Parenting VS. A "Real" Job?
Ok so my husband and have been having this ongoing argument for ages, close to almost a year i think. He thinks that being a stay a home mother to 3 children ages 15 months, 5 yrs and 13 is easier than driving a truck sucking out porta potties. I believe parenting is much harder especially since my 15month out-of-date is still breastfed and my 5yr old is a challenge all by itself and my 13 yr hoary is going through puberty, not to mention they are all boys.
I have to get up within the middle of the night to fevers and illnesses and feedings, plus take meticulousness of them all day long. My husband believes that if he works 50hrs a week he's entitled to come home after work and do nothing but sit contained by front of his pc, not spend time with the kids, i should have the house spotless etc... He does prepare dinner for the kids simply because i am a lacto-vegetarian and won't cook meat but i also won't inflick my beliefs on my kids, sooo i have to ask which do you believe is the harder job?? parenting or a "real" job as if parenting isn't a tangible job.
men are crazy ignorant sometimes. what u NEED to do to stop this argueing is switch job for about a week maybe a lil longer. Seriously hun. it will be liberating =P u get away and hold some "me" time and u can win this silly arguement that u are deff right in. if he thinks its soo easy consequently he will have no reason to say no. plus men other like a good challenge right?? correct luck hun and u r deff Right on Point with this one.
you are a lazy beotch. you hubby works and you sit at home. working mums have to do both. work and make more time for they kids. scrutinize when he leave you for a real woman who could do both cause you a lethargic beotch. and he prepare dinner too. you will see one day when he leave you for a mum that works cooks cleans and takes charge of the kids all day
I am not a stay at home mother but I totally see where your coming from. My fiancee stays home to take care of our son (we with the sole purpose have one and he's 16 mths old almost 17). But my job never ends any. I go to work come home have to worry almost cleaning walking a dog and taking care of a toddler until the toddler goes to sleep then roughly speaking 8/10 chances I'm the one going in to make sure that he's ok if he wake up in the middle of the night. So I do have to agree that taking attention of a baby as a job is sooo much harder than my actual job that pays me money.
So, you are saying that your husband doesn't appreciate the fact that you're raise the kids, and you are challenging him to compare what each of you do during the day?
Why not newly live your lives, both do your best, and be thankful you are able to afford to live. There are so many other things you could both be doing than have this weird competition with each other.
Maybe you and your husband could bring time out and do something together once in a while... maybe this would bring you closer together as a couple, instead of being on "conflicting teams"
Answers: Men, sheeesh.
Being a full time parent is the hardest job in the world. The wages sucks, there are NO vacations, and the hours are grueling. The reward, however, can be better than any raise or bonus check from any corporation.
I guarantee that if you two ever did switch places, he'd be entreating for his "crappy" job back in no time, lmao.
And no event what happens, remain proud of your commitment to your kids. Having you in their lives is a bigger blessing than having him.
Take thoroughness.
They will never have a handle on, just like a child could never understand what a mother does for them. Thing is, just the girls will grow up to know what the mother actually does, and only a few men will grow up to understand what a woman really does. Its automatic, if they knew, they would be praying to our feet like we be gods, and honestly love, you dont see that coming, do ya??
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I have to get up within the middle of the night to fevers and illnesses and feedings, plus take meticulousness of them all day long. My husband believes that if he works 50hrs a week he's entitled to come home after work and do nothing but sit contained by front of his pc, not spend time with the kids, i should have the house spotless etc... He does prepare dinner for the kids simply because i am a lacto-vegetarian and won't cook meat but i also won't inflick my beliefs on my kids, sooo i have to ask which do you believe is the harder job?? parenting or a "real" job as if parenting isn't a tangible job.
men are crazy ignorant sometimes. what u NEED to do to stop this argueing is switch job for about a week maybe a lil longer. Seriously hun. it will be liberating =P u get away and hold some "me" time and u can win this silly arguement that u are deff right in. if he thinks its soo easy consequently he will have no reason to say no. plus men other like a good challenge right?? correct luck hun and u r deff Right on Point with this one.
you are a lazy beotch. you hubby works and you sit at home. working mums have to do both. work and make more time for they kids. scrutinize when he leave you for a real woman who could do both cause you a lethargic beotch. and he prepare dinner too. you will see one day when he leave you for a mum that works cooks cleans and takes charge of the kids all day
I am not a stay at home mother but I totally see where your coming from. My fiancee stays home to take care of our son (we with the sole purpose have one and he's 16 mths old almost 17). But my job never ends any. I go to work come home have to worry almost cleaning walking a dog and taking care of a toddler until the toddler goes to sleep then roughly speaking 8/10 chances I'm the one going in to make sure that he's ok if he wake up in the middle of the night. So I do have to agree that taking attention of a baby as a job is sooo much harder than my actual job that pays me money.
So, you are saying that your husband doesn't appreciate the fact that you're raise the kids, and you are challenging him to compare what each of you do during the day?
Why not newly live your lives, both do your best, and be thankful you are able to afford to live. There are so many other things you could both be doing than have this weird competition with each other.
Maybe you and your husband could bring time out and do something together once in a while... maybe this would bring you closer together as a couple, instead of being on "conflicting teams"
Answers: Men, sheeesh.
Being a full time parent is the hardest job in the world. The wages sucks, there are NO vacations, and the hours are grueling. The reward, however, can be better than any raise or bonus check from any corporation.
I guarantee that if you two ever did switch places, he'd be entreating for his "crappy" job back in no time, lmao.
And no event what happens, remain proud of your commitment to your kids. Having you in their lives is a bigger blessing than having him.
Take thoroughness.
They will never have a handle on, just like a child could never understand what a mother does for them. Thing is, just the girls will grow up to know what the mother actually does, and only a few men will grow up to understand what a woman really does. Its automatic, if they knew, they would be praying to our feet like we be gods, and honestly love, you dont see that coming, do ya??
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