I caught 4 out of the 5 of my kids swearing?
like 10 mins ago i caught my 12,8,5, and 3 year old swearing.my 12 year old skilled them all how 2 swear and right now they are all any in the corner or facing a wall for an hour.Who should i punish and how
Do what my parents did to me, and what I did to my daugher:
The 1st time I heard a swear word, i washed her mouth out beside soap. Like a bar of soap. Never happened again with any of us.
Punish none, on the contrary, encourage swearing surrounded by privacy.
It employs the creative side of the brain and relieves pain and aggression in a path that hurts no one. And let's be honest, the only people that keeping about swearing are adults, who have said and heard every cuss word within the book and done deeds too dirty to describe here in detail (you have kids, after all). Children are innocent but learn from watch, so they're not restricted by our petty social mores on words like "****" or "****" until they hear parents or other adults swear then get told not to.
Why any of this is licentious to anyone mystifies me, but hey, to each their own. Source(s): http://blogjobs.biz/2009/07/15/the-benefits-of-swearing%E2%80%94how-cursing-can-ease-your-pain/
Answers: Get a paddle and line 'em adjectives up. Then ask who wants the paddle first, then shift down the line. OR wash their mouths with soap; I suggest the 12 year ancient first, the one you know knows better
The 12 year old should be grounded for 2 months, no phone, no tv, no computer, just staying at home. He/she needs to know who's boss. Explain to her that surrounded by the first, he/she shouldn't be swearing and why would she teach he/she's siblings that?
The 8 year old should be grounded for 1 month, just college or sitting at home reading ( is it summer where you are, school has agree to out where I live)
I would have te 5 year old and 3 year hoary face the wall for 3 hours.
Hope I could help!
I agree with the person above.
When i was younger my mom would clean my mouth out with soap also.
Although, it's kind of cruel...
All I would do is take something far-reaching away from them.
TV? ... uhm Junk food?
do it to all the kids who swore, so you won't have to deal near it anymore.
Another thing you could try is just sitting them down and telling them how wrong it is.
Or, Ground them. Kids approaching to play outside, don't let them out of the house for a day or two.
They have to swot some how.
This has never done any of us any good. We still swear. Your children will hear it no business where they go and no doubt do it also. I don't believe within punishing for swearing. I just explained to my children why people do it. The history of it and why some hate it and others love it. The Bible belief point and the law concerning it. They were so tired of hearing something like it they quit. Please don't use soap in the mouth. This has properties in it that can hurt a child. Ask a doctor almost this and let him or her tell you the dangers of this practice.
I agree beside Danielle...punish the older ones, the little ones didn't knwo any better but you DO need to tell them that what they be saying was a bad word and they can not right to be heard it again. My 5 year old talks to me about impossible words when she learns them... I know that sounds nuts, but she'll say " mom I think I hear a bad word can you tell me if it's bad?" I allow her to voice it and then we discuss weather or not it's inappropriate. That has worked thoroughly well for me, and I have NEVER heard her say-so the words again.
Make them put a dollar out of their earned money into the "swear jar" Don't punish the 3 year feeble, he probably doesn't know better, or have money. If you don't want to use money, take away one of their toys for every bad word. Don't clear up their mouths out with soap, because they could swallow some and need to go to the ER.
You should try talking to the elder child after all it is his/her fault for teaching the younger children adjectives these words. Try using spanking as a technique, if you think he/she is too old for this, He/she is not. You can explain why it is wrong to say this and why it is wrong to school them and the consequences if this behavior continues to happen.
I'm not a mom but I'm a teen and I'm 17. When I was about 12 and said a bad word we have a swear jar for us all. When we all swore we'd have to but approaching 5 cents or 10 cents in the swear jar. And once it got full my mom would take the money and spilt it and put it surrounded by are bank accounts. Or one time sure took us to the movies. But if you swear ( the mom or dad) they had to put more money in the jar. Like a dollar because you should know better.
Also my mom took away are dessert after support, took away fun things, sent us to are rooms, made us listen to unpromising music in the car, stuff like that. I hope that help you
LOL My mom washed my brother's mouth out with soap for this when we were kids. When she be done he ATE a chunk of the soap (just to show he didn't care I guess?
