberish listen to your child and hear what they have to say
Because they need a site to childishly rant about their opinion. And Yahoo! Answers is the best they could come up with it seems. If you want my opinion on whether or not spanking is okay, and it doesn't come across that you really do anyways, here it is: Let the parents do what they want. Let them lay a smack down on their kids rear ends, else they have another thing to complain something like to muddle up court systems and cause unnecessary commotion during elections. I myself would rather try and raise children that would be developed enough to not need spanked.
Many ancestors believe what happens in other people's family's is still just the relations business, be it abuse, neglect, etc. So then the law started coming around mandating teachers, docs to report abuse as some werent speaking up on their own. There are cultures that still allow and promote defeat of wives, children, etc - that doesnt make it right either. So if someone truly believes that spanking hurts children, why not voice their concerns.
I extremely liked the comments of both the asker, LauraLee, and of Love My 4B.
I would take issue with one statement, on a statistical/scientific/logic reason: I dont think the key is that there are problem kids despite the existence of spanking, or contained by saying "I dont spank, and my kids are fine" either. Most are fine either opening theyre brought up. But the key may be that most of those in jails/prison did not receive (non-abusive) spankings. That may be more telling, at least possible regarding some juveniles.
But either way, the topic is outdated. YA has an archive, and the entryway is that box at the top "Search for questions". Just put your keywords in there, and take back a zillion answers. Source(s): Many friends, relatives, and upbringings.
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