Parents, do you surmise your children take off your behavior?
Someone made a reply to another question about bullying, people acting so concerned that a child have committed suicide based upon being bullied, yet tons of the parents on here demonstrated how much of bullies they are the other night.
One so-called mother went as far as to say "clutch the bottle of pills already and leave us alone".
How can you be concerned w/the bullying epidemic that is going on in our school when your behavior on here clearly shows that YOU may very well be the problem? If you are so concerned, maybe you really ought to look at how you treat family, thus teaching your children how to be less likely to be bullies themselves.
Children definitely imitate their parents behavior , infact my son imitates me alot. However bullies are seldom bullies because their parents are . within are normally deeper lying issues as to why a child will become a bully. Everything ranging from abuse to carelessness. However this does not excuse bullying and both the victim and the bully need to be counseled. Being bullied is a traumatic experience and what the bully is doing is taking away the victims power and feed his own. The victim feels powerless, victimized and traumatized. If the bullying continues and nothing is done in the order of it then you have to blame the parents for not reporting the matter , the principal and teacher for not stepping in and the parents of the bully who are normally behind the basis the child is a bully. The woman/ mother who posted that comment is heartless and cruel and insensitive. However this is answers and one need to be prepared for alll kinds of reponses from adjectives kinds of people. There will always be the insensitive insensitive people who get off self nasty and cruel. At the end of the day they enjoy to deal with their concience even if it only effects thems 10 years down the string. Anyway you will find people who respond to people in this approach are probably misrable and unhappy victims of a bad past or experience and you inevitability to pray for them as they need help.
yes parents should not talk like that around your their children i agree, but here should also be a difference between children and adults. (i'm not saying what this person said was right,i'm freshly saying in general) we as parents need to show are children confidence and how to shake bad mean words that they shouldn't affect us, but if we can't even ignore something someone said that you never seen or met and never hold to talk to how are we suppose to teach our 12 year olds to shake off rigorous words from their peers?
Edit: i agree with you, you never knowin a situation like that. And of course i wouldn't want to be responsible for something similar to that ever. that's why i do not bully anybody and try my best to set this example for my children. i also will be teaching them to come to me with any concerns and to not take everything to heart, but if in attendance is something that truley bothers them that they feel they can't handle by themselves then i hope we own a good enough relationship that they can come to me, or anybody for that matter it doesn't own to be me i just hope they would reach out to someone. kids and adults for that matter requirement to realize it is never as bad as it seems and there are inhabitants who are there to listen and who care. i bet if you seek not easy enough for every one person who doesn't care or is bullying within are 2 to help.
wow i'm starting to fell really sad now..lol this is a flawless debate question for sure just so sad on how the topic come up.
Answers: I want to respond to this, but I believe youve already said it all.
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One so-called mother went as far as to say "clutch the bottle of pills already and leave us alone".
How can you be concerned w/the bullying epidemic that is going on in our school when your behavior on here clearly shows that YOU may very well be the problem? If you are so concerned, maybe you really ought to look at how you treat family, thus teaching your children how to be less likely to be bullies themselves.
Children definitely imitate their parents behavior , infact my son imitates me alot. However bullies are seldom bullies because their parents are . within are normally deeper lying issues as to why a child will become a bully. Everything ranging from abuse to carelessness. However this does not excuse bullying and both the victim and the bully need to be counseled. Being bullied is a traumatic experience and what the bully is doing is taking away the victims power and feed his own. The victim feels powerless, victimized and traumatized. If the bullying continues and nothing is done in the order of it then you have to blame the parents for not reporting the matter , the principal and teacher for not stepping in and the parents of the bully who are normally behind the basis the child is a bully. The woman/ mother who posted that comment is heartless and cruel and insensitive. However this is answers and one need to be prepared for alll kinds of reponses from adjectives kinds of people. There will always be the insensitive insensitive people who get off self nasty and cruel. At the end of the day they enjoy to deal with their concience even if it only effects thems 10 years down the string. Anyway you will find people who respond to people in this approach are probably misrable and unhappy victims of a bad past or experience and you inevitability to pray for them as they need help.
yes parents should not talk like that around your their children i agree, but here should also be a difference between children and adults. (i'm not saying what this person said was right,i'm freshly saying in general) we as parents need to show are children confidence and how to shake bad mean words that they shouldn't affect us, but if we can't even ignore something someone said that you never seen or met and never hold to talk to how are we suppose to teach our 12 year olds to shake off rigorous words from their peers?
Edit: i agree with you, you never knowin a situation like that. And of course i wouldn't want to be responsible for something similar to that ever. that's why i do not bully anybody and try my best to set this example for my children. i also will be teaching them to come to me with any concerns and to not take everything to heart, but if in attendance is something that truley bothers them that they feel they can't handle by themselves then i hope we own a good enough relationship that they can come to me, or anybody for that matter it doesn't own to be me i just hope they would reach out to someone. kids and adults for that matter requirement to realize it is never as bad as it seems and there are inhabitants who are there to listen and who care. i bet if you seek not easy enough for every one person who doesn't care or is bullying within are 2 to help.
wow i'm starting to fell really sad now..lol this is a flawless debate question for sure just so sad on how the topic come up.
Answers: I want to respond to this, but I believe youve already said it all.
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