Any women own children beside motionless batter dads?
My son has a worthless father... i blame myself for having got mixed up next to him but if I didn't I wouldn't have my son. Well he was out of my life once I told him I be pregnant then popped back in a few weeks after he be born and for the next year or so he was off and on, past its sell-by date and on. now my son is almost 2 and I haven't heard from his father since he was 15 months out-of-date. I don't expect to hear from him again. I came across his facebook, he's still alive, still going out and has a social life. only stopped wanting to see his son.
anyway. any women out there who have an ex like that.. don't you newly hate them? I really do hate him. I've never hated anyone up to that time. Everything that reminds me of him just makes me sick. Tongue rings for example. he had one and presently everytime i see or hear about someone having a tongue ring I just guess it's so gross and ugly. Motorcycles. My ex had one, now I come up with all motorcycles are just stupid. has anyone ever feel like this about someone? I don't know how to just catch over it and stop hating everything that reminds me of him... it has nothing to do next to him being my ex, it has everything to do with him self a sh*tty father to my kid.
I am sorry this happened to you, my mother and my older brother were surrounded by a similar situation, when my mom told my brothers father that she was pregnant he said he didnt want to have anything to do with it, 25 years after that my brother gets in contact with his father, and its great that he requests to have a relationship with him and all, but to my brother and my mother my dad/my moms husband is my brothers dad even though he is not biological. I am not sure how my mom feel about my brother seeing his dad, but she met someone that accepted her and my brother. Good luck!!
My ex is an complete worthless @$$. When he moved out us he promised our son that he would see him about every month. The only time he has see our son in the past 3 years is one time (9 months after he left) when we were within the area...and even then only come to see him 1 day out of the 3 days we were there. He stopped paying child support 2 years ago. He have not any contact of any kind, phone, letters, nil, with our son in 2 years. Our son had a legal representative request that his biological father (as he is now referred as) give up parental rights so that my current husband can adopt him.he replied to the lawyer near hand written scribble "I will not give up my parental rights". That be almost 2 years ago. So basically he is a control freak that doesn't want to be a father to his son and doesn't want anyone else to either.
My son and my husband are closer than most father and son's. They love each other so much. My son swears that this is his REAL dad and that I have just kept it a secret all these years :) My husband feel the same way, even though I did not know my husband back later. We are very blessed to have my husband in our lives. My ex then again can drop off the face of the planet for all I supervision.
Answers: I have one of those...but he isn't worthy to even be classified as a "dad" in any form, shape or manner. Anyways. I am a single mommy of 4 kids underneath the age of 10yrs old. I got pregnant & married my senior year of high institution, we were married for about 6 yrs when I couldn't take any more of his lying, cheating, partying, drinking & several times bailing him out of secure unit for DWI's. Well, after I told him I wanted nothing more to do with him (I be on my own taking care of my kids any way, so the only difference is I wouldn't enjoy to bother w/ him), he disappeared, this is the 5th year with no word from him. To be honest with you I LOVE that I don't hear from him or see him. I have alotof dislike for him, but I don't dislike him b/c I have my beautiful babies becuz of him. It doesn't mean my enthusiasm is easy...AT ALL, it's far from that but, it's my life so I make it take place. Alot of things reminded/remind me of him, in fact I think he's rear in town or not too far from us, and THAT thought makes me sick to my stomach, I'd be GREAT if i didn't have to ever settlement with him ever again, I don't want an "off & on dad" for my kids, they deserver so much better. I don't get child support, didn't even try to (long story, u can email me if u wanna hear nearly it lol), it's SO hard doin it on my mind, but thanks to God we make it. We can't do adjectives the things I'd like to, but we have a home, transportation & food in our cabinet, so we're just fine.
Hang in there, it's far from graceful, but your baby can sense your frustration & anger, so for their sake try to move on.later on babe daddy will regret that he abandoned you & his son & it may just be too late for him to enjoy a second chance. Sorry to hear this happened to you, but if I can make it next to 4 kids, you will do fine, keep your head up. :) Source(s): experience. my life..
I'm in this situation, but no, I don't have a feeling this way about my kids' father. Idk if its because time made it wear off or what. What I can relate you is if his father is behaving in this manner your son is better sour without him. Our job as parents is to make our child become a productive cut of society. Think of the influence this man could have on your son if he were around and you might realize that your child really is better off in need him. :)
I have been there. I know it sounds cliche, but over time it really will fade. Sometimes I find myself wish we were still friends just because he was so much fun to be around. It took me in the region of 4 years but I can finally say I really am over it and I just feel sorry for him. My daughter and he would bring along great if they knew each other. He doesn't know what he's missing.
