How would you act in response if this happen to your daughter?
Say your daughter is 13. A boy shes known for awhile, who is 16 and lives in another state, comes to visit her for the summer. He get her pregnant and she runs away with him. How would you feel?
yes this is kind of close to a situation I'm in except im NOT pregnant
There is absolutely no way I would EVER let that start, I wouldnt have let her see him in the first place, she is too young at heart and he is too old. There is absolutely no way I would own allowed this, if this is a real scenario and the parents let this happen, they call for to be shot, its unacceptable.
I would have a feeling horrible, and angry, drag my daughter back home, well after of course she probably sent time surrounded by juvenile hall for being a runaway child, and make sure the boyfriend can never see her again, and hope that within 5 years she's grown up not to be a stupid little girl who chases after boys states away.
in good health if youre not pregnant yet..then dont be an idiot!! you are too young to hold a baby, even if the 16 year old father sticks around and helps you...which obviously if highly unlikely. and your mom is right for threatening you. you are only 13!
I would be extremely worried about my daughter's well man. A pregnancy that young is physically very demanding and she needs medical exactness to make sure she is okay, plus living out somewhere without a proper home and only a sixteen year prehistoric for protection isn't safe at all. I'd do my outmost to see her safely home.
I would be crushed at the reality that my daughter felt the need to run away.
But I would give my everything to try and receive her back home so I can help her through it.
You are too young to enjoy sex.
Are you financially able to take care of a child (by yourself) short depending upon parents?
Then, you are too young to have sex. Source(s): life
Answers: Let me address the most important part of what you said above. Your mom cannot force you to enjoy an abortion when you are 13. She can try but she won't succeed...not if you two are in America. And if she does, you scream and tell everyone that you do not consent to the procedure and that should stop it. But, she can appropriate your child if you are 13 and have it placed for adoption against your will. THAT, I am afraid IS legal.
I strongly recommend that you do not have sex next to this boy. Not only will you have to worry roughly pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease, but statutory rape laws too. If you "love him" as you say, do you want him to go to juvenile detention for statutory rape? And what if they bump him to grown court? This could ruin his life, as well as your's. And if HE loved you, he would want you to wait until it be legal for you to have sex AND were become fully grown enough to handle the emotional and physical consequences of any possible kid.
And have you asked yourself, why would a 16 year old want to have sex near a 13 year old, much less ask her if she would have his newborn? That is a big clue that he is using you (or wants to) for his needs, not your's. And is he prepared to quit school and shift to work to support your baby? Assuming, of course, that he is not in send down or juvenile detention? And also assuming that your mom hasn't placed your baby up for adoption!
I know you feel like you are within love with him, but you will feel that way around many boys before you become an adult. Two years from in a minute, you probably won't even remember his name, nor he your's. You should wait until you are mature plenty to handle these adult privileges and responsibilities, and not try to take on more than you are competent to bear.
And if you were my 13 year old daughter and you get yourself deliberately pregnant and ran away, that would be the last contact you have with a boy (especially this one) before you turned 18. For starters, I would have the police track you down and own that boy arrested and you dragged back in handcuffs.
You would be made to pass the baby to term (no abortion for you) and then the babe would be given up for adoption. You would have no say in the business and you would not be told which agency handled the adoption either.
And I would go to the District Attorney and enjoy him file charges against the baby's father for statutory rape, kidnapping, custodial interference, contributing to the delinquency of a minor, and anything else he can think of. And after I would sue his parents in civil court for the costs of the pregnancy and delivery. Oh, and of course, at hand would be a restraining order against him too!
And then, since you refused to abide by my lawful orders about staying away from this boy, I would put you into a awfully strict school...single sex (no boys)...until your 18th birthday. Something like an educational bootcamp where on earth you will have no choice but to obey the law.
At 13, you are still a minor and are subject to the protections of the decree. But that also means that the law places restrictions on your behavior too. And if you disobey the law (under age sex, running away, etc.), at hand can be serious consequences to your behavior. And if you refuse to obey your mom, the courts can seize you and put you surrounded by juvenile detention or a foster home for your protection. If you were my child, I wouldn't risk that. I would put you in a strict facility myself where you would be properly supervised 24/7/52.
One end thing. Your mom should not let this boy visit you this summer if she even think you want to get pregnant or might try. She should send him home immediately!
