How masses of you ladies have children after 30 and what is it approaching?
don't listen to Ali, she doesn't have a clue what she is talking just about!
I was 2 weeks off 34 when I had my little boy. I am presently 7 weeks pregnant and I'll be 36 by the time the baby is born.
I would have liked to hold had children at a younger age, but I just wasn't with the right partner at the time. I don't perceive that I or my son suffers because of it though.
It is true that fertility starts to drop in your 30s and it took me 9 months to conceive our first baby and 10 months for this one. That's not a bad amount of time considering nearby are some women who have been trying for a lot longer than that. I one and only have one fallopian tube too, but that's nothing to do with me anyone in my 30s.
I don't feel old and I incontestably don't act old. I'm full of energy and I do plenty of influential things with my son. I wouldn't swap my little boy for anything in the world and it was the best piece we ever did having him! I love him to bits and he brings so much love and laughter into our lives.
It will be the same for you and your husband I'm sure.
lots of love and babydust to you both x
I had my twins at 34 and it took me 6 months to conceive with a miscarriage in between. My partner and I are no longer together but I do not regret getting pregnant. My pregnancy be complicated but I think I coped really well. I worked up to my 32nd week but I had to quit because my body simply could not cope with the workload. I had my twins at 35 weeks and they are doing really well in a minute. They are 19 months old and keeping me really busy.
I can't really say, as i didn't have children in my 20's to compare it to. I give birth to twin boys almost 18 weeks ago, when i was 34. I'll be 35 when my next set of twins are born next year. I don't see my age as a factor because i'm fit, clean and have no ill effects or extra tiredness just because i'm surrounded by my 30's. Some women do suffer a drop in their fertility in their 30's, so it can take longer to conceive. But every woman's different. You may never suffer that problem. I didn't any. Once i came off birth control, pregnancy happened rapidly. I've been with my husband for 6 years and suffered 2 miscarriages with him, (and one back i met him) But i do regret in a way depriving him for so long of so much joy. It took me a long time to want to try again after my third loss, so i did lug longer than perhaps necessary. My husband was wonderful and supportive during that time and didn't rush me within the slightest, but because he loves being a father so much, and is such a fantastic one i have had moments of despondency for depriving him for so long. He never got to experience being a full time father with his child from a previous relationship, as his ex go to live abroad taking his son with her, so he didn't see him a great deal. I'm sure he's trying to create up for that lost time now. However, on the other hand i also don't regret it. Everything happens for a point, and i appreciate the boys so much more because of my previous losses.. I'm sad i wont be able to give them my undivided attention for longer, as they'll be simply under a year old when their siblings are born so everything will change. When you become a mother, trust me, you'll be so busy person a Mother, and enjoying it, that your age will be the last thing on your mind.
i only had my 3rd baby and I am 40..and it is amazing ..i have so much more moderation and i feel great..34 is not too old at all.. dutiful luck...kids are little miracles...
I don't have experience with this personally, but my mom have me when she was 34 and my sister when she was 36. I don't think she regretted it because she have wanted kids for so long, but kept having miscarriages. So she was really positive when we came along.
I know quite a few other ladies too who have have kids after 30 and they're all doing great.
I hope I helped! I'm sure you would be a great mom! :) Source(s): happily married since 09/29/07 and hoping to start our domestic soon!
I suppose mid 30s is kinda late - you or him might start having fertility problems by then. But after again, MANY people are having babies that late contained by life nowadays.
If you can afford it - they have that tentative procedure that allows you to freeze your eggs. You can freeze them now and use them years from now.
I'm 26 and my hubby is 25, we're trying to conceive our first baby in a minute - I want to have my first baby before 30 definately, for frequent reasons! Most of all, I have read your body can fiddle with pregnancy better in your 20s and I don't want to be too old when my kids are graduating illustrious school!
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