Have you ever have to treaty next to CPS?
How did you handle it and do you know who made the report?
There was a former CPS agent who was individual interview on a radio station and she said, about 80% of all reports are done by a spiteful person simply trying to attack the parent(s)...when no actual harm was going on.
That's one principle why they don't rush to remove the kids from the home unless it's life or death.
I don't believe that statistic. I do believe there are lazy case workers out at hand, or some that are so overworked that if the call ends up being a low priority, they figure it's of late a spat between neighbours.
I called the CPS once and to this day I stand by my decision though the grip worker called me back and blasted me for wasting her time. I firmly believe she was surrounded by the wrong, but anyway. I didn't know the parents of the child from a hole in the wall, I just didn't like what I saw on a couple of occasion.
Funny, the father later came to my house a couple of days later and threatened physical ferocity to me if I ever called CPS again.
Well, i've had a cps skin. I'm 17, and have had a cps case from age 8-16 1/2...Been within foster care twice. It is completly annoymous. You can't find out who made it. Handle things calmly, even though I didn't want to be in foster thinking. It's very tough, because when your there you have no hypothesis where your going next. There is no contact with line allowed, and 50% of the foster care homes aren't good. CPS needs to bettter check these places out.
Yes.
I had a friend who used to hit her child constantly. I am not talking about spanking on her butt, she used to pummel the poor kid. She would pull her hair and ears. It was horrible. I tried conversation to her about it and she would tell me that how she raised her daughter be none of my business. She moved in with my mother in directive and it continued there. I was sick of it. I called cps. They took her kid away (she go to her dad). She took some parenting classes and has her kid back.
She was so barmy at me that she called cps on me! I don't hit my child. She told them I did. They went to my house. I, of course have nothing to hide. I knew it be her, but I never confronted her about it. I am not gonna lie, it was pretty embarassing to own someone come to my house and make sure there were no bruises on my child and to put together sure that the house was clean (including nani's room) and that we had food. The woman that went was pretty nice and she apologized for the misunderstanding.
Answers: Yes I have. Not because of suspected abuse of my child, but because here was a domestic violence incident against me. They are required in my state to come and kind sure that the child(ren) are okay. Of course after that I never heard from them again, but they did suggest a restraining order.
I think it is supply and take. Many children who WISH someone (if they knew about it) would appointment on their parents and it never happens, while other times I think that it can be a spiteful ex. Either way if you are doing everything correctly near is no need to do anything with CPS except welcome them contained by.
yes i get cps called on me after i called the cop on my brother in directive for sexually abusing his which he was proven guilty for and his wife called cps on me truism that i was neglecting my son and not feeding him cps showed up and homily to me and my husband and we had to go threw a whole lot of crap of late for them to tell us they couldn't find we had done anything wrong and it took like 8 months of long drawn out investigations
Yes.
My 8 year old was sick beside a stomach flu. Eventually I had to take him to the doctor to get him some transcript for school. The only doctor that was available have never met or seen my son. She was shocked when she saw him because he is very, completely tiny. Plus he was sick, so a little paler and weaker at the time.
She assumed I was medically and nutritionally neglect him. She didn't know that he is already a very tiny little man. She wanted me to take him to the ER, but I refuse, he was fine and the stomach bug was pretty much gone.
She called the subsequent day urging me to take him anyway. So I did, just to shut her up. And sure ample, all they did at the ER was watch him drink a liquid box (to see if he kept it down) then they discharged us.
But, the doctor didn't get the message that I took him to the ER. So, she called CPS. They come and asked questions, I showed them the papers from the ER and my sons regular doctor even offered to speak with them (he's known him since birth, he know he's super tiny but there's nothing wrong with him). They dropped the case right away.
Although I be pissed at this women for putting us through it, I don't blame her completely. If you saw my son you'd probably guess he's around 5 years old (he's 8), he's also very thin, as is everyone contained by our family. So when a new doctor saw him, I can see where she'd be a short time shocked.