Good luck!
I would feel appalling. I would never want her to feel like she had to run away.
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yes this is kind of close to a situation I'm in except im NOT pregnant
There is absolutely no way I would EVER let that start, I wouldnt have let her see him in the first place, she is too young at heart and he is too old. There is absolutely no way I would own allowed this, if this is a real scenario and the parents let this happen, they call for to be shot, its unacceptable.
I would have a feeling horrible, and angry, drag my daughter back home, well after of course she probably sent time surrounded by juvenile hall for being a runaway child, and make sure the boyfriend can never see her again, and hope that within 5 years she's grown up not to be a stupid little girl who chases after boys states away.
in good health if youre not pregnant yet..then dont be an idiot!! you are too young to hold a baby, even if the 16 year old father sticks around and helps you...which obviously if highly unlikely. and your mom is right for threatening you. you are only 13!
I would be extremely worried about my daughter's well man. A pregnancy that young is physically very demanding and she needs medical exactness to make sure she is okay, plus living out somewhere without a proper home and only a sixteen year prehistoric for protection isn't safe at all. I'd do my outmost to see her safely home.
I would be crushed at the reality that my daughter felt the need to run away.
But I would give my everything to try and receive her back home so I can help her through it.
You are too young to enjoy sex.
Are you financially able to take care of a child (by yourself) short depending upon parents?
Then, you are too young to have sex. Source(s): life
Answers: Let me address the most important part of what you said above. Your mom cannot force you to enjoy an abortion when you are 13. She can try but she won't succeed...not if you two are in America. And if she does, you scream and tell everyone that you do not consent to the procedure and that should stop it. But, she can appropriate your child if you are 13 and have it placed for adoption against your will. THAT, I am afraid IS legal.
I strongly recommend that you do not have sex next to this boy. Not only will you have to worry roughly pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease, but statutory rape laws too. If you "love him" as you say, do you want him to go to juvenile detention for statutory rape? And what if they bump him to grown court? This could ruin his life, as well as your's. And if HE loved you, he would want you to wait until it be legal for you to have sex AND were become fully grown enough to handle the emotional and physical consequences of any possible kid.
And have you asked yourself, why would a 16 year old want to have sex near a 13 year old, much less ask her if she would have his newborn? That is a big clue that he is using you (or wants to) for his needs, not your's. And is he prepared to quit school and shift to work to support your baby? Assuming, of course, that he is not in send down or juvenile detention? And also assuming that your mom hasn't placed your baby up for adoption!
I know you feel like you are within love with him, but you will feel that way around many boys before you become an adult. Two years from in a minute, you probably won't even remember his name, nor he your's. You should wait until you are mature plenty to handle these adult privileges and responsibilities, and not try to take on more than you are competent to bear.
And if you were my 13 year old daughter and you get yourself deliberately pregnant and ran away, that would be the last contact you have with a boy (especially this one) before you turned 18. For starters, I would have the police track you down and own that boy arrested and you dragged back in handcuffs.
You would be made to pass the baby to term (no abortion for you) and then the babe would be given up for adoption. You would have no say in the business and you would not be told which agency handled the adoption either.
And I would go to the District Attorney and enjoy him file charges against the baby's father for statutory rape, kidnapping, custodial interference, contributing to the delinquency of a minor, and anything else he can think of. And after I would sue his parents in civil court for the costs of the pregnancy and delivery. Oh, and of course, at hand would be a restraining order against him too!
And then, since you refused to abide by my lawful orders about staying away from this boy, I would put you into a awfully strict school...single sex (no boys)...until your 18th birthday. Something like an educational bootcamp where on earth you will have no choice but to obey the law.
At 13, you are still a minor and are subject to the protections of the decree. But that also means that the law places restrictions on your behavior too. And if you disobey the law (under age sex, running away, etc.), at hand can be serious consequences to your behavior. And if you refuse to obey your mom, the courts can seize you and put you surrounded by juvenile detention or a foster home for your protection. If you were my child, I wouldn't risk that. I would put you in a strict facility myself where you would be properly supervised 24/7/52.
One end thing. Your mom should not let this boy visit you this summer if she even think you want to get pregnant or might try. She should send him home immediately!
Good luck!
I would feel appalling. I would never want her to feel like she had to run away.
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