Do everyday mothers update their children these things?
Children don't feel pain the same means of access adults do.
If I didn't whip you, you wouldn't know you were loved...
Children are to be seen, not hear...
No,these are what a bad parent would vote.
Previously abused mothers say things close to that to their children because they were never taught, or allowed to think for themselves. Sometimes, parents repeat what is said to them and hold no idea what they are saying because they never questioned anything and if they did, they be beaten for doing so.
Pain is pain. No matter who feel it , the commonality is that it hurts. Your pain is no worse to bear than mine. The difference is, it belongs to you. It is your cross to bear and if you accept it alone, it gets heavy.
Whipping a child as a form of discipline is common and trial in most states. Does that mean commentary about how your love is human being expressed through the belt or switch is necessary. No it does not. If you spank, tell the child clearly why and don't make a mannerism out of only using that form of discipline. Take privileges away and tell them if they didn't, they would not know they were loved. I be only spanked twice as a child. I realized early my parents be out of their league and parenting was not their forte'.
As I child, I was told children should be seen and not hear. I never listened. If I had something worthwhile to say, I said it. If I have a question, I asked. I either got into trouble or I be overlooked. It mattered not to me, as my joy came from sharing information.
ummmm no!
I would have to say NO! Children are very influencial at near young ages they soak up everything we as parents say! We are there idol! It could leave damage on there childish minds and grow with them as an adult. Not always but surrounded by some cases it will lead to depression a feeling as if they were never honest enough. It can also become a patteren to the way that they may raise within children with hurtful words. Abuse should never be the key to parenting, but verbal does come across to take a more mental toll on ones mind so be careful and remember there minds are approaching sponges, they pick up a lot more then you can imangine! Take care of yourself!! ; )
"Children don't feel pain the same track adults do."
No. They feel it a lot harder.
"If I didn't whip you, you wouldn't know you be loved..."
My kids have never been whipped, and I'm pretty sure they know I love them. Because I show them *love*, not *violence*.
"Children are to be see, not heard..."
What is this, the 1920s?
I would read aloud not normal, although children do not feel the pain like peas in a pod way adults do, does not mean they do not feel agony. Back in the days I did get a spanking never when I did not deserve it. And I knew I be loved thats why they tried to teach me respect & love. The only time children are seen & not hear is on the Soap Operas:)
Thats terrible and abusive.
Parents need to keep hold of in mind that if they want their children to respect them, then they themselves need to show their children some respect.
The last two things on your list nouns like normal things to say to your children 20 or 30 years ago. I grew up audible range those two things regularly. My mom and dad are my best friends to this day.
The first thing - about twinge - well that's just crazy. I don't know anyone who has said or even think that.
um mm...I hope I am middle-of-the-road because I have said these things to my 3 kids...although I don't whip my kids but do believe in the occasional slap if indispensable. And yes, I am of the old school of thought that children are not little adults but do not take the 'children are to be see, not heard...' literally although try to teach mine that it is rude to interrupt, back chat or to ask for something short waiting to be offered, from an adult.
the first one is the worst, because adults don't consistency pain the same way children do, and wounding parents who would say that should get busted.
NO!!…
No.
Abusive ones tell their children those things.
children should ALWAYS know WHY they are human being punished
if a child doesn't know then explanation followed by consequences needs to apply
i think the terribly idea of 'children being seen and no heard' is totally stupid and in reality the saying arose in victorian times when people have large families and high demise rates hence adults tended not to invest emotional energy within their offspring - hardly the case for today.
NO!!…
NEVER!!
Answers: Normal mothers, who are loving, and nurturing do not abuse their children in such a despicable manner.. I know, that is to say the stuff my own mother did, it was not , is not and never will be normal. Children feel agony every bit as much as adults, and such torture like this causes alot of damage to the self-esteem of a child. The model that children should be seen and not heard is crap, how can a child be expected to learn if they are barred to talk? the line or 'reasoning' comes from a very insecure soul who does not want anyone to know how stupid they really are; because if they were smart, they would not get upset with question, just tell them that you do not know the answer, show them how to look up things in the library to find out answers to question. If I whip you, geez, I would love to get in a room for in the region of 5 minutes with some low down piece of garbage who has the effrontery to say this to a child. I need to close, visions of ancient abuses are flashing before me. Lord knows that I forgive her, but to any party reading this who is guilty of doing any of these things, PLEASE seek help, the child that you are beating and in words abusing did not ask for that, and they will be screwed up until they get counselling, and they run the risk of repeating your abuse, and worse. Parents are to love, nurture, and train up a child to be the type of character that you would love to be friends with. So for your sake, and your children's sake, and your grandchildren's sake, do not abuse them, love them. Source(s): 16 years of chid abuse: vocally, sexually, emotionally, and physically.Now as a born-again Christian, God uses the mess of my past to help minister to hurting people; the abused and the abuser. There is love and forgiveness, and freedom within Jesus.It is by His mercy , grace and love that I am even hear today[ I have had over 60 concussions]
I have never and won't ever tell my kids these things
Are you Amish?
no i would never tell my child that
Any mother...or father...or developed who says those things to a child shouldn't have children or be near children.
Every human being, young or old...mature or weak etc, feels pain in like peas in a pod way. It's bull to say they don't.
Put me in a room beside a few adults who whip their kids and a whip of my own and we'll see just how loved they consistency afterwords.
And i'd feel unbelievably sad if kids weren't being loud and have fun...that's part of being a kid, that's their right as a kid and since adults are so quick to bring away every other right that a person in general get, kids should be able to at least have the right to enjoy fun.
I tell my 3 year old boy that everyday. Makes him grow up independent.
No, normal mothers do NOT describe their children these things.
