As a parent, how would you vista this?

I am mother to 2 children, ages 5 and 7. I work full time for the same company for 23+ years, but have been on disability for a few months. I still provide the form insurance for myself and the children. I don't smoke, drink alcohol or do drugs.

Their biological father is self-employed as a handyman, and even though I have a Court Order for him to pay child support, he can not be garnished surrounded by a traditional way and does not pay. I turned my child support collection over to the Dept. of Child Support Services, run by the state. Trying to get them to enforce anything have been, let's say, "interesting".

The attorney I used for the child support order say he can file Contempt of Court charges against the dad for each month he hasn't paid and be able to, but it'll cost me a chunka change. The attorney says we can ask the court to own the father responsible for my attorney's costs, which they likely would grant, but I have to wages the attorney and IF he ends up getting the payment from the father, I would get reimbursed.

So, I'm going to make a sign "NEED MONEY FOR ATTORNEY TO PROSECUTE DEAD-BEAT DAD" and stand at a busy intersection...

What would you regard as if you saw me standing there? Would you help?
I would help out if I knew what I be doing. Everyone deserves a good dad.
It is a virtuous idea. I wouldn't exactly throw $100.00 bills at you maybe a toonie (I'm Canadian, you get the view.) if I had it. If you stand out there long enough, you could probably make higher a reasonable amount.
I touch bad for the mentally ill alcoholics who do that, but I think I would enjoy rather less sympathy for a Mum-bum... Get a job.
yes i would def scrounge up whateve change i could find.

its a better cause than the bum beside the sign "i aint gonna lie i need beer."

good luck
My husband is retired, and did not have a job when he be sent to court for child support (He was not a dead beat, she purely wanted more)
Because he is now and actor and didn't own a "regular" job. They assessed him a $12.00 and hour job. And his child support was base on that. The courts had him set up and account (our regular account)in yuor case it could be your husband's business justification and if he doesn't have one then you could threaten to cll the IRS on him. The moneys could come out of his business account and regardless of if he worked or not he wishes to pay for his kid each month.If I knew which state you be in I may be able to help more. Sorry
I wouldn't for matching reasons as Judo.
Plus, you picked the sperm not me.
I doubt you would get anywhere with that because within are so many people in impossible to tell apart predicament. Source(s): My daughter is owed over $25,000 in child support.
i would help out if i had it. not too much though. motionless beat dads SUCK.
Answers:    Sounds like my situation. My son's 'father' is a private contractor, so they can't side dishes his wages, they just pay him a check and he's supposed to pay directly to DCSE. And he solitary pays when he feels like it. DCSE has gone as far as to suspend his drivers license and put a hold on his edge account and put liens on any personal property he owns (he doesn't own any). So to get around the hold on the bank justification, he just goes to a check cashing place and cashes his check.

How easy is that?

If I saw you next to that sign - I would help if I had the extra money... But I should really be standing at the next corner next to the same sign, LOL Source(s): <~~~ Single momma who works full time to support her son.

(Back support owed in my son's case is over $10k since March of 2008)
Honestly, no I wouldn't, because the residence deadbeat dad is highly subjective, and I don't just take it at obverse value anymore.
However, I will tell you that DCSS will do everything necessary to collect your child support. It take much longer than the attorney route, but it does happen. And, they won't keep a cut of it for themselves. Source(s): my ex decided to quit paying child support when our daughter be 13.
My husband has been stuck with exorbitant child support bills by his ex, even when he be paying all along.
would you support me if I was standing at an intersection with a sign that said "Help. be drained by a manipulative greedy be-otch, and the state that allows her to do so" ?

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