When spanking a child...?
Use a belt or paddle to cover both cheeks, right where on earth they meet the back of the legs.
Spank bare bottom, and use an implement like a hairbrush or small paddle at that age. It is fine to spank across the middle as long as you stay on the lower two-thirds of the buttocks and upper thighs. Alternate cheek to cheek and across the middle for best results. Just remember to other spank (or give any other kind of punishment) calmly and lovingly, never out of anger or frustration.
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I got spanked usually on the cheeks and legs. it does work. It also depends on your child if the spanking would work. Spanking Excessively and leavin serious bruises is unexeptable. But a spanking is good discipline .
mine ususally a moment ago get on smack on the thy/butt area. i only use it when zilch else is working or when they cant be reasoned with and are doing something dangerous. and the bare piece is really more for humiliation. my parents used that one. Source(s): 35 yo mother of soon to be 4
Do not hit your child believe me unless you want to see your grandchildren hit also. I raise three kids as a single parent and never once hit any of my kids and they are all beautiful adults now. It single teaches them to hit.
I don't spank, I use timeout
The best way is to alternate cheeks while covering the entire bottom. Yes, be wary of the tailbone if you are using an implement.
Haha, everyone give thumbs down to the ones that read aloud spanking is not right form of discipline.
Well, my dad used to give it to me in the middle somedays and one cheek at a time another. Either way.
Right down the middle; that's how mine cracked in partly.
Spanking is not very effective at all. It singular works when the child is afraid and once he conquers his fear the treatment really doesn't work. You are teaching the child that attacking someone is the only channel of solving a problem. I suggest you try something like limitations of privileges, earlier bed times, no free play, etc. until they get the picture.
Children revise through example. If children see that their parents solve their problems through the means of violence children will pick up on that like how they cram to walk. If children see that in order to remove something that they don't resembling is through the means of violence then children will own the possibility to use such means to remove people that annoy them. Alot of bullies go through similar childhoods where on earth their abusive parents beat on them and thus they use similar methods to remove people that they deem as unfit for university or for life either through verbal maltreat or physical.
i was spanked in the middle, didn't feel anything, my *** is still functioning, right?
IDK right on the butt I wouldn't do bare that's a little to much also try other forms of discipline if you don't spank why start in a minute.
one cheek at a time, bare
You don't spank. It's not an potent form of discipline.
its up to you personally I spank and it doesnt work so good luck. We are using 123 illusion on our 5 yr old
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