My mom call me a slut?

b/c i wore a bikin to go swimming. i went with some of my friends and her dad. her dad is cool. she said aren't you afraid some guy is going to rape you? yea some guy is going to be dumb plenty to rape me in a public swimmig pool with millions of people around. she said i bet her dad get turned on. well couldn't he look at his daughter too...though i hope he doesn't. its not even skimpy. she said i was disobeying her house rules. well first of adjectives its MY money and im going to spend it how i like,my job has nought to do with house rules. second of all i'm 18 i can choose my own attire. As long as i'm not in her house i'm not breaking any house rules. what i do outside of the house isn't her business. i tight-fisted its not like she's going to see me in it. i never go swimming near my family, so why does she care? it kinda hurts too.
when i lived at home, my mother made rules, and expected me to live by them, her house, her rules. and not once, did i consider that was rediculous, or questioned it.

why? because she made those rules for a reason, and they be for my best interest.

and friend, it doesnt matter if you are 18, or 118, if you are living in here house, you should respect her rules.
That isn't nice and you should tell your mother that you do not appreciate her calling you that. She is just person an overprotective mother and doesn't want you to get hurt out there in the world. There are citizens who might do something dangerous to you so I think she just desires you to be careful. However, I don't think it was appropriate for her to appointment you that so I'm sorry. I know what its like to be called that by people contained by my family for stupid reasons. Anyway hope I helped [:
Your an adult, your mom will just own to get over it...
You live with her she supports you. Unless you rate the mortgage, electric etc. If she does not want you to wear it have some respect and do as she says. If not move out then you can prance around surrounded by whatever you want.
Answers:    i dont understand why your mum would say aloud that, and mean it.
thats cruel and im sorry but not being a very well brought-up mother..
you are `18 and have a right to wear what you want, and if you buy it yourself even more right.
i would talk to her as my mother would never say a entity like that as a mother shouldnt. enless mabey she was joking around but even after thats pretty nasty
Well. Your mother is kind of nuts. Her logic is backward and she is hurtful. But she does own a point.
Did you know that it was one of her house rules that you not dress that way? If you did then you be both wrong here.
As you said, you are 18...so move out if you don't want to follow her rules.
When you are dependent on someone else then you must follow their rules. That means that if their house rule is that you not wear a bikini, then as long as you live below their roof you obey their rules. Were you living with her at the time you wore that bikini? Yes? Then it is breaking a house rule. I'm sure you didn't move all of your stuff out and not live next to her at all the day you broke her rules so therefore it is still a despoliation of the house rules. Common sense.
I don't agree with your mother's rules or her logic...but I have that liberty since I don't live near her. You don't. Source(s): How ignoble is my IQ? Certainly my IQ is large enough to know the proper way not individual to spell(as you don't seem to be able to) but also to know the proper way of using spoken language. So you believe my IQ to be of low or common birth? I suppose your mother is very uncommon? Perhaps the Queen of England? No? Well afterwards I suppose you are just as ignoble as I. I have a bachelor's degree. Do you? I live on my own and support myself and home. Do you? I have enough logic to know that when somone else sets the rules, I must obey them or take off their jurisdiction. Do you?
These questions are rhetorical as I don't expect someone of your ignoble situation to know how to respond.

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