Any Parents Out There Care To Help Me?
My parents are really up tight I was wondering how I can get them to let me live some of my own existence. Like this weekend I was going to see a movie but then something happen and the solely person who would still go with me be a guy. He is dating my friend, but my parents wouldn't let me go to the movie, it was the finishing show of that movie.
Or I asked mom if I could so paitingballing this summer with my friends. So today she asked me who all was going. I told her that it be a group of guys, I am the only girl who wanted to go, so in a minute she might not let me go. AT ALL!!
My dad gets really batty when I ask to go to a guys house or I ask to have a guy over, they like flipped out at me. They won't even tolerate me have a guy over when they aren't home even tho my brother is home too and his friends, she is scared that we would kiss. We wouldn't do that and she knows I wouldn't, and they know I wouldn't agree to that happen.
I can't even go shopping alone now, she doesn't ruminate i can do it.
They always want to know where I am and where I am going who near and how I am getting there and everything. Even after school or anything on the weekends they want to know, but they make it
really rock-hard of me to get a hold of them because I don't have a cell phone they won't get me one and they influence I can get one when i get a job but they won't agree to me get a job.
So I want to know how i can get some of my approaching to be my life and for I can have some freedom in it.
how old are you?
as you are only 14 ,,,, i really understandwhere your parents are coming from .they are try to proctected you from adjectives the evil out there , which is good as you are 14 ,maybe they will started to allowed abit of freedom at 16 ,, you must remember you are still a child contained by there eyes ,,
OK, first off, you never said how aged you are so I can't really give a good answer. If you're too young to be doing these things, afterwards of course, you really don't have a good valise. Now, if you're going out with a group of guys and you're the only girl? Sorry, but you're just asking for trouble. Unless these are boys that you're drastically close to as well as your parents, then I'm sure they'd be a little more laissez-faire. But no parents are just gonna up and let you, a female, do anything next to a group of guys.
As for the movies with a boy that your friend is dating? You'd just be causing yourself, that boy and your friend problems. There aren't abundant girls who want their boyfriend out with another girl.
Sweetie, you're just gonna have to swot up to live with the parents you got. It sounds to me like they're great parents who are trying to save you safe and taken care of. Be thankful for that. If you want your own enthusiasm, try getting a job. If you're old enough. If your parents own a problem with you getting a job, then you should sit down and settle to them about that. They can take you and pick you up, you'd be showing them that you're responsible and can be trusted. Everything comes in due time. Again, be obliged you have parents that are there for you. Source(s): Once was a young girl; now a mother of 3
Sounds normal for a 14 year hoary. Your rules are not extreme at all.
Your parents are doing the right thing.I know that is not what you want to hear, but deep down you really similar to the fact they care so much to know who you are with, where on earth you are going, when you will be home, etc etc. Whether you admit it or not, you want that type of discipline. Have you ever known anyone that is competent to go and come as they please, without the parent questioning or charitable where they are or who they are with at your age. Well, I have and trust me you don't want to live that enthusiasm. They people I've known, growing up like that, don't enjoy a care in the world for other people, no respect for anyone, find crazy and into trouble and just like to raise hell. They do that because subconsciously they want to be caught and they want the parents to in truth care what they are doing.
its normal for you parents to want to know where your going and what your doing and who your near . that's stuff they need to know. always be truthful with them. im best friends beside my mom . when my boyfriend is at my house i kiss him in front of her because im Honest with her and tell her everything. try sitting next to your mom and tell her what you have done. im 13 and will be 14 soon . so i know how not being trusted is. but to be trusted you must detail the truth , let her know everthing and she will know that she can trust you because you will tell her whats really going on .
This is why children sneak and do things
im not a parent yet lol but im only 15 and im 8 months pregnant.. i have no rules what so ever and i had guys come over and even stay the night when my parents were near or not... but i understand why your parents are like that.. they dont want you to get hurt.. i be sexually active when i was 12 and im sure its cause my parents didnt comfort what i did.. now look at me lol im big and fat (pregnant)
im not trying to make you do things your not suppose to but if you really want to jump just tell them your going with some girls too.. beside parents like that you cant be too honest.. lol damn i feel like a unpromising person telling you this but im just wise saying what i would do
Answers: It may help out to know how old you are? Also, I know your parents seem overwhelmingly uptight, but they really just love you and want the best for you. It's patently hard to see as a teenager, though! Not all boys are biddable boys, and your parents are probably having a hard time letting you hang out beside a bunch of them (understandably), although I can't imagine groups of boys with girls are a problem? Just make sure you carry your best girl buddy to go with you.
