I antipathy kids, is this unpromising?? .?
I'm 25 years old, and I can't stand kids. I do like playing with them for short amounts of time, but when it comes to anything involved or serious ('nurturing' or benevolent for) I'm bored and therefore, outta there.
I'm not even a big pet person. I guess "God", Buddha, or Krishna or whoever forgot to include "Maternal Instincts" contained by my package. I was never the slightest "goo goo gaga" over babies. I don't know why. I'm just not. I stay FAR away from them, b/c they're irritating and draining.
I never want to enjoy kids. I know for a fact I would not be a good mother. I'd rather spend my enthusiasm on my career, travelling, and trying new things.
I know, I know, I WAS a kid once, but I'm not now, and I don't want them. There's plenty people breeding as it is. I don't want to be trapped or reduced from ME and only ME to just "a mom". (yawn)
Is this doomed to failure? I know it's not normal, b/c all my girlfriends were planning their dream weddings & getting adjectives giddy over babies/kids since they were 14.
I've already had breakups over this. Are there guys that adopt the fact that some women don't want to sacrifice HUGE chunks of their lives (not to mention, their bodies) to reproduce this already overpopulated planet?
I can't believe you quotationed God!! WOW!!
i'm glad that you know that you don't want kids. some people don't accept that and have them anyway, and their kids suffer because of it. some inhabitants don't want kids. i know many people in their 60's who never have children because they didn't have the desire to. there are guys out there that do not want children, you purely have to find them.
God hates me, is that worse?
Have you bred yet? And I am not conversation about the yeast\flour\warmth variety either, but for, then who cares, tie your tubes and skip into the sunset with adjectives that extra disposable $$ you spend - it might be best to save it for a nice retirement home, cause when you are old within will be no children to mooch off
The majority of the population of this planet are producing too many babies so i don't construe deciding not to have kids is a bad entity.
Kids can be very tiresome.
Kids dont suck. You cant say that you can`t stand ALL kids because not all are the same. Some can be nice sweet and innocent and others can be just little annoying brats. Honestly, I really dont resembling little kids either but Im really working on it because I figured out that not all kids are impossible to tell apart. Yes, some can be annoying. But still...not ALL are the same.
you got the right to express your self as long as you dont argue just tell and share.America babe... freedom of spch
Unfortunately, lots of parents perceive the way you do. Theres nothing wrong with it unless youre a parent. Just because youre a woman doesnt suggest you have to love kids. Im a guy and I hate football and getting into an engine.
Hari Bol
Its not a bad item at all. some people just dont enjoy the patients for children. its better that you realize it now than after you already have had a child
Kids are not for everyone. If you feel so strongly, likely you are not going to adjustment your mind. And you are normal and have a right to your opinion.
Answers: There are two ways to look at this.
1) In a modern day and age women have much more opportunity than they used to. I connote you can get real jobs very soon, vote, read, just about anything men can do. It should be this way, women and men are equal. So, this one said, there is not problem with not having kids (or affection them) because there are many other way you can contribute to society.
2) In a pre historic passageway. Back then, survival meant having kids to nurture you as you aged and could no longer hunt. If your instincts in ancient times were off, as yours are, later you would not survive long.
I don't find it that discouraging. Some people just aren't meant to hold children. Don't feel bad if you don't want any. I'm 20, and haven't made up my mind yet.
Its ok to dislike kids at first but as you get older you usuaily return with over it and feel like your missing something in your enthusiasm like a child
nahh, it's adjectives good.
I accept it.
But I honestly do like kids, but I'd fairly try my hand at adopting, instead of 9 months of pregnancy.
I feel the same method I mean sure I am only 18 but I have little desire to hold children. I just do not see the "miracle" of birth or spooning baby food into their mouths ugh! Not to mention diapers and having to absorb them for long amounts of time. I feel once I have kids then I will only just be boring or something. No I don't think it is bad kids are not for everyone.
Babe trust me it's so much better you don't enjoy them if you don't want them. Good for you girly!
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Its not bad there are a individuals out there who are not cut out for motherhood. I personally can not stand most childeren to and I am 21. For some society it takes having one to make that instinct to see so you might feel it one day or maybe not. However in recent times because you dont want them doesnt mean you cant get married.
I am with you, except that you might fine-tuning your mind when your biological clock starts ticking and you get looks when you over 30 and still kidless.
it's unpromising FOR kids that you hate them. as for yourself, don't stress so much about it. though, loving kids (or at least a TOLERANCE) is a huge benefactor
your yawn made me yawn.
is that normal?
i think its ordinary i feel the same way give or take a few kids im sure theres many more.
completely agree with the overpopulation.
Not all women have the desire to become mothers..It is newly not for them but when you say that you hate them then i.e. where I think that you have a problem.
My aunt was the same bearing. And so is the guy she married. Some people just don't want kids. You're making the right decision by not have kids if you don't truly want them.
i like kids
Well DUH! Kids are half the population and if you don't like them well theres something wrong next to you
That can be fruitless or it may not be. If you want kids thats pretty bad but if you can live with out kids then ur fine. if ur friends hold kids and you feel like you want to spend time with kids shift hang out with ur friends.
Hope this helps
very small kids really sucks... stupidly crying 4 no reason ...ur right 2 abhorrence them
Actually the earth is underpopulated not overpopulated. I read it on MSN in a science newsarticle once.
wern't you a kid once, do you hate yourself?
no its not bad.theres amny couples or singles that are within there old age and dont have kids.and dont regret of have kids either..yes kids can be very annoying all the time...but they are other there to make ou laugh..capably my lil bro does...when ever im pissed off at something..
