My parents are getting matured,,how can i win over it?
well today is my dads 46th birthday, and my mom is 45. im only 15...and my grandpa died at 50. and in 5 years they will be 50.
and i keep hold of thinking on how when i have kids they wont be able to see them grow up...and
and when my grandma turned 70 she didnt even remember who i was...off-colour only be 40 when they turn 70
i just always pictured my parents human being in my life...now its realness that there not! , i know this sounds weird but im seriously upset about this, someone relieve calm me down.
Medicines and doctors are way more advanced now than they be in your grandparent's era. People are living longer because illness and health problems are treated early. As long as your parents see their doctors regularly they will be fine :) Age and dying is just a part of life ... you can't be dismal about it :) We can all "go" at any time ... so don't look for it to happen. Embrace them immediately and love them today, it's all you can do :) Your feelings are completely normal, by the method. We all have a moment in our childlike lives when we realize our parents are mortal, and it's a freaky thought. Go give them hugs and don't wory about tomorrow today :)
if you are seriously concerned then ask them all the question you need to know about your family history and your roots. Make it a point to ask one query everyday about how they view certain things so that you know where on earth they stand on issues that you are concerned about.
Make every moment count. Start spending the quality time that you feel you and your parents should be sharing. If one or both of your parents resign from this earth do you really want to question yourself and say " why did i consume my time watching tv or whatever and not spend that moment with my mom or dad?" Treat them respectfully and try to resolve any arguments or fights back going to bed. Give them plenty of hugs and kisses and tell them that you love them.
It is normal to be worried. They are your parents and you love them and want them to be within your life forever. Unfortunately life isn't like that. We are adjectives hee in this Earth just for some years and then we die. It's the law-of-the-live. Don't stress it though, newly because your grandma died at 50 doesn't mean they are going to die at that same age. They might die today, or they might die when they are 100 years old. Remember that the oldest person to own died was 111 years old. That has to make available you some hope. I know it gives ME hope. Take care of them as much as you can and don't make them stress because stress and anger make them die quicker. Also try to be sure they eat healthy and don't smoke/drink (or at least contained by excess). Source(s): 19 years old Mom is 50. I too am worried she will die soon but I try to believe she will die until she is 100 years old (at least)
My son is 16 this year and I'm 56, his Dad is 52. Your parents are quite immature and they will probably not die as young as your grandfather or have the problems as your grandmother. Medications are always rising. My parents are 79 & 80 and doing very well, both still very moving. On the other hand my husbands parents are long gone, died way too young (60's and 79).
Say Happy Birthday to your Dad for me! May he live long and prosper.
Answers: Seriously do not look at it that way hun!!, just because of what happen to others dosnt mean it will happen to them...they could live to the age of 100 for all you know!, the more you stress almost it the worse it could be. just think positive! Im sure they will live to see your kids grow up...my grandmother was relating me that her parents died young from having problems...and my grandmother has have many probs and ppl have told her she would..but now shes through adjectives of that and she is not 82 years old and living great! and my grandfather is 89 and still working out in the yard every hours of daylight..so just cos past family member died young dosnt mean they will!.. my grandparents always told my parents they didnt mull over they would live to see me and my brother graduate HS, but now they are living to see us in college. so dont worry so much and preserve positive...
My grandmother is the type to pray a whole lot for everyone and everything so that could have also helped her..so if your comfortable near praying that can help :)
i hope this helps you but dont be upset about it...i used to regard as like that to when i was younger..and im now 21...but things come across to be going great.
wish the best of luck to you!! :)
I am 16 and my parents are in there late 40's too. My grandpa be 80 when he died and my grandam is around 80 and she is still alive. Seriously don't worry about it, I mean if they are both surrounded by good healthy I don't think you really enjoy anything to worry about, 50 is not really that old!!
Your parents are solely 30 years older then you... that is exceptionally common these days, and most people live into their 70s or 80s. There are word stories every day about people contained by their 100s. Your parents are not old.
I'm 26, my father is 62 and my mother is 54. They are both quite alive and healthy near their minds intact. My dad never questions who any of his grandkids are, he is quite aware of each one of them.
It is worrisome to realize your own mortality and realize people do eventually get old and die, but you enjoy decades before you need to worry roughly speaking this.
your to young to be worrying im 15 to, but you lately have to look at the bright side of other htings, and live life. i used to always be worrying in the order of the "would ifs" but you have to look around it.
your grandpa probably have health issues... doesnt mean parents will have same issue
I know its rugged.. but this is why you cherish the times you have with family...but its parts of enthusiasm!!
Lots of Kids in Iraq war died before parents I chew over this is worse seeing your kid die..
Just dont worry- take one day at a time
Don't borrow trouble.
