Would you enjoy a problem beside a professor describing your kid "I love you" or vice versa?
Would you have a problem with a teacher recitation your kid "I love you" or your kid telling the teacher "I love you."
Note: It's understood by both the guru and student that it's love no further than in the way of the student-teacher relationship.
If the student say it, its okay.
But, if the teacher says it, Keep an eye out.
A lecturer student relationship shouldn't involve love. If a teacher starts to love a specific student they may show favoritism toward that student over other students. When kids are very young close to kindergarden, 1st grade I don't see anything wrong with the kids saying they love their don and the teacher saying they love them back. When they bring back older, its not really appropriate. Maybe once the student has left the class and continues to hold a friendship with the teacher, then it might be appropriate. When a student is still surrounded by the teachers class it can affect other students negatively.
Answers: I had a preschool student and i told her "I love you." It purely cme out. The kid was underprivileged with one parent who was really not fit to angle her.
i think she needed to hear it.
i guess it all depends upon the circumstances, and why does everybody have to cogitate sex all of the time? can't an adult love a child? Geez. the person that said, "that's disgusting." in good health i think she is disgusting. Love means just that, LOVE, and love is not disgusting.
Interesting question. I think it depends. If the lecturer had known the child all the child's vivacity, and the teacher was a family friend, next, yeah, I think that's fine (I know a situation where this happened). Or, if the kid's really young, and they simply say it to each other as a matter obviously, I think that's okay too.
However, with an older kid, I mull over it's a bit weird. Unless they really knew the teacher, and they be very close (without any kind of sexual aspect), I just reflect it's inappropriate.
Well, my ex-teacher says she loves everyone in my class as a person,but I most expected be a little creeped out.
It depends on the age of the child. If the child in surrounded by kindergarten or first grade then it is actually regular for some children to tell their teachers that they "love" them. More often than not, teacher will tell the child that the feeling is reciprocal to avoid hurting the child's feelings or because several teachers genuinely love their students (more of a parental love mind you).
At the ages of 4-7 when children are in college they tend to view their teachers as their second mothers (I have also have parents refer to me as their child's second mother during parent teacher conferences). It really depends on the situation. Source(s): elementary school teacher for 7 years
Before I approved to finish my degree I worked as a preK teacher. They would always say-so I love u. And sometimes when they leave I'll say "Alright give me a hug. Love u sweetie. See u tomorrow." Then again conceivably I was jus privileged to have such a great bunch of loving preschoolers. It may b weird but if u ruminate about it (with me working with some kids whose parents didn't give them that type of affection) they needed it.
How old is the child? If its a kid within first grade I would be fine with it. I would even be okay with a feminine teacher saying that to my 12 year old daughter. If it really is ok and comfortable for the kid and doesn't miserable anything else, then I would be OK with it, but pay attention and examine for other boundary-violations.
With your note that the love goes no further than a well brought-up student-teacher relationship, I would be thrilled to hear my daughter and her teacher say "I love you." ... I think it is considerable that the teachers care about my daughter and that she know it. Doesn't matter which one says it first.
I wouldn't exactly encourage my daughter to vote it though. That's one of those things that I know some parents (including her dad) would consider to be crossing the line. I don't want her feelings hurt if ever a teacher doesn't articulate it back.
When my kids were in preschool they told their teacher "I love you" and she said "I love you too." I meditate it would be a little weird for the teacher to initiate that, but when they're impressively small, I think it's normal - they don't have a clear distinction between teacher and actual family members.
For older kids, yeah, that might be icky.
yes. i would have a big problem with it. its just creepy. even if its a strictly professional "love". its exceedingly creepy.
I have a high school teacher that I said that to sometimes.
I'd be close to "Baker, I <3 you, you're so funny."
He knew it didn't mean anything, and so did I.
We're still friends by the way. Nothing sexual give or take a few it at all.
I would totally understand how someone could have a problem near that though. It would probably worry me if my kids did it.
That would depend on a lot of factors, especially their age. I think anything over age 4 or 5 would be kinda creepy.
My 16 month old's daycare tutor tells him that every day when he leaves. She's a sweetheart, doesn't bother me one bit.
If a 4 or 5 year old kid said it to their kindergarten teacher, and she replied that she loves them too, I'd be fine beside it. If they were older than that I'd have a problem next to it.
Not at all. I am a second grade professor and have no problem letting my kids know that I love them and my students always say they love me. Although, kids enjoy such a big heart and love everyone! It's usually my worst behaving kid (who has caused me to verbs my hair out all day) who will run up to me at the end of the daytime, give me a hug and say, "I love you." When I say I love them, I am cliché that I love their unique personality that make them them. Along next to that, sadly, every teacher has more than 1 child who get little love and support at home-and that's in a good area. Those little words relieve them feel appreciated and give them comfort.
