11 month prehistoric is have really fruitless tantrums, what to do?
my 11 month old has horrible tanrums where she will report her head on anything near her , scratch , and bite. it may not nouns all that bad but i'm scared that she will seriously injure herself.
usually shes a VERY GOOD child. and in a good mood and happy as long as she have a good nap. but yesterday in the pool she required to bring her sippy cup with her in her floaty and she ended up hurting her lip on it , she be OKAY , but as soon as i took her sippy cup away she was going nutts trying to bang her head on me and whatnot.
i be told that its about time to start slapping her hands but i think its purely too soon. she is my first obviously , and i don't want to slap her on the hands until she is maybe 2 year prehistoric. i don't plan on spanking UNLESS she does something that really just deserves it.
did you ever have this problem and if so what did you do about it?
Take her to your clan doctor. I have a friend who's son has horrible tantrums. She took him to their doc and he was put on Adderal. He behave much better now.
But just take her to your own flesh and blood doctor and see what advice he can give you.
Good luck!!
I would enjoy taken her out of the pool and changed her . If she cant behave in a situation remove her from it. If she throws a tantrum outside of the pool I would walk off and start out her where she is. I assume she can walk. She will follow you. Just ignore her tantrums. Dont donate in to what she wants. She will get it, it will of late take consistancy
Answers: 11 months behind the times is WAY too young to spank. My daughter had horrid fits like these at a childlike age as well. My doctor advised just putting her within her crib until she calmed down and that is what I did. Sleep was also huge for her behavior as well. Looking stern now (she is 8 yrs) I think she was overstimulated sometimes and they simply meltdown at that point, she is immensely stubborn too though. if you are not at home I would remove her from the situation and go home. Removing her will help her to calm down and also instruct her that behavior means your fun or whatever is over.
I did start time out with my daughter at 1 so I dream up it would be fine with your daughter at 11 months. I simply told her no firmly and set her on the couch. It does not have to be in a bedroom, she simply had to sit on the couch until she calmed down. If I had to hold her there so be it. Obviously I did not hurt her but she did NOT take down until she calmed down.
I really don't think slapping her hand because she wants a sippy cup will train her anything. You just have to find what is effective beside her. My daughter also HATED the corner, I did not do that until she was older simply because I did not think almost it. It was more effective than time out or even taking toys. You could do that too. I never pinned her in the corner but she be not allowed to leave it either even if I have to stand there for her whole punishment.
Ignore all these folks that are saying to hit her. She needs to learn she cannot conduct yourself that way but at the same time you have to remember she is 11 months. It is a study process that will take time and a LOT of patience on your part.
personally, i thank my mom for spanking me.
I think you should move about with that.
The actual thought of you spanking your kid is more scary than the hit in a child's eyes.
I think you not wanting to slap her hand is a glimps into how un-firm you are towards your child, she's already get it in her head that you're a push over and she's taking full advantage of that. Give her mischievous hand a whack, doesn't have to be a hard slap at adjectives, just remind her who's boss.
calm him down by giving her a cookie or something
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usually shes a VERY GOOD child. and in a good mood and happy as long as she have a good nap. but yesterday in the pool she required to bring her sippy cup with her in her floaty and she ended up hurting her lip on it , she be OKAY , but as soon as i took her sippy cup away she was going nutts trying to bang her head on me and whatnot.
i be told that its about time to start slapping her hands but i think its purely too soon. she is my first obviously , and i don't want to slap her on the hands until she is maybe 2 year prehistoric. i don't plan on spanking UNLESS she does something that really just deserves it.
did you ever have this problem and if so what did you do about it?
Take her to your clan doctor. I have a friend who's son has horrible tantrums. She took him to their doc and he was put on Adderal. He behave much better now.
But just take her to your own flesh and blood doctor and see what advice he can give you.
Good luck!!
I would enjoy taken her out of the pool and changed her . If she cant behave in a situation remove her from it. If she throws a tantrum outside of the pool I would walk off and start out her where she is. I assume she can walk. She will follow you. Just ignore her tantrums. Dont donate in to what she wants. She will get it, it will of late take consistancy
Answers: 11 months behind the times is WAY too young to spank. My daughter had horrid fits like these at a childlike age as well. My doctor advised just putting her within her crib until she calmed down and that is what I did. Sleep was also huge for her behavior as well. Looking stern now (she is 8 yrs) I think she was overstimulated sometimes and they simply meltdown at that point, she is immensely stubborn too though. if you are not at home I would remove her from the situation and go home. Removing her will help her to calm down and also instruct her that behavior means your fun or whatever is over.
I did start time out with my daughter at 1 so I dream up it would be fine with your daughter at 11 months. I simply told her no firmly and set her on the couch. It does not have to be in a bedroom, she simply had to sit on the couch until she calmed down. If I had to hold her there so be it. Obviously I did not hurt her but she did NOT take down until she calmed down.
I really don't think slapping her hand because she wants a sippy cup will train her anything. You just have to find what is effective beside her. My daughter also HATED the corner, I did not do that until she was older simply because I did not think almost it. It was more effective than time out or even taking toys. You could do that too. I never pinned her in the corner but she be not allowed to leave it either even if I have to stand there for her whole punishment.
Ignore all these folks that are saying to hit her. She needs to learn she cannot conduct yourself that way but at the same time you have to remember she is 11 months. It is a study process that will take time and a LOT of patience on your part.
personally, i thank my mom for spanking me.
I think you should move about with that.
The actual thought of you spanking your kid is more scary than the hit in a child's eyes.
I think you not wanting to slap her hand is a glimps into how un-firm you are towards your child, she's already get it in her head that you're a push over and she's taking full advantage of that. Give her mischievous hand a whack, doesn't have to be a hard slap at adjectives, just remind her who's boss.
calm him down by giving her a cookie or something
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