First time, I'd probably just talk to them and explain why this discourse is wrong & offencive and that you expect not to keep hearing it. Then lay out what the consequence will be if it keeps stirring. Source(s): I'd be more concerned with where they are hearing the words to start near.
If from school, not much you can do. If they're gettign it from the parents, punishing them too harshly will backfire.
i would give the 8 and 12 yr old a good spanking,and alert the others that they will get the same if they it again.12 and 8 is above the age of responsibility,and therefore should be spanked,the younger should be told what to expect.facing a wall or standing surrounded by a corner is not productive.
Thats so glum...
Just make the one who didn't swear your favorite!
I would say the oldest one. But you shouldn't punish them for an hour against the wall. According to my parenting textbook, you should only let your child face the wall one minte for respectively year they are old. so for the smallest one would be 3 minutes.
You requirement to punish all of them. But maybe not all duplicate way.he 5 and 3 and 8 year just need to own a long talk about swearing and why we dont do it. but the12 year old you want to talk to and tell him/her if it happens again serious punishments are coming(grounding, have to clean the house etc) and he/she needs to learn the hurry of being a good example.
the 12 year old and maybe the 8 year old effect they know better but the 5 year old and the 3 year old didn't know better but tell them not to do it again and y its wrong
punish them all as they all were swearing, don't single any out.
spank the 12 and 8 yr old they should know better,
The 5 and 3 yr old.. clutch away a toy
An hour facing the wall or in the corner would probably seem close to an eternity to all but the 12 year old and would probably be sufficient for them. I'd speak have a family meeting and explain that such words are not above-board and will not be tolerated in the house, then say that in attendance will be a more severe punishment next time like grounding or taking away toys, precipitate bedtime, etc. The 12 year old needs something extra this time though for teaching them, perchance some extra chores, and grounded from TV/video games, whatever his/her favorite thing is for a few days.
I don't think of swearing as a principally horrible thing needing dire consequences (i.e. not a spankable offense). I suppose you could try washing mouths out next to soap, but it did me absolutely no good. It just kept me from cussing around my parents but not around everyone else. I really imagine the younger ones just need a talking to roughly it, and the 12 year old needs a little something extra for person the ringleader.
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Do what my parents did to me, and what I did to my daugher:
The 1st time I heard a swear word, i washed her mouth out beside soap. Like a bar of soap. Never happened again with any of us.
Punish none, on the contrary, encourage swearing surrounded by privacy.
It employs the creative side of the brain and relieves pain and aggression in a path that hurts no one. And let's be honest, the only people that keeping about swearing are adults, who have said and heard every cuss word within the book and done deeds too dirty to describe here in detail (you have kids, after all). Children are innocent but learn from watch, so they're not restricted by our petty social mores on words like "****" or "****" until they hear parents or other adults swear then get told not to.
Why any of this is licentious to anyone mystifies me, but hey, to each their own. Source(s): http://blogjobs.biz/2009/07/15/the-benefits-of-swearing%E2%80%94how-cursing-can-ease-your-pain/
Answers: Get a paddle and line 'em adjectives up. Then ask who wants the paddle first, then shift down the line. OR wash their mouths with soap; I suggest the 12 year ancient first, the one you know knows better
The 12 year old should be grounded for 2 months, no phone, no tv, no computer, just staying at home. He/she needs to know who's boss. Explain to her that surrounded by the first, he/she shouldn't be swearing and why would she teach he/she's siblings that?
The 8 year old should be grounded for 1 month, just college or sitting at home reading ( is it summer where you are, school has agree to out where I live)
I would have te 5 year old and 3 year hoary face the wall for 3 hours.
Hope I could help!
I agree with the person above.
When i was younger my mom would clean my mouth out with soap also.
Although, it's kind of cruel...
All I would do is take something far-reaching away from them.
TV? ... uhm Junk food?
do it to all the kids who swore, so you won't have to deal near it anymore.
Another thing you could try is just sitting them down and telling them how wrong it is.
Or, Ground them. Kids approaching to play outside, don't let them out of the house for a day or two.
They have to swot some how.
