Any moms verbs something like their children when their not next to you?
Everytime my children are with another family member besides my husband I constantly verbs about them. Does anyone else do this?? I thought it was just a phase when my daughter be a baby but now shes 4 and I still do it. Im always thinking the worst! I verbs so much. And Im terrified for her to start pre-k... How can I control this? I hate it.. Sometimes I dont even let relations come and get them..
I consistency the same but my son is only 10months. He has not be away for longer then 1 night from me. I hate it. I christen and check on him like once an hr. But tomorrow my husband and I are going out of town and he is staying at grandmas house for 2 days! Im going to go nuts.
Hey I resent that...Dads verbs to you know. Seriously, just breath and accept that it's fine to worry just about your kids, it's natural. I worry about mine, but I hold to trust to an extent, that they will be safe in certain places close to school. I know it doesn't really matter, there is a risk of something discouraging happening no matter where your kids are or who they are beside, but if you start letting the paranoia take over and let fear control you, it will not be angelic for you or the kids.
Answers: Me too. I even worry when my daughter is with her father. It's in recent times that we know them so well, and know the trouble they can get into. Like sneaking into drawers or going in the underground room by themselves - whatever it may be. We know to watch for it, but someone else ( although meaning well) will not.
As for pre-k - if you find a really apt one, and most of them are - you will relax. They will be with teachers in a controlled environment where on earth they can't wander off or get into trouble. Plus the little ones enjoy so much fun. It's actually a relief for me.
Here's another example of what you are going through - my daughter's grandma wants to preserve her overnight (my daughter is 3 and 1/2), and I won't allow it. Grandma lives alone without a dog or alarm system and I just picture a break-in. Or, my daughter wandering off on her own.
In time, I will tolerate her but not right now. It might be too cautious, but it's better to be this way.
I am always worried and wondering if my daughter is ok too when other people are watching her. Some days when my mom is watching her i name so many times to check in on her that she just answers the phone near a baby update without saying hi anymore or making sure it is me calling.
I am the same, my daughter is 12 and I still contantly worry give or take a few her, even when she is at school. I think its human nature to verbs about your children no matter how old they are.
You think that scare you? Imagine your son is in the marines and in Iraq or your baby boy is a truck driver and adjectives over the US. When your kids get older it gets A LOT worse. It's unforced now.
my kids are 15,13,10 I worry about them all of the time,its worse fon the weekend the tow youger ones (boys) stir to their dads for the weekend and he lets them do whatever they want go play by a pond,within the woods without supervision that freeks me out so much and the fact that the dad does not call me if they catch hurt ( the 13 year old was bitten by a neighbors dog pretty bad and he never call to tell me i found on sunday when they came home) scary!! but my 15 year hoary I worry about too because shes getting to the age she wants to move about off with friends, I gave her a cell phone and frenzy if she doesnt answer. But i do know tha tI have tought them, all the best that I could and I'm learning to trust them more.I dont ever construe I will stop worrying about them I think it will get worse the elder they get
Wow! So I'm not alone. I thought I be crazy. I don't know how to control it either, but just know you're not the only one.
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I consistency the same but my son is only 10months. He has not be away for longer then 1 night from me. I hate it. I christen and check on him like once an hr. But tomorrow my husband and I are going out of town and he is staying at grandmas house for 2 days! Im going to go nuts.
Hey I resent that...Dads verbs to you know. Seriously, just breath and accept that it's fine to worry just about your kids, it's natural. I worry about mine, but I hold to trust to an extent, that they will be safe in certain places close to school. I know it doesn't really matter, there is a risk of something discouraging happening no matter where your kids are or who they are beside, but if you start letting the paranoia take over and let fear control you, it will not be angelic for you or the kids.
Answers: Me too. I even worry when my daughter is with her father. It's in recent times that we know them so well, and know the trouble they can get into. Like sneaking into drawers or going in the underground room by themselves - whatever it may be. We know to watch for it, but someone else ( although meaning well) will not.
As for pre-k - if you find a really apt one, and most of them are - you will relax. They will be with teachers in a controlled environment where on earth they can't wander off or get into trouble. Plus the little ones enjoy so much fun. It's actually a relief for me.
Here's another example of what you are going through - my daughter's grandma wants to preserve her overnight (my daughter is 3 and 1/2), and I won't allow it. Grandma lives alone without a dog or alarm system and I just picture a break-in. Or, my daughter wandering off on her own.
In time, I will tolerate her but not right now. It might be too cautious, but it's better to be this way.
I am always worried and wondering if my daughter is ok too when other people are watching her. Some days when my mom is watching her i name so many times to check in on her that she just answers the phone near a baby update without saying hi anymore or making sure it is me calling.
I am the same, my daughter is 12 and I still contantly worry give or take a few her, even when she is at school. I think its human nature to verbs about your children no matter how old they are.
You think that scare you? Imagine your son is in the marines and in Iraq or your baby boy is a truck driver and adjectives over the US. When your kids get older it gets A LOT worse. It's unforced now.
my kids are 15,13,10 I worry about them all of the time,its worse fon the weekend the tow youger ones (boys) stir to their dads for the weekend and he lets them do whatever they want go play by a pond,within the woods without supervision that freeks me out so much and the fact that the dad does not call me if they catch hurt ( the 13 year old was bitten by a neighbors dog pretty bad and he never call to tell me i found on sunday when they came home) scary!! but my 15 year hoary I worry about too because shes getting to the age she wants to move about off with friends, I gave her a cell phone and frenzy if she doesnt answer. But i do know tha tI have tought them, all the best that I could and I'm learning to trust them more.I dont ever construe I will stop worrying about them I think it will get worse the elder they get
Wow! So I'm not alone. I thought I be crazy. I don't know how to control it either, but just know you're not the only one.
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