OMG ! What the hell ?
Ok so as I sit here and read these questions on here , alot of them are from little kids the ages of 11 to 15 . Asking things like " Am I able to own sex yet " or " I want a boyfriend " and even " How do I make out " ..
This crap scares me because I hold a 10yr old daughter myself and I think I would beat the brakes sour her if she ever asked anything like that . I mean I was a delayed bloomer when it came to boys . I didn't have my 1st boyfriend until I was a month away from 16 yrs matured .
I believe I have taught my daughter well satisfactory , that she wont be fast like most girls her age but Im still worried !
What can I do to make sure she doesn't grow up too quickly ? HELP ME PLZ !!
Keep contained by mind that many of these "kids" are really drunk 19 yr old idiots trying to get you adjectives worked up.
Change your attitude.
Let her know that if she does have questions like that she can turn to you and not enjoy to resort to a dodgy website for info.
You cant compare yourself to kids these days as they have access to so much more and 'grow up' a lot quicker. Just consent to her know she can trust you, including the uncomfortable sex questions.
They are fully fledged trolls.
well what you can do is educate your child within sex ed. make sure they know everything...not just about a interval and pregnancy, but about STD and AIDS. She at an age where she can understand and it will comfort her when the peer pressure is greater at school, to make the right choices.
Last thing is do your best to trust the child.
My son have the talk at 9 and then again at 13...he's 17 and safe...he have sex but with a condom...I would buy it for him. I'm not ready to be a grand-ma yet...
I am 19 years old and I completely understand you. I be an early bloomer that lost it at a very young age and I m exceedingly disappointed about it. When I lost it around that year I grew more and more concerned about today's society. It's honestly horrible. Children in 5th class are starting to have sex and smoke and I thought I was young surrounded by seventh grade. Being one of those children myself I suggest talking to her a little roughly speaking boys, I find it's better to hear things from your parents then from big mouths at school who over exaggerate stories. I never really had a mother and a father and at the age of 5 my nuts step mom pushed sex on me and from in that it was all I knew, dreadfully. You should never let your child know anything such as sex is wrong because it is common for then to dissident. My father always gave me enough rope to dangle myself, I hung myself once and I slowly earned my trust back. I've never lied to my father about a entry and he gave me enough trust so I grew up fine. You need to permit your child know that she will encounter things like sex and drugs growing up and that she can always go to you no business what, just make sure things aren't awkward. Sometimes it's good to hold on to the relationship with your child as friends let parenting come when you need it to.
shes a human you just can get mad at something that shes thinking of. I bring up next to my mom all the time if i get pregnant at 16 what would you do? and she tells me i don't know if it happen it happens but for now it never happened so i don't know. so if she brings it up and in recent times tell her that shes too young.
Answers: If the child is over 13, consider giving them one of these books:
Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess up Their Lives
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Ten-Stu…
Ten Stupid Things Men Do to Mess up Their Lives
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Ten-Stu…
Now, if they are below the age of consent, this is something you can tell all the children under that age. It is not merely illegal for an adult to be having sex beside them, but also for them to be having consensual sex with an adult, or even someone of their own age. If they do (don't use the word "are"), you will see to it the charges are also file against them. A Kansas mother did this on her own daughter.
IT SHOULD BE NOTED THAT 20% OF SEXUALLY ACTIVE GIRLS OVER THE AGE OF 12 ARE TRYING TO GET PREGNANT ACORDING TO A STUDY SPONSORED BY TYRA BANKS LAST JANUARY.
There are no easy answers here. Communication is key, but please try not to fall wager on on the idea they need to just use protection. Aside from the breakdown rate, a girl who wants to get pregnant will find a way around it, including impregnate herself with a used condom. Also, a Florida doctor learned that oral sex doesn’t prevent pregnancy. He now pays $1800 a month surrounded by child support.
If it is a girl, remind her that if she gets pregnant, it substantially increases her chances of getting breast cancer in her 30s. Even if she get an abortion. The only way to repair the damage is breast nurture the child for two years minimum, but for best results, four years.
If she thinks that she’s ready to marry the guy, 85% of divorces involve marriages below the age of 24. According to a Rutgers University Study, “Should We Live Together?”, cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to wedding.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications…
For a boy, tell them it increases their chance of developing testicle cancer, the NUMBER ONE form of cancer males now gain between age 15 and 35. The rates have been steadily increasing. It is not a venereal disease. The sexual activity when the masculine body is not ready for it, produces hormones that does cellular damage to the testicles and the immune system.
Caught early, treatment involves removal of one or both testicles, sometimes referred to as castration. This is followed by radiation treatment.
If caught unsettled, it is 100% fatal, as it metastasizes to the brain and lungs. He slowly goes insane as it eats away at the brