Parents wont consent to me do anything or walk anywhere?
So i am a 16 my birthday is july 30 so i will be 17 year old boy.
My parents wont let me go anywhere or do anything. I own absolutely no social life and i tried to have one on facebook but i hatred it and its nothing like hanging out next to friends face to face. I still had sleep overs till second year and they didnt say anything because they knew my friends parents. But I cant go out anywhere. I shift outside to play and like an hour later my mom or dad calls describing me to come back. One week, i was out everyday all sunshine for 3 days and they didnt let me go outside for like 2 weeks after. They said i dont spend any time next to them. How am i supposed to? My mom works 2 jobs and is hardly ever home and my dad works like 5 hours a daylight and he drives around or sleeps the rest of the day. I go watch a movie once and they wont permit me go for another 2 months! They are just way too over protective. I budge outside to play one day and my parents are like stop playing for so long. 2 days later they read out why dont you get out of the house and stop watching tv all day. and the subsequent day when im outside they say go survey tv in your room or something, dont go outside. DOES THIS EVEN MAKE ANY DAMN SENSE? I only obtain 60 dollars every 2 months and if i dont spend it, my parents tell me to save i and i lost my chance so i cant spend it anymore. My friends birthday is coming up and they are in fact twins so they are having a birthday party at their house and when i asked for getting them a gift. The same morning i told them i was supposed to go to six flags the next daytime and they said either i could go to their party or progress to six flags. I chose the party and now they are telling me not to shift at all.
I can also not go to the mall or anywhere near my friends. They always say we will go as a people but i havent went to the mall in the ending like 3 or 4 years! whats up with that?
I also wanted to amalgamate soccer and vollyball the last 2 years and i couldnt because they didnt want me to hang out with the squad and they said they could never drive me to any of the games and they could never make i so it would look bad. I told them i wouldnt care and that i can return with a ride from someone else and they still said no.
I also am not allowed to join ANY what so ever afterschool activity. Im prohibited to join any clubs or sports or anything even if it has to do with academic.
They also wont pay for my SAT classes and think i should be able to achieve a 2400 by myself because its easy AND NONE OF THEM HAVE A EDUCATION HIGHER THE HIGH SCHOOL. MY MOM ONLY WENT TO 8TH GRADE AND SHE THINKS THE SATS ARE EASY!! SHE COULDNT EVEN HELP ME ON MY HOMEWORK EVER! one of my sisters got a 600/1600 on the sats and one go 1800/2400 and none have SAT classes and both are failures at life.
As for money, I was given 60 dollars every 2 months for close to years and i finally got 1200 and want a new laptop and i have an weak crappy one and guess what they said no!! I had to go out and buy one for myself without unfolding anyone and when i got caught using it i told my parents i just bought a new overnight case for 30 dollars which they believed because im a computer geek.
I am not allowed to spend a penny anywhere. my mom says you could save up and spend your money where on earth you want and when i save up, she says im not allowed to.
I tried discussion to them and they never listen. Ive been talking to them for 2 months and they just wont clutch me seriously. I get all A's and B's in academy and only 1 or 2 B's and they still never listen. They are starting to get on my nerves. I even told my friends to come and talk to them but my friends wont. And so i told my parents how their vivacity is and my parents are like take me to their house i wanna ask their parents and when i am ready to move about and everytime i say lets go they vote no im busy or i have work or some redicioulus excuse
what should i do now? I know its their house and i live under their roof and i own to deal with it till im 18 but even after i turn 18 they are my parents and as i think of elder as i should always respect them and because of my heart i could never let them go and i will other love them somehow for feeding me, taking care of me and ect. How do i change my parents minds?
you seem approaching a respectable person but the only thing you can do is prove to them that you are and should be capable of spend your own money the way you want, and (if you have a car) they should trust you
as far as turning 18 you can still be respectful to your parents AND assert your legal right to person an adult at the same time. no one said anything in the order of the second you turn 18 you have to disown or let your parents go.its basically the process of growing up. sorry this is happening to you, sounds like they have trust issues next to you
I'm not reading all that.
Oh!
say i am leaving and if you want to do anything roughly it then just chase me down i dont give a crap
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Answers: Sounds to me close to they are both overprotective and far too strict. Im kindof shocked your Dad is this way though. Dads are supposed to be looser with their boys and not overprotective and especially with how antediluvian you are. Even if you were 15 turning 16, he should be a lot looser with you. Still hold rules you have to obey and making sure you obide by them but to keep you adjectives locked up inside the house when you are almost an adult for crying out loud!! No this is just wrong. Overprotective Dads are almost unheard of. At most minuscule as far as with their boys it is. I know that some are when it comes to their daughters, but to be honest, its not good to be overprotective at all. With your sons or daughters. It isn't apt to over anything. Over-shelter, over-protect, etc. BALANCE. Shelter in certain areas and when you know the kid is ready you agree to him experience that aspect of life. For a lot of things though you shouldn't shelter at all. Otherwise when its time for the kid to sign out the nest, he/she isn't going to know what the heck to do.
Your parents have need of to get a life!
Good luck
They have your best interest in mind, the world is not a happy exquisite place all of the time. Be patient. It's good to be TRUE. Be you. Be happy with yourself.
Earn respect from them. Help around the house. Be respectful of their wishes. As for doing things as a family, this is a wonderful entry these days, very few people enjoy this option and one day the memories will be priceless. Nothing lasts forever, and sometime when you are grown and on your own, and have perhaps lost a parent, you will cherish all of the things you did as a home.