You have to get the drift that in most cases teachers are second moms. Children end up spend most of their wake hours with their teacher than with their parents, especially if their parents work. And teacher take all the hardships of their students lives home near them at the end of the day. I as a parent, will be thrilled if my child has a mentor who shows them the love that I can't give them while they are at school.
Do you have something you want to confess? What's near these questions? :)
Yes, I would have a problem with that... That's indecorous. Source(s): Married, with 4 kids.
I find it creepy that so many associate the words "I love you" with sex or something else inappropriate. When have it become so wrong to tell someone you care about that you love them?
i regard as that would would be strange. if you don't have a problem with it that is your display but i would have trouble understanding why a teacher would say aloud that to my child
I agree next to what PuterWitch said. ^^
It depends on a lot of things. If a teacher notices how a kid get ignored by the other kids, why not tell him/her: "You are a very devout kid! I would be proud if you were my child! If you ever have a problem, just speak to me, OK? I love you. :)"
It doesn't mean the teacher is trying to steal the kid's love to his/her parents.
Of course, one should know the difference between "love :)"and "love ;)", if you know what I mean. Source(s): If the coach looks like that, I'll be scared, though:
http://www.cruzweb.net/wp-content/upload…
Yes, near is something not quite right about that. My son is loved by his family, not his professor.
I'd have a problem next to it. It's just weird.
The teacher and or the student could used better word choice than "I love you" and also it is weird.
Yes, I would own a problem with that. That's disgusting.
I think that crosses the column into creepiness.
Not in the slightest! My son adores his daycare teacher and she care about him too! She asks for hugs and kisses when he gets there and he other gives it to her when we leave. And to me, it means SHE loves my son and that my son loves her! Which finances she’s looking out for him, she cares about him, and she’ll be there for him.
Now my son is 2 yrs ancient. If we’re talking that my son is 15 yrs old and he’s telling this to his lecturer and she back, then yes, we have a problem. But my son is 2, so I see it as my son loves her because she treats him in good health. And the fact that she loves him back just shows she care about my son. And I’m very much okay with that.
I’d fairly someone love my son than someone stick him in a corner and ignore him all light of day.
i havent actuly got a kid but i think that would bother me its kinda un profecional
I wouldn't demand the teacher's resignation or anything, but I would look into it farther, and politely let the mentor know I was uncomfortable with it.
Sounds weird to me, but don't know their age, sex etc.
I have 2 boys 7 and 14 and mwife'ses a teacher.Now today i thinthat'sts kinda strange.Is this a little kid - i just think its improper as a dad, id have a problem with it.Im not uptight theres in recent times some weirdos out there.
Yes, I would have a problem with that.
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Note: It's understood by both the guru and student that it's love no further than in the way of the student-teacher relationship.
If the student say it, its okay.
But, if the teacher says it, Keep an eye out.
A lecturer student relationship shouldn't involve love. If a teacher starts to love a specific student they may show favoritism toward that student over other students. When kids are very young close to kindergarden, 1st grade I don't see anything wrong with the kids saying they love their don and the teacher saying they love them back. When they bring back older, its not really appropriate. Maybe once the student has left the class and continues to hold a friendship with the teacher, then it might be appropriate. When a student is still surrounded by the teachers class it can affect other students negatively.
Answers: I had a preschool student and i told her "I love you." It purely cme out. The kid was underprivileged with one parent who was really not fit to angle her.
i think she needed to hear it.
i guess it all depends upon the circumstances, and why does everybody have to cogitate sex all of the time? can't an adult love a child? Geez. the person that said, "that's disgusting." in good health i think she is disgusting. Love means just that, LOVE, and love is not disgusting.
Interesting question. I think it depends. If the lecturer had known the child all the child's vivacity, and the teacher was a family friend, next, yeah, I think that's fine (I know a situation where this happened). Or, if the kid's really young, and they simply say it to each other as a matter obviously, I think that's okay too.
However, with an older kid, I mull over it's a bit weird. Unless they really knew the teacher, and they be very close (without any kind of sexual aspect), I just reflect it's inappropriate.
Well, my ex-teacher says she loves everyone in my class as a person,but I most expected be a little creeped out.
It depends on the age of the child. If the child in surrounded by kindergarten or first grade then it is actually regular for some children to tell their teachers that they "love" them. More often than not, teacher will tell the child that the feeling is reciprocal to avoid hurting the child's feelings or because several teachers genuinely love their students (more of a parental love mind you).
At the ages of 4-7 when children are in college they tend to view their teachers as their second mothers (I have also have parents refer to me as their child's second mother during parent teacher conferences). It really depends on the situation. Source(s): elementary school teacher for 7 years
Before I approved to finish my degree I worked as a preK teacher. They would always say-so I love u. And sometimes when they leave I'll say "Alright give me a hug. Love u sweetie. See u tomorrow." Then again conceivably I was jus privileged to have such a great bunch of loving preschoolers. It may b weird but if u ruminate about it (with me working with some kids whose parents didn't give them that type of affection) they needed it.