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anyway. any women out there who have an ex like that.. don't you newly hate them? I really do hate him. I've never hated anyone up to that time. Everything that reminds me of him just makes me sick. Tongue rings for example. he had one and presently everytime i see or hear about someone having a tongue ring I just guess it's so gross and ugly. Motorcycles. My ex had one, now I come up with all motorcycles are just stupid. has anyone ever feel like this about someone? I don't know how to just catch over it and stop hating everything that reminds me of him... it has nothing to do next to him being my ex, it has everything to do with him self a sh*tty father to my kid.
I am sorry this happened to you, my mother and my older brother were surrounded by a similar situation, when my mom told my brothers father that she was pregnant he said he didnt want to have anything to do with it, 25 years after that my brother gets in contact with his father, and its great that he requests to have a relationship with him and all, but to my brother and my mother my dad/my moms husband is my brothers dad even though he is not biological. I am not sure how my mom feel about my brother seeing his dad, but she met someone that accepted her and my brother. Good luck!!
My ex is an complete worthless @$$. When he moved out us he promised our son that he would see him about every month. The only time he has see our son in the past 3 years is one time (9 months after he left) when we were within the area...and even then only come to see him 1 day out of the 3 days we were there. He stopped paying child support 2 years ago. He have not any contact of any kind, phone, letters, nil, with our son in 2 years. Our son had a legal representative request that his biological father (as he is now referred as) give up parental rights so that my current husband can adopt him.he replied to the lawyer near hand written scribble "I will not give up my parental rights". That be almost 2 years ago. So basically he is a control freak that doesn't want to be a father to his son and doesn't want anyone else to either.
My son and my husband are closer than most father and son's. They love each other so much. My son swears that this is his REAL dad and that I have just kept it a secret all these years :) My husband feel the same way, even though I did not know my husband back later. We are very blessed to have my husband in our lives. My ex then again can drop off the face of the planet for all I supervision.
Answers: I have one of those...but he isn't worthy to even be classified as a "dad" in any form, shape or manner. Anyways. I am a single mommy of 4 kids underneath the age of 10yrs old. I got pregnant & married my senior year of high institution, we were married for about 6 yrs when I couldn't take any more of his lying, cheating, partying, drinking & several times bailing him out of secure unit for DWI's. Well, after I told him I wanted nothing more to do with him (I be on my own taking care of my kids any way, so the only difference is I wouldn't enjoy to bother w/ him), he disappeared, this is the 5th year with no word from him. To be honest with you I LOVE that I don't hear from him or see him. I have alotof dislike for him, but I don't dislike him b/c I have my beautiful babies becuz of him. It doesn't mean my enthusiasm is easy...AT ALL, it's far from that but, it's my life so I make it take place. Alot of things reminded/remind me of him, in fact I think he's rear in town or not too far from us, and THAT thought makes me sick to my stomach, I'd be GREAT if i didn't have to ever settlement with him ever again, I don't want an "off & on dad" for my kids, they deserver so much better. I don't get child support, didn't even try to (long story, u can email me if u wanna hear nearly it lol), it's SO hard doin it on my mind, but thanks to God we make it. We can't do adjectives the things I'd like to, but we have a home, transportation & food in our cabinet, so we're just fine.
Hang in there, it's far from graceful, but your baby can sense your frustration & anger, so for their sake try to move on.later on babe daddy will regret that he abandoned you & his son & it may just be too late for him to enjoy a second chance. Sorry to hear this happened to you, but if I can make it next to 4 kids, you will do fine, keep your head up. :) Source(s): experience. my life..
I'm in this situation, but no, I don't have a feeling this way about my kids' father. Idk if its because time made it wear off or what. What I can relate you is if his father is behaving in this manner your son is better sour without him. Our job as parents is to make our child become a productive cut of society. Think of the influence this man could have on your son if he were around and you might realize that your child really is better off in need him. :)
I have been there. I know it sounds cliche, but over time it really will fade. Sometimes I find myself wish we were still friends just because he was so much fun to be around. It took me in the region of 4 years but I can finally say I really am over it and I just feel sorry for him. My daughter and he would bring along great if they knew each other. He doesn't know what he's missing.
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