A q for single father next to daughters?
An answer to a previous question I saw got me thinking...how do single fathers bar their daughters growing up and becoming sexually curious/active?
I was raised by my father until I was 13. Then moved to my Mom's. The topic of sex be avoided completely, wherever I was. I figured everything out on my own. Not a perfect way to go.
We a moment ago tell you to stay the @$#% away from boys and shoot the ones that come around.
Sexually curious is one thing...busy is another.
Raise them properly and you're going to be fine.
If not...I'll be cleaning a Sig Sauer on the dinning room table nightly.
And I wouldn't let my son have porn either..although man autistic I don't think I'll run into that problem anytime in the near adjectives with him.
Answers: My dad raised my brother and I by himself from the time I be 11. My dad has always been overly unscrew with me... which sometimes, is good, but can also be odd. His sex dialogue started with me when I was about 13/14. A big focus of my dad's sex discussions was how to handle boy pressure. He taught me almost boy's intentions and how a guy with hormones will say a lot of things they don't other mean ... not b/c they're lying but b/c their pants are running the show. So he told me to not be susceptible to every "I love you" I hear. He also warned that some elder guys might try to manipulate me to get sex and talked give or take a few the how and why of that.
He did talk to me about pregnancy and STDs. And he told me that though he didn't think everyone should own to wait until marriage that I should wait until I be at least 18 and in a healthy long-term relationship. He also told me that bar disease/pregnancy risks, the biggest reason that having multiple partners be bad is because when I got older and considered necessary to spend the rest of my life with someone, I may be less satisified if I've be with multiple other people. Pretty much, he said if I gave it up profusely and it became something not so special that I would be ruining it for myself and my partner when the time it should be special was there.
So yeah... that's my dad's sex natter. Then... it was super uncomfortable. It seemed similar to way too much info as I didn't want me dad telling me that guys basically will say-so anything to get laid. haha. Now that I'm an adult, I appreciate his honesty though. There were times that his curriculum did help me, even though I didn't realize it until later.
Good examine... I would love to know to!! I think that dads should be honest with their kids though. age appropriate of course!
Doc BC is absolutely correct. Mine will not date until they are at least 40 anyway...so really it's a moot point here. Though a lil firepower can be a great deterrent.
Edit: Any path you cut it , Lynx's answer was just way creepy.
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I was raised by my father until I was 13. Then moved to my Mom's. The topic of sex be avoided completely, wherever I was. I figured everything out on my own. Not a perfect way to go.
We a moment ago tell you to stay the @$#% away from boys and shoot the ones that come around.
Sexually curious is one thing...busy is another.
Raise them properly and you're going to be fine.
If not...I'll be cleaning a Sig Sauer on the dinning room table nightly.
And I wouldn't let my son have porn either..although man autistic I don't think I'll run into that problem anytime in the near adjectives with him.
Answers: My dad raised my brother and I by himself from the time I be 11. My dad has always been overly unscrew with me... which sometimes, is good, but can also be odd. His sex dialogue started with me when I was about 13/14. A big focus of my dad's sex discussions was how to handle boy pressure. He taught me almost boy's intentions and how a guy with hormones will say a lot of things they don't other mean ... not b/c they're lying but b/c their pants are running the show. So he told me to not be susceptible to every "I love you" I hear. He also warned that some elder guys might try to manipulate me to get sex and talked give or take a few the how and why of that.
He did talk to me about pregnancy and STDs. And he told me that though he didn't think everyone should own to wait until marriage that I should wait until I be at least 18 and in a healthy long-term relationship. He also told me that bar disease/pregnancy risks, the biggest reason that having multiple partners be bad is because when I got older and considered necessary to spend the rest of my life with someone, I may be less satisified if I've be with multiple other people. Pretty much, he said if I gave it up profusely and it became something not so special that I would be ruining it for myself and my partner when the time it should be special was there.
So yeah... that's my dad's sex natter. Then... it was super uncomfortable. It seemed similar to way too much info as I didn't want me dad telling me that guys basically will say-so anything to get laid. haha. Now that I'm an adult, I appreciate his honesty though. There were times that his curriculum did help me, even though I didn't realize it until later.
Good examine... I would love to know to!! I think that dads should be honest with their kids though. age appropriate of course!
Doc BC is absolutely correct. Mine will not date until they are at least 40 anyway...so really it's a moot point here. Though a lil firepower can be a great deterrent.
Edit: Any path you cut it , Lynx's answer was just way creepy.
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