Just because it's happened to other people contained by your family, doesn't mean that your parents will have equal thing happen to them!
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and i keep hold of thinking on how when i have kids they wont be able to see them grow up...and
and when my grandma turned 70 she didnt even remember who i was...off-colour only be 40 when they turn 70
i just always pictured my parents human being in my life...now its realness that there not! , i know this sounds weird but im seriously upset about this, someone relieve calm me down.
Medicines and doctors are way more advanced now than they be in your grandparent's era. People are living longer because illness and health problems are treated early. As long as your parents see their doctors regularly they will be fine :) Age and dying is just a part of life ... you can't be dismal about it :) We can all "go" at any time ... so don't look for it to happen. Embrace them immediately and love them today, it's all you can do :) Your feelings are completely normal, by the method. We all have a moment in our childlike lives when we realize our parents are mortal, and it's a freaky thought. Go give them hugs and don't wory about tomorrow today :)
if you are seriously concerned then ask them all the question you need to know about your family history and your roots. Make it a point to ask one query everyday about how they view certain things so that you know where on earth they stand on issues that you are concerned about.
Make every moment count. Start spending the quality time that you feel you and your parents should be sharing. If one or both of your parents resign from this earth do you really want to question yourself and say " why did i consume my time watching tv or whatever and not spend that moment with my mom or dad?" Treat them respectfully and try to resolve any arguments or fights back going to bed. Give them plenty of hugs and kisses and tell them that you love them.
It is normal to be worried. They are your parents and you love them and want them to be within your life forever. Unfortunately life isn't like that. We are adjectives hee in this Earth just for some years and then we die. It's the law-of-the-live. Don't stress it though, newly because your grandma died at 50 doesn't mean they are going to die at that same age. They might die today, or they might die when they are 100 years old. Remember that the oldest person to own died was 111 years old. That has to make available you some hope. I know it gives ME hope. Take care of them as much as you can and don't make them stress because stress and anger make them die quicker. Also try to be sure they eat healthy and don't smoke/drink (or at least contained by excess). Source(s): 19 years old Mom is 50. I too am worried she will die soon but I try to believe she will die until she is 100 years old (at least)
My son is 16 this year and I'm 56, his Dad is 52. Your parents are quite immature and they will probably not die as young as your grandfather or have the problems as your grandmother. Medications are always rising. My parents are 79 & 80 and doing very well, both still very moving. On the other hand my husbands parents are long gone, died way too young (60's and 79).
Say Happy Birthday to your Dad for me! May he live long and prosper.
Answers: Seriously do not look at it that way hun!!, just because of what happen to others dosnt mean it will happen to them...they could live to the age of 100 for all you know!, the more you stress almost it the worse it could be. just think positive! Im sure they will live to see your kids grow up...my grandmother was relating me that her parents died young from having problems...and my grandmother has have many probs and ppl have told her she would..but now shes through adjectives of that and she is not 82 years old and living great! and my grandfather is 89 and still working out in the yard every hours of daylight..so just cos past family member died young dosnt mean they will!.. my grandparents always told my parents they didnt mull over they would live to see me and my brother graduate HS, but now they are living to see us in college. so dont worry so much and preserve positive...
My grandmother is the type to pray a whole lot for everyone and everything so that could have also helped her..so if your comfortable near praying that can help :)
i hope this helps you but dont be upset about it...i used to regard as like that to when i was younger..and im now 21...but things come across to be going great.
wish the best of luck to you!! :)
I am 16 and my parents are in there late 40's too. My grandpa be 80 when he died and my grandam is around 80 and she is still alive. Seriously don't worry about it, I mean if they are both surrounded by good healthy I don't think you really enjoy anything to worry about, 50 is not really that old!!
Your parents are solely 30 years older then you... that is exceptionally common these days, and most people live into their 70s or 80s. There are word stories every day about people contained by their 100s. Your parents are not old.
I'm 26, my father is 62 and my mother is 54. They are both quite alive and healthy near their minds intact. My dad never questions who any of his grandkids are, he is quite aware of each one of them.
It is worrisome to realize your own mortality and realize people do eventually get old and die, but you enjoy decades before you need to worry roughly speaking this.
your to young to be worrying im 15 to, but you lately have to look at the bright side of other htings, and live life. i used to always be worrying in the order of the "would ifs" but you have to look around it.
your grandpa probably have health issues... doesnt mean parents will have same issue
I know its rugged.. but this is why you cherish the times you have with family...but its parts of enthusiasm!!
Lots of Kids in Iraq war died before parents I chew over this is worse seeing your kid die..
Just dont worry- take one day at a time
Don't borrow trouble.
Just because it's happened to other people contained by your family, doesn't mean that your parents will have equal thing happen to them!
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