Think positively and be open minded, try to see things from their point of view, it will sustain you to mature.
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My parents wont let me go anywhere or do anything. I own absolutely no social life and i tried to have one on facebook but i hatred it and its nothing like hanging out next to friends face to face. I still had sleep overs till second year and they didnt say anything because they knew my friends parents. But I cant go out anywhere. I shift outside to play and like an hour later my mom or dad calls describing me to come back. One week, i was out everyday all sunshine for 3 days and they didnt let me go outside for like 2 weeks after. They said i dont spend any time next to them. How am i supposed to? My mom works 2 jobs and is hardly ever home and my dad works like 5 hours a daylight and he drives around or sleeps the rest of the day. I go watch a movie once and they wont permit me go for another 2 months! They are just way too over protective. I budge outside to play one day and my parents are like stop playing for so long. 2 days later they read out why dont you get out of the house and stop watching tv all day. and the subsequent day when im outside they say go survey tv in your room or something, dont go outside. DOES THIS EVEN MAKE ANY DAMN SENSE? I only obtain 60 dollars every 2 months and if i dont spend it, my parents tell me to save i and i lost my chance so i cant spend it anymore. My friends birthday is coming up and they are in fact twins so they are having a birthday party at their house and when i asked for getting them a gift. The same morning i told them i was supposed to go to six flags the next daytime and they said either i could go to their party or progress to six flags. I chose the party and now they are telling me not to shift at all.
I can also not go to the mall or anywhere near my friends. They always say we will go as a people but i havent went to the mall in the ending like 3 or 4 years! whats up with that?
I also wanted to amalgamate soccer and vollyball the last 2 years and i couldnt because they didnt want me to hang out with the squad and they said they could never drive me to any of the games and they could never make i so it would look bad. I told them i wouldnt care and that i can return with a ride from someone else and they still said no.
I also am not allowed to join ANY what so ever afterschool activity. Im prohibited to join any clubs or sports or anything even if it has to do with academic.
They also wont pay for my SAT classes and think i should be able to achieve a 2400 by myself because its easy AND NONE OF THEM HAVE A EDUCATION HIGHER THE HIGH SCHOOL. MY MOM ONLY WENT TO 8TH GRADE AND SHE THINKS THE SATS ARE EASY!! SHE COULDNT EVEN HELP ME ON MY HOMEWORK EVER! one of my sisters got a 600/1600 on the sats and one go 1800/2400 and none have SAT classes and both are failures at life.
As for money, I was given 60 dollars every 2 months for close to years and i finally got 1200 and want a new laptop and i have an weak crappy one and guess what they said no!! I had to go out and buy one for myself without unfolding anyone and when i got caught using it i told my parents i just bought a new overnight case for 30 dollars which they believed because im a computer geek.
I am not allowed to spend a penny anywhere. my mom says you could save up and spend your money where on earth you want and when i save up, she says im not allowed to.
I tried discussion to them and they never listen. Ive been talking to them for 2 months and they just wont clutch me seriously. I get all A's and B's in academy and only 1 or 2 B's and they still never listen. They are starting to get on my nerves. I even told my friends to come and talk to them but my friends wont. And so i told my parents how their vivacity is and my parents are like take me to their house i wanna ask their parents and when i am ready to move about and everytime i say lets go they vote no im busy or i have work or some redicioulus excuse
what should i do now? I know its their house and i live under their roof and i own to deal with it till im 18 but even after i turn 18 they are my parents and as i think of elder as i should always respect them and because of my heart i could never let them go and i will other love them somehow for feeding me, taking care of me and ect. How do i change my parents minds?
you seem approaching a respectable person but the only thing you can do is prove to them that you are and should be capable of spend your own money the way you want, and (if you have a car) they should trust you
as far as turning 18 you can still be respectful to your parents AND assert your legal right to person an adult at the same time. no one said anything in the order of the second you turn 18 you have to disown or let your parents go.its basically the process of growing up. sorry this is happening to you, sounds like they have trust issues next to you
I'm not reading all that.
Oh!
say i am leaving and if you want to do anything roughly it then just chase me down i dont give a crap
answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
Answers: Sounds to me close to they are both overprotective and far too strict. Im kindof shocked your Dad is this way though. Dads are supposed to be looser with their boys and not overprotective and especially with how antediluvian you are. Even if you were 15 turning 16, he should be a lot looser with you. Still hold rules you have to obey and making sure you obide by them but to keep you adjectives locked up inside the house when you are almost an adult for crying out loud!! No this is just wrong. Overprotective Dads are almost unheard of. At most minuscule as far as with their boys it is. I know that some are when it comes to their daughters, but to be honest, its not good to be overprotective at all. With your sons or daughters. It isn't apt to over anything. Over-shelter, over-protect, etc. BALANCE. Shelter in certain areas and when you know the kid is ready you agree to him experience that aspect of life. For a lot of things though you shouldn't shelter at all. Otherwise when its time for the kid to sign out the nest, he/she isn't going to know what the heck to do.
Your parents have need of to get a life!
Good luck
They have your best interest in mind, the world is not a happy exquisite place all of the time. Be patient. It's good to be TRUE. Be you. Be happy with yourself.
Earn respect from them. Help around the house. Be respectful of their wishes. As for doing things as a family, this is a wonderful entry these days, very few people enjoy this option and one day the memories will be priceless. Nothing lasts forever, and sometime when you are grown and on your own, and have perhaps lost a parent, you will cherish all of the things you did as a home.
Think positively and be open minded, try to see things from their point of view, it will sustain you to mature.
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