How much money is the RIGHT amount that you have a sneaking suspicion that someone should enjoy earlier they enjoy kids?
Since when did having kids become a gift for only privileged rich empire? I think as long as you are doing it yourself and not depending on other people to raise your kids after that is good enough.
I disgust when I ask a question about money and people read out you should not have kids unless you can afford them. I will ask how to find good deals on leap frog products and I take chewed out. Seriously that is ridiculous. My kids have so many toys it is crazy, they enjoy more clothes than they could ever wear, they go to Disney world at least once a year and a trip to Wisconsin and maybe even some more small trips. We do profoundly of fun things around home too. They have college funds started and there has never be a day that they have gone without. Still I am told that I should not hold 4 kids if I can't afford them. I think my kids are spoiled and they definitely have more than I have at their age. The sports they are in alone is way more than what I ever had but you know what. I am glad my parents have me even though they where not filthy rich and they may have clipped some coupons.
So that is why I ask what is your judgment on how much money a person should have to be considered worthy of reproducing?
It does seem like no thing how much money you do have, there will always be someone unfolding you that you don't have enough money to have more kids or to provide suitably for your children. It's sad.
We have one child and one little suprise due in October. Do we hold the money to have another child? Not according to other people's standards, but will we provide anything and everything for our children that they need? Absolutely. If everyone waited for the supreme time to have children and the perfect amount of money, they would never have children.
Go near your heart; It doesn't matter what others think. If your capable of taking trouble of your children yourself, and the state is not paying for their raising. IGNORE what other people think and bestow your children the love they deserve.
The money you spend on a child doesn't mean anything. Its the time and love you spend.
I think the better question is what IQ should a couple enjoy before having kids, lol. I think that inhabitants who say that you should be making an X amount, or have said X amount in reserves are just covering the fact that they just dont want kids. If you are constanly using money as an excuse, next you wont ever have kids because life comes at you hard, and constantly change. Circumstances wont ever be perfect, because life isnt perfect. People are morons that use money as an excuse- Unless they are those populace that are homeless or something or living on welfare and having babies is there source of income. Those people dont want to be having babies.
I assume that anyone who would only think someone is "worthy of reproducing" if they have a particular amount of money, should never be allowed to reproduce! No one is worthy based on income or savings. Someone needs to know how to provide the basics, housing, food, clothing. You do much more, and you admit your children are spoiled. Someone may be well competent to afford a child, and yet later on lose their job, or their spouse and next it is a struggle. But, they can still be wonderful, worthy parents. "Depending on other people" might be necessary in some circumstances. But, I don't think anyone should move about into it expecting a handout from others, or for the grandparents or other relatives to be built in babysitters. It doesn't make sense if you are told not to have 4 if you can't afford them, it sounds approaching you can.
Answers: I so totally agree with you when you right to be heard that if you are taking care of your family the best you can and not depending on others, that's good satisfactory.
We also have 4 kids. However, my kids don't have tons of toys. We don't go on vacation like Disney World or even other small trips, we only drive to visit nearest and dearest for our "vacations". We don't have college funds either. And we have a tough time being able to put our kids in adjectives sorts of sports and activities because we just don't have the money. I still don't give attention to that means we needed to have less than 4 children.
I applaud you for anyone able to provide so many of those fun and good things for your children, but those things are by no routine necessities. If a parent is able to provide the necessities of life--clothes (even clothes from Good Will are still clothes), food (even cutting back on this by using coupons and price matching), and a place to sleep (even if it's a 3 bedroom 1200 sq ft apartment that you rent), explicitly all children need, as well as love from their parents.
I too grasp tired of hearing "you shouldn't have had so abundant if you can't afford them", when my idea of "affording" them isn't the same as many other people's. As long as their underlying necessities are met and you raise them with good strong values and love, children will thrive. All the rest is extra, wonderful as it is, and surplus to requirements to raise good people.
i would say that u don't own to have s certain amount of money to have a child inhabitants have child because they love each other that's Wat they used to do in the old-fashioned days have a big family and work hard for them and Ur jollity yet people are now calculating things and they mull over they know all but they don't maybe because they haven't had children because they would be contradicting them self's so trust contained by your self and yowl know Wat to do
I dont really think anyone can ever be financially prepared for a child... the more money you have to spend on a kid, the more money you WILL spend on a kid.
BUT I do think that in attendance should be a few minimum things people should think about and be capable of do before trying to have a child. Like one of my good friends, I love her to extermination but dear lord, she is not thinking. She is in college, her husband is laid off from work, has be for almost a year and can not find a job right now, she has a 5 yr frail son and they are struggling just to buy food, she is diabetic and can not afford her insulin, they are about to lose their house because they can't make the mortgage, no condition insurance obviously... but they are trying for another baby.
I think at the LEAST ethnic group should be able to pay their bills and buy food and medications they necessitate before even thinking about having a toddler. That is pretty common sense. Other than that... have at it.
I understand your point, a way of looking at it, who have more respect for the world? The kid who had to learn from life, and run out and work hard,?or the spoilt little richkid who yes has a private education but is smaller quantity than streetwise?
I had both my parents working when I was growing up, we lived in a 2 bed house. modest living, They divorced and we become less fortunate.
I got a job after conservatory at 16 to help make ends meet!
Girl who I know, privately well-read, will probably be a doctor, but she is the most emotionally cold person I have ever had the misfortune of get-together in my life. Why? Because instead of giving her love and affection and time, her parents gave her money and doesn`t matter what else she asked for.
Yes it costs to raise kids, butb they son't need anything - you just obligation enough money to keep a roof over your head, clothes on your pay for and food in your belly,
Not saying all rich kids are approaching that girl was by the way, its jst an example of 2 extremes.