No I've never had to concordat with them
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There was a former CPS agent who was individual interview on a radio station and she said, about 80% of all reports are done by a spiteful person simply trying to attack the parent(s)...when no actual harm was going on.
That's one principle why they don't rush to remove the kids from the home unless it's life or death.
I don't believe that statistic. I do believe there are lazy case workers out at hand, or some that are so overworked that if the call ends up being a low priority, they figure it's of late a spat between neighbours.
I called the CPS once and to this day I stand by my decision though the grip worker called me back and blasted me for wasting her time. I firmly believe she was surrounded by the wrong, but anyway. I didn't know the parents of the child from a hole in the wall, I just didn't like what I saw on a couple of occasion.
Funny, the father later came to my house a couple of days later and threatened physical ferocity to me if I ever called CPS again.
Well, i've had a cps skin. I'm 17, and have had a cps case from age 8-16 1/2...Been within foster care twice. It is completly annoymous. You can't find out who made it. Handle things calmly, even though I didn't want to be in foster thinking. It's very tough, because when your there you have no hypothesis where your going next. There is no contact with line allowed, and 50% of the foster care homes aren't good. CPS needs to bettter check these places out.
Yes.
I had a friend who used to hit her child constantly. I am not talking about spanking on her butt, she used to pummel the poor kid. She would pull her hair and ears. It was horrible. I tried conversation to her about it and she would tell me that how she raised her daughter be none of my business. She moved in with my mother in directive and it continued there. I was sick of it. I called cps. They took her kid away (she go to her dad). She took some parenting classes and has her kid back.
She was so barmy at me that she called cps on me! I don't hit my child. She told them I did. They went to my house. I, of course have nothing to hide. I knew it be her, but I never confronted her about it. I am not gonna lie, it was pretty embarassing to own someone come to my house and make sure there were no bruises on my child and to put together sure that the house was clean (including nani's room) and that we had food. The woman that went was pretty nice and she apologized for the misunderstanding.
Answers: Yes I have. Not because of suspected abuse of my child, but because here was a domestic violence incident against me. They are required in my state to come and kind sure that the child(ren) are okay. Of course after that I never heard from them again, but they did suggest a restraining order.
I think it is supply and take. Many children who WISH someone (if they knew about it) would appointment on their parents and it never happens, while other times I think that it can be a spiteful ex. Either way if you are doing everything correctly near is no need to do anything with CPS except welcome them contained by.
yes i get cps called on me after i called the cop on my brother in directive for sexually abusing his which he was proven guilty for and his wife called cps on me truism that i was neglecting my son and not feeding him cps showed up and homily to me and my husband and we had to go threw a whole lot of crap of late for them to tell us they couldn't find we had done anything wrong and it took like 8 months of long drawn out investigations
Yes.
My 8 year old was sick beside a stomach flu. Eventually I had to take him to the doctor to get him some transcript for school. The only doctor that was available have never met or seen my son. She was shocked when she saw him because he is very, completely tiny. Plus he was sick, so a little paler and weaker at the time.
She assumed I was medically and nutritionally neglect him. She didn't know that he is already a very tiny little man. She wanted me to take him to the ER, but I refuse, he was fine and the stomach bug was pretty much gone.
She called the subsequent day urging me to take him anyway. So I did, just to shut her up. And sure ample, all they did at the ER was watch him drink a liquid box (to see if he kept it down) then they discharged us.
But, the doctor didn't get the message that I took him to the ER. So, she called CPS. They come and asked questions, I showed them the papers from the ER and my sons regular doctor even offered to speak with them (he's known him since birth, he know he's super tiny but there's nothing wrong with him). They dropped the case right away.
Although I be pissed at this women for putting us through it, I don't blame her completely. If you saw my son you'd probably guess he's around 5 years old (he's 8), he's also very thin, as is everyone contained by our family. So when a new doctor saw him, I can see where she'd be a short time shocked.
No I've never had to concordat with them
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