Do you imagine that cutting-off from your relations is a impossible thought even if ..?

i just have had plenty of it i just do not like when the extended family member like aunts uncles cousin stick their noses somewhere where they do not belong its soo annoying
i do not save contact with most of them i dont talk to my snobby grandmother as whenever i call her she is other sick she liked to be in the center of attention and thats why she comes up with those fcked up illnesses

but its the worst when they come to our house and start chitchat shyt about it and i do not appreciate it i usually keep quite and i will bear it but i will store all that anger inside of me and when the perfect time comes i will explode .

i just dont wanna hold anything to do with her. my mom is kinda influenced by her sister they are twins and whenever she says shyt about me my mom does something that i though is impossible she proves her right , she doesnt look after me but she wants to make me feel even more miserable
i told her what kinda of a mother is she ,how can she do something resembling that to her son
and she said that she just does not want any fights with her fcked up sister
she like to brag about her son and i think that maybe its insecurities and thats why she brings others down

i usually move about out when they are coming to pay us a visit cause i merely dont wanna deal with all that crap i hold better and more important things on my head than her saying shyt nearly me

do you think that its wrong on my part to not wanting to keep contact beside others? or should i just let her talk anything the f she wants and just ignore that ?
No business how hard you THINK you have it,Someone has it worse.

Even if you don't close to some things they say,They will still be family.

But Id move out.
My family be a mess too.Guess what?I do not speak to them to this day.Drunks,crazies,fighters-I had enough as a kid.I do not subject myself too it as an fully fledged.So if you can leave while they are there go for it.Peace is better.
I've knowledgeable that trying to talk to people like THAT never works. Because they are who they are and their situation in life is to judge others and stick their snout where it doesn't belond.

I despise my SIL. Like, wow, I wish the girl would drop off the frontage of the earth. But I've been praying for that for 6 yrs and she's still here. So instead, I back past its sell-by date 1000%. I don't talk to her, I don't visit her, I stay away. And my life is so much more tranquil because of it.

She still voices her opinions to my husband (her brother). And I don't even let HIM speech to me about it because I want NOTHING to do with her.

Your best bet is to let those "drive vampires" just do without them! Nobody needs citizens that suck the life out of you around them. And she sounds like exactly that.

Test the waters and see how much happier you are! It's worth it!
just separate your self from them at times, but don't totally disconnect
Answers:    i enjoy an aunt that acts kinda the same way but im not holding anything inside i started going at inhabitants that say shyt about it i don't care if your my own flesh and blood, friend or foe i will not sugar coat things if i have something to say you will hear it and don't even try to stop me
do what you want its your life not that fcken ** she have no business interfering in your life

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