This has never done any of us any good. We still swear. Your children will hear it no business where they go and no doubt do it also. I don't believe within punishing for swearing. I just explained to my children why people do it. The history of it and why some hate it and others love it. The Bible belief point and the law concerning it. They were so tired of hearing something like it they quit. Please don't use soap in the mouth. This has properties in it that can hurt a child. Ask a doctor almost this and let him or her tell you the dangers of this practice.
I agree beside Danielle...punish the older ones, the little ones didn't knwo any better but you DO need to tell them that what they be saying was a bad word and they can not right to be heard it again. My 5 year old talks to me about impossible words when she learns them... I know that sounds nuts, but she'll say " mom I think I hear a bad word can you tell me if it's bad?" I allow her to voice it and then we discuss weather or not it's inappropriate. That has worked thoroughly well for me, and I have NEVER heard her say-so the words again.
Make them put a dollar out of their earned money into the "swear jar" Don't punish the 3 year feeble, he probably doesn't know better, or have money. If you don't want to use money, take away one of their toys for every bad word. Don't clear up their mouths out with soap, because they could swallow some and need to go to the ER.
You should try talking to the elder child after all it is his/her fault for teaching the younger children adjectives these words. Try using spanking as a technique, if you think he/she is too old for this, He/she is not. You can explain why it is wrong to say this and why it is wrong to school them and the consequences if this behavior continues to happen.
I'm not a mom but I'm a teen and I'm 17. When I was about 12 and said a bad word we have a swear jar for us all. When we all swore we'd have to but approaching 5 cents or 10 cents in the swear jar. And once it got full my mom would take the money and spilt it and put it surrounded by are bank accounts. Or one time sure took us to the movies. But if you swear ( the mom or dad) they had to put more money in the jar. Like a dollar because you should know better.
Also my mom took away are dessert after support, took away fun things, sent us to are rooms, made us listen to unpromising music in the car, stuff like that. I hope that help you
LOL My mom washed my brother's mouth out with soap for this when we were kids. When she be done he ATE a chunk of the soap (just to show he didn't care I guess?
First time, I'd probably just talk to them and explain why this discourse is wrong & offencive and that you expect not to keep hearing it. Then lay out what the consequence will be if it keeps stirring. Source(s): I'd be more concerned with where they are hearing the words to start near.
If from school, not much you can do. If they're gettign it from the parents, punishing them too harshly will backfire.
i would give the 8 and 12 yr old a good spanking,and alert the others that they will get the same if they it again.12 and 8 is above the age of responsibility,and therefore should be spanked,the younger should be told what to expect.facing a wall or standing surrounded by a corner is not productive.
Thats so glum...
Just make the one who didn't swear your favorite!
I would say the oldest one. But you shouldn't punish them for an hour against the wall. According to my parenting textbook, you should only let your child face the wall one minte for respectively year they are old. so for the smallest one would be 3 minutes.
You requirement to punish all of them. But maybe not all duplicate way.he 5 and 3 and 8 year just need to own a long talk about swearing and why we dont do it. but the12 year old you want to talk to and tell him/her if it happens again serious punishments are coming(grounding, have to clean the house etc) and he/she needs to learn the hurry of being a good example.
the 12 year old and maybe the 8 year old effect they know better but the 5 year old and the 3 year old didn't know better but tell them not to do it again and y its wrong
punish them all as they all were swearing, don't single any out.
spank the 12 and 8 yr old they should know better,
The 5 and 3 yr old.. clutch away a toy
An hour facing the wall or in the corner would probably seem close to an eternity to all but the 12 year old and would probably be sufficient for them. I'd speak have a family meeting and explain that such words are not above-board and will not be tolerated in the house, then say that in attendance will be a more severe punishment next time like grounding or taking away toys, precipitate bedtime, etc. The 12 year old needs something extra this time though for teaching them, perchance some extra chores, and grounded from TV/video games, whatever his/her favorite thing is for a few days.
I don't think of swearing as a principally horrible thing needing dire consequences (i.e. not a spankable offense). I suppose you could try washing mouths out next to soap, but it did me absolutely no good. It just kept me from cussing around my parents but not around everyone else. I really imagine the younger ones just need a talking to roughly it, and the 12 year old needs a little something extra for person the ringleader.
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