These are the words of an abusive parent.
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If I didn't whip you, you wouldn't know you were loved...
Children are to be seen, not hear...
No,these are what a bad parent would vote.
Previously abused mothers say things close to that to their children because they were never taught, or allowed to think for themselves. Sometimes, parents repeat what is said to them and hold no idea what they are saying because they never questioned anything and if they did, they be beaten for doing so.
Pain is pain. No matter who feel it , the commonality is that it hurts. Your pain is no worse to bear than mine. The difference is, it belongs to you. It is your cross to bear and if you accept it alone, it gets heavy.
Whipping a child as a form of discipline is common and trial in most states. Does that mean commentary about how your love is human being expressed through the belt or switch is necessary. No it does not. If you spank, tell the child clearly why and don't make a mannerism out of only using that form of discipline. Take privileges away and tell them if they didn't, they would not know they were loved. I be only spanked twice as a child. I realized early my parents be out of their league and parenting was not their forte'.
As I child, I was told children should be seen and not hear. I never listened. If I had something worthwhile to say, I said it. If I have a question, I asked. I either got into trouble or I be overlooked. It mattered not to me, as my joy came from sharing information.
ummmm no!
I would have to say NO! Children are very influencial at near young ages they soak up everything we as parents say! We are there idol! It could leave damage on there childish minds and grow with them as an adult. Not always but surrounded by some cases it will lead to depression a feeling as if they were never honest enough. It can also become a patteren to the way that they may raise within children with hurtful words. Abuse should never be the key to parenting, but verbal does come across to take a more mental toll on ones mind so be careful and remember there minds are approaching sponges, they pick up a lot more then you can imangine! Take care of yourself!! ; )
"Children don't feel pain the same track adults do."
No. They feel it a lot harder.
"If I didn't whip you, you wouldn't know you be loved..."
My kids have never been whipped, and I'm pretty sure they know I love them. Because I show them *love*, not *violence*.
"Children are to be see, not heard..."
What is this, the 1920s?
I would read aloud not normal, although children do not feel the pain like peas in a pod way adults do, does not mean they do not feel agony. Back in the days I did get a spanking never when I did not deserve it. And I knew I be loved thats why they tried to teach me respect & love. The only time children are seen & not hear is on the Soap Operas:)
Thats terrible and abusive.
Parents need to keep hold of in mind that if they want their children to respect them, then they themselves need to show their children some respect.
The last two things on your list nouns like normal things to say to your children 20 or 30 years ago. I grew up audible range those two things regularly. My mom and dad are my best friends to this day.
The first thing - about twinge - well that's just crazy. I don't know anyone who has said or even think that.
um mm...I hope I am middle-of-the-road because I have said these things to my 3 kids...although I don't whip my kids but do believe in the occasional slap if indispensable. And yes, I am of the old school of thought that children are not little adults but do not take the 'children are to be see, not heard...' literally although try to teach mine that it is rude to interrupt, back chat or to ask for something short waiting to be offered, from an adult.
the first one is the worst, because adults don't consistency pain the same way children do, and wounding parents who would say that should get busted.
NO!!…
No.
Abusive ones tell their children those things.
children should ALWAYS know WHY they are human being punished
if a child doesn't know then explanation followed by consequences needs to apply
i think the terribly idea of 'children being seen and no heard' is totally stupid and in reality the saying arose in victorian times when people have large families and high demise rates hence adults tended not to invest emotional energy within their offspring - hardly the case for today.
NO!!…
NEVER!!
Answers: Normal mothers, who are loving, and nurturing do not abuse their children in such a despicable manner.. I know, that is to say the stuff my own mother did, it was not , is not and never will be normal. Children feel agony every bit as much as adults, and such torture like this causes alot of damage to the self-esteem of a child. The model that children should be seen and not heard is crap, how can a child be expected to learn if they are barred to talk? the line or 'reasoning' comes from a very insecure soul who does not want anyone to know how stupid they really are; because if they were smart, they would not get upset with question, just tell them that you do not know the answer, show them how to look up things in the library to find out answers to question. If I whip you, geez, I would love to get in a room for in the region of 5 minutes with some low down piece of garbage who has the effrontery to say this to a child. I need to close, visions of ancient abuses are flashing before me. Lord knows that I forgive her, but to any party reading this who is guilty of doing any of these things, PLEASE seek help, the child that you are beating and in words abusing did not ask for that, and they will be screwed up until they get counselling, and they run the risk of repeating your abuse, and worse. Parents are to love, nurture, and train up a child to be the type of character that you would love to be friends with. So for your sake, and your children's sake, and your grandchildren's sake, do not abuse them, love them. Source(s): 16 years of chid abuse: vocally, sexually, emotionally, and physically.Now as a born-again Christian, God uses the mess of my past to help minister to hurting people; the abused and the abuser. There is love and forgiveness, and freedom within Jesus.It is by His mercy , grace and love that I am even hear today[ I have had over 60 concussions]
I have never and won't ever tell my kids these things
Are you Amish?
no i would never tell my child that
Any mother...or father...or developed who says those things to a child shouldn't have children or be near children.
Every human being, young or old...mature or weak etc, feels pain in like peas in a pod way. It's bull to say they don't.
Put me in a room beside a few adults who whip their kids and a whip of my own and we'll see just how loved they consistency afterwords.
And i'd feel unbelievably sad if kids weren't being loud and have fun...that's part of being a kid, that's their right as a kid and since adults are so quick to bring away every other right that a person in general get, kids should be able to at least have the right to enjoy fun.
I tell my 3 year old boy that everyday. Makes him grow up independent.
No, normal mothers do NOT describe their children these things.
These are the words of an abusive parent.
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