KIDS SUCK
Maybe you should be with my boyfriend...
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I'm not even a big pet person. I guess "God", Buddha, or Krishna or whoever forgot to include "Maternal Instincts" contained by my package. I was never the slightest "goo goo gaga" over babies. I don't know why. I'm just not. I stay FAR away from them, b/c they're irritating and draining.
I never want to enjoy kids. I know for a fact I would not be a good mother. I'd rather spend my enthusiasm on my career, travelling, and trying new things.
I know, I know, I WAS a kid once, but I'm not now, and I don't want them. There's plenty people breeding as it is. I don't want to be trapped or reduced from ME and only ME to just "a mom". (yawn)
Is this doomed to failure? I know it's not normal, b/c all my girlfriends were planning their dream weddings & getting adjectives giddy over babies/kids since they were 14.
I've already had breakups over this. Are there guys that adopt the fact that some women don't want to sacrifice HUGE chunks of their lives (not to mention, their bodies) to reproduce this already overpopulated planet?
I can't believe you quotationed God!! WOW!!
i'm glad that you know that you don't want kids. some people don't accept that and have them anyway, and their kids suffer because of it. some inhabitants don't want kids. i know many people in their 60's who never have children because they didn't have the desire to. there are guys out there that do not want children, you purely have to find them.
God hates me, is that worse?
Have you bred yet? And I am not conversation about the yeast\flour\warmth variety either, but for, then who cares, tie your tubes and skip into the sunset with adjectives that extra disposable $$ you spend - it might be best to save it for a nice retirement home, cause when you are old within will be no children to mooch off
The majority of the population of this planet are producing too many babies so i don't construe deciding not to have kids is a bad entity.
Kids can be very tiresome.
Kids dont suck. You cant say that you can`t stand ALL kids because not all are the same. Some can be nice sweet and innocent and others can be just little annoying brats. Honestly, I really dont resembling little kids either but Im really working on it because I figured out that not all kids are impossible to tell apart. Yes, some can be annoying. But still...not ALL are the same.
you got the right to express your self as long as you dont argue just tell and share.America babe... freedom of spch
Unfortunately, lots of parents perceive the way you do. Theres nothing wrong with it unless youre a parent. Just because youre a woman doesnt suggest you have to love kids. Im a guy and I hate football and getting into an engine.
Hari Bol
Its not a bad item at all. some people just dont enjoy the patients for children. its better that you realize it now than after you already have had a child
Kids are not for everyone. If you feel so strongly, likely you are not going to adjustment your mind. And you are normal and have a right to your opinion.
Answers: There are two ways to look at this.
1) In a modern day and age women have much more opportunity than they used to. I connote you can get real jobs very soon, vote, read, just about anything men can do. It should be this way, women and men are equal. So, this one said, there is not problem with not having kids (or affection them) because there are many other way you can contribute to society.
2) In a pre historic passageway. Back then, survival meant having kids to nurture you as you aged and could no longer hunt. If your instincts in ancient times were off, as yours are, later you would not survive long.
I don't find it that discouraging. Some people just aren't meant to hold children. Don't feel bad if you don't want any. I'm 20, and haven't made up my mind yet.
Its ok to dislike kids at first but as you get older you usuaily return with over it and feel like your missing something in your enthusiasm like a child
nahh, it's adjectives good.
I accept it.
But I honestly do like kids, but I'd fairly try my hand at adopting, instead of 9 months of pregnancy.
I feel the same method I mean sure I am only 18 but I have little desire to hold children. I just do not see the "miracle" of birth or spooning baby food into their mouths ugh! Not to mention diapers and having to absorb them for long amounts of time. I feel once I have kids then I will only just be boring or something. No I don't think it is bad kids are not for everyone.
Babe trust me it's so much better you don't enjoy them if you don't want them. Good for you girly!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
Its not bad there are a individuals out there who are not cut out for motherhood. I personally can not stand most childeren to and I am 21. For some society it takes having one to make that instinct to see so you might feel it one day or maybe not. However in recent times because you dont want them doesnt mean you cant get married.
I am with you, except that you might fine-tuning your mind when your biological clock starts ticking and you get looks when you over 30 and still kidless.
it's unpromising FOR kids that you hate them. as for yourself, don't stress so much about it. though, loving kids (or at least a TOLERANCE) is a huge benefactor
your yawn made me yawn.
is that normal?
i think its ordinary i feel the same way give or take a few kids im sure theres many more.
completely agree with the overpopulation.
Not all women have the desire to become mothers..It is newly not for them but when you say that you hate them then i.e. where I think that you have a problem.
My aunt was the same bearing. And so is the guy she married. Some people just don't want kids. You're making the right decision by not have kids if you don't truly want them.
i like kids
Well DUH! Kids are half the population and if you don't like them well theres something wrong next to you
That can be fruitless or it may not be. If you want kids thats pretty bad but if you can live with out kids then ur fine. if ur friends hold kids and you feel like you want to spend time with kids shift hang out with ur friends.
Hope this helps
very small kids really sucks... stupidly crying 4 no reason ...ur right 2 abhorrence them
Actually the earth is underpopulated not overpopulated. I read it on MSN in a science newsarticle once.
wern't you a kid once, do you hate yourself?
no its not bad.theres amny couples or singles that are within there old age and dont have kids.and dont regret of have kids either..yes kids can be very annoying all the time...but they are other there to make ou laugh..capably my lil bro does...when ever im pissed off at something..
KIDS SUCK
Maybe you should be with my boyfriend...
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