How old is the child? If its a kid within first grade I would be fine with it. I would even be okay with a feminine teacher saying that to my 12 year old daughter. If it really is ok and comfortable for the kid and doesn't miserable anything else, then I would be OK with it, but pay attention and examine for other boundary-violations.
With your note that the love goes no further than a well brought-up student-teacher relationship, I would be thrilled to hear my daughter and her teacher say "I love you." ... I think it is considerable that the teachers care about my daughter and that she know it. Doesn't matter which one says it first.
I wouldn't exactly encourage my daughter to vote it though. That's one of those things that I know some parents (including her dad) would consider to be crossing the line. I don't want her feelings hurt if ever a teacher doesn't articulate it back.
When my kids were in preschool they told their teacher "I love you" and she said "I love you too." I meditate it would be a little weird for the teacher to initiate that, but when they're impressively small, I think it's normal - they don't have a clear distinction between teacher and actual family members.
For older kids, yeah, that might be icky.
yes. i would have a big problem with it. its just creepy. even if its a strictly professional "love". its exceedingly creepy.
I have a high school teacher that I said that to sometimes.
I'd be close to "Baker, I <3 you, you're so funny."
He knew it didn't mean anything, and so did I.
We're still friends by the way. Nothing sexual give or take a few it at all.
I would totally understand how someone could have a problem near that though. It would probably worry me if my kids did it.
That would depend on a lot of factors, especially their age. I think anything over age 4 or 5 would be kinda creepy.
My 16 month old's daycare tutor tells him that every day when he leaves. She's a sweetheart, doesn't bother me one bit.
If a 4 or 5 year old kid said it to their kindergarten teacher, and she replied that she loves them too, I'd be fine beside it. If they were older than that I'd have a problem next to it.
Not at all. I am a second grade professor and have no problem letting my kids know that I love them and my students always say they love me. Although, kids enjoy such a big heart and love everyone! It's usually my worst behaving kid (who has caused me to verbs my hair out all day) who will run up to me at the end of the daytime, give me a hug and say, "I love you." When I say I love them, I am cliché that I love their unique personality that make them them. Along next to that, sadly, every teacher has more than 1 child who get little love and support at home-and that's in a good area. Those little words relieve them feel appreciated and give them comfort.
You have to get the drift that in most cases teachers are second moms. Children end up spend most of their wake hours with their teacher than with their parents, especially if their parents work. And teacher take all the hardships of their students lives home near them at the end of the day. I as a parent, will be thrilled if my child has a mentor who shows them the love that I can't give them while they are at school.
Do you have something you want to confess? What's near these questions? :)
Yes, I would have a problem with that... That's indecorous. Source(s): Married, with 4 kids.
I find it creepy that so many associate the words "I love you" with sex or something else inappropriate. When have it become so wrong to tell someone you care about that you love them?
i regard as that would would be strange. if you don't have a problem with it that is your display but i would have trouble understanding why a teacher would say aloud that to my child
I agree next to what PuterWitch said. ^^
It depends on a lot of things. If a teacher notices how a kid get ignored by the other kids, why not tell him/her: "You are a very devout kid! I would be proud if you were my child! If you ever have a problem, just speak to me, OK? I love you. :)"
It doesn't mean the teacher is trying to steal the kid's love to his/her parents.
Of course, one should know the difference between "love :)"and "love ;)", if you know what I mean. Source(s): If the coach looks like that, I'll be scared, though:
http://www.cruzweb.net/wp-content/upload…
Yes, near is something not quite right about that. My son is loved by his family, not his professor.
I'd have a problem next to it. It's just weird.
The teacher and or the student could used better word choice than "I love you" and also it is weird.
Yes, I would own a problem with that. That's disgusting.
I think that crosses the column into creepiness.
Not in the slightest! My son adores his daycare teacher and she care about him too! She asks for hugs and kisses when he gets there and he other gives it to her when we leave. And to me, it means SHE loves my son and that my son loves her! Which finances she’s looking out for him, she cares about him, and she’ll be there for him.
Now my son is 2 yrs ancient. If we’re talking that my son is 15 yrs old and he’s telling this to his lecturer and she back, then yes, we have a problem. But my son is 2, so I see it as my son loves her because she treats him in good health. And the fact that she loves him back just shows she care about my son. And I’m very much okay with that.
I’d fairly someone love my son than someone stick him in a corner and ignore him all light of day.
i havent actuly got a kid but i think that would bother me its kinda un profecional
I wouldn't demand the teacher's resignation or anything, but I would look into it farther, and politely let the mentor know I was uncomfortable with it.
Sounds weird to me, but don't know their age, sex etc.
I have 2 boys 7 and 14 and mwife'ses a teacher.Now today i thinthat'sts kinda strange.Is this a little kid - i just think its improper as a dad, id have a problem with it.Im not uptight theres in recent times some weirdos out there.
Yes, I would have a problem with that.
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