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Or I asked mom if I could so paitingballing this summer with my friends. So today she asked me who all was going. I told her that it be a group of guys, I am the only girl who wanted to go, so in a minute she might not let me go. AT ALL!!
My dad gets really batty when I ask to go to a guys house or I ask to have a guy over, they like flipped out at me. They won't even tolerate me have a guy over when they aren't home even tho my brother is home too and his friends, she is scared that we would kiss. We wouldn't do that and she knows I wouldn't, and they know I wouldn't agree to that happen.
I can't even go shopping alone now, she doesn't ruminate i can do it.
They always want to know where I am and where I am going who near and how I am getting there and everything. Even after school or anything on the weekends they want to know, but they make it
really rock-hard of me to get a hold of them because I don't have a cell phone they won't get me one and they influence I can get one when i get a job but they won't agree to me get a job.
So I want to know how i can get some of my approaching to be my life and for I can have some freedom in it.
how old are you?
as you are only 14 ,,,, i really understandwhere your parents are coming from .they are try to proctected you from adjectives the evil out there , which is good as you are 14 ,maybe they will started to allowed abit of freedom at 16 ,, you must remember you are still a child contained by there eyes ,,
OK, first off, you never said how aged you are so I can't really give a good answer. If you're too young to be doing these things, afterwards of course, you really don't have a good valise. Now, if you're going out with a group of guys and you're the only girl? Sorry, but you're just asking for trouble. Unless these are boys that you're drastically close to as well as your parents, then I'm sure they'd be a little more laissez-faire. But no parents are just gonna up and let you, a female, do anything next to a group of guys.
As for the movies with a boy that your friend is dating? You'd just be causing yourself, that boy and your friend problems. There aren't abundant girls who want their boyfriend out with another girl.
Sweetie, you're just gonna have to swot up to live with the parents you got. It sounds to me like they're great parents who are trying to save you safe and taken care of. Be thankful for that. If you want your own enthusiasm, try getting a job. If you're old enough. If your parents own a problem with you getting a job, then you should sit down and settle to them about that. They can take you and pick you up, you'd be showing them that you're responsible and can be trusted. Everything comes in due time. Again, be obliged you have parents that are there for you. Source(s): Once was a young girl; now a mother of 3
Sounds normal for a 14 year hoary. Your rules are not extreme at all.
Your parents are doing the right thing.I know that is not what you want to hear, but deep down you really similar to the fact they care so much to know who you are with, where on earth you are going, when you will be home, etc etc. Whether you admit it or not, you want that type of discipline. Have you ever known anyone that is competent to go and come as they please, without the parent questioning or charitable where they are or who they are with at your age. Well, I have and trust me you don't want to live that enthusiasm. They people I've known, growing up like that, don't enjoy a care in the world for other people, no respect for anyone, find crazy and into trouble and just like to raise hell. They do that because subconsciously they want to be caught and they want the parents to in truth care what they are doing.
its normal for you parents to want to know where your going and what your doing and who your near . that's stuff they need to know. always be truthful with them. im best friends beside my mom . when my boyfriend is at my house i kiss him in front of her because im Honest with her and tell her everything. try sitting next to your mom and tell her what you have done. im 13 and will be 14 soon . so i know how not being trusted is. but to be trusted you must detail the truth , let her know everthing and she will know that she can trust you because you will tell her whats really going on .
This is why children sneak and do things
im not a parent yet lol but im only 15 and im 8 months pregnant.. i have no rules what so ever and i had guys come over and even stay the night when my parents were near or not... but i understand why your parents are like that.. they dont want you to get hurt.. i be sexually active when i was 12 and im sure its cause my parents didnt comfort what i did.. now look at me lol im big and fat (pregnant)
im not trying to make you do things your not suppose to but if you really want to jump just tell them your going with some girls too.. beside parents like that you cant be too honest.. lol damn i feel like a unpromising person telling you this but im just wise saying what i would do
Answers: It may help out to know how old you are? Also, I know your parents seem overwhelmingly uptight, but they really just love you and want the best for you. It's patently hard to see as a teenager, though! Not all boys are biddable boys, and your parents are probably having a hard time letting you hang out beside a bunch of them (understandably), although I can't imagine groups of boys with girls are a problem? Just make sure you carry your best girl buddy to go with you.
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