She has no time experience, was sheilded from the world
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I disgust when I ask a question about money and people read out you should not have kids unless you can afford them. I will ask how to find good deals on leap frog products and I take chewed out. Seriously that is ridiculous. My kids have so many toys it is crazy, they enjoy more clothes than they could ever wear, they go to Disney world at least once a year and a trip to Wisconsin and maybe even some more small trips. We do profoundly of fun things around home too. They have college funds started and there has never be a day that they have gone without. Still I am told that I should not hold 4 kids if I can't afford them. I think my kids are spoiled and they definitely have more than I have at their age. The sports they are in alone is way more than what I ever had but you know what. I am glad my parents have me even though they where not filthy rich and they may have clipped some coupons.
So that is why I ask what is your judgment on how much money a person should have to be considered worthy of reproducing?
It does seem like no thing how much money you do have, there will always be someone unfolding you that you don't have enough money to have more kids or to provide suitably for your children. It's sad.
We have one child and one little suprise due in October. Do we hold the money to have another child? Not according to other people's standards, but will we provide anything and everything for our children that they need? Absolutely. If everyone waited for the supreme time to have children and the perfect amount of money, they would never have children.
Go near your heart; It doesn't matter what others think. If your capable of taking trouble of your children yourself, and the state is not paying for their raising. IGNORE what other people think and bestow your children the love they deserve.
The money you spend on a child doesn't mean anything. Its the time and love you spend.
I think the better question is what IQ should a couple enjoy before having kids, lol. I think that inhabitants who say that you should be making an X amount, or have said X amount in reserves are just covering the fact that they just dont want kids. If you are constanly using money as an excuse, next you wont ever have kids because life comes at you hard, and constantly change. Circumstances wont ever be perfect, because life isnt perfect. People are morons that use money as an excuse- Unless they are those populace that are homeless or something or living on welfare and having babies is there source of income. Those people dont want to be having babies.
I assume that anyone who would only think someone is "worthy of reproducing" if they have a particular amount of money, should never be allowed to reproduce! No one is worthy based on income or savings. Someone needs to know how to provide the basics, housing, food, clothing. You do much more, and you admit your children are spoiled. Someone may be well competent to afford a child, and yet later on lose their job, or their spouse and next it is a struggle. But, they can still be wonderful, worthy parents. "Depending on other people" might be necessary in some circumstances. But, I don't think anyone should move about into it expecting a handout from others, or for the grandparents or other relatives to be built in babysitters. It doesn't make sense if you are told not to have 4 if you can't afford them, it sounds approaching you can.
Answers: I so totally agree with you when you right to be heard that if you are taking care of your family the best you can and not depending on others, that's good satisfactory.
We also have 4 kids. However, my kids don't have tons of toys. We don't go on vacation like Disney World or even other small trips, we only drive to visit nearest and dearest for our "vacations". We don't have college funds either. And we have a tough time being able to put our kids in adjectives sorts of sports and activities because we just don't have the money. I still don't give attention to that means we needed to have less than 4 children.
I applaud you for anyone able to provide so many of those fun and good things for your children, but those things are by no routine necessities. If a parent is able to provide the necessities of life--clothes (even clothes from Good Will are still clothes), food (even cutting back on this by using coupons and price matching), and a place to sleep (even if it's a 3 bedroom 1200 sq ft apartment that you rent), explicitly all children need, as well as love from their parents.
I too grasp tired of hearing "you shouldn't have had so abundant if you can't afford them", when my idea of "affording" them isn't the same as many other people's. As long as their underlying necessities are met and you raise them with good strong values and love, children will thrive. All the rest is extra, wonderful as it is, and surplus to requirements to raise good people.
i would say that u don't own to have s certain amount of money to have a child inhabitants have child because they love each other that's Wat they used to do in the old-fashioned days have a big family and work hard for them and Ur jollity yet people are now calculating things and they mull over they know all but they don't maybe because they haven't had children because they would be contradicting them self's so trust contained by your self and yowl know Wat to do
I dont really think anyone can ever be financially prepared for a child... the more money you have to spend on a kid, the more money you WILL spend on a kid.
BUT I do think that in attendance should be a few minimum things people should think about and be capable of do before trying to have a child. Like one of my good friends, I love her to extermination but dear lord, she is not thinking. She is in college, her husband is laid off from work, has be for almost a year and can not find a job right now, she has a 5 yr frail son and they are struggling just to buy food, she is diabetic and can not afford her insulin, they are about to lose their house because they can't make the mortgage, no condition insurance obviously... but they are trying for another baby.
I think at the LEAST ethnic group should be able to pay their bills and buy food and medications they necessitate before even thinking about having a toddler. That is pretty common sense. Other than that... have at it.
I understand your point, a way of looking at it, who have more respect for the world? The kid who had to learn from life, and run out and work hard,?or the spoilt little richkid who yes has a private education but is smaller quantity than streetwise?
I had both my parents working when I was growing up, we lived in a 2 bed house. modest living, They divorced and we become less fortunate.
I got a job after conservatory at 16 to help make ends meet!
Girl who I know, privately well-read, will probably be a doctor, but she is the most emotionally cold person I have ever had the misfortune of get-together in my life. Why? Because instead of giving her love and affection and time, her parents gave her money and doesn`t matter what else she asked for.
Yes it costs to raise kids, butb they son't need anything - you just obligation enough money to keep a roof over your head, clothes on your pay for and food in your belly,
Not saying all rich kids are approaching that girl was by the way, its jst an example of 2 extremes.
She has no time experience, was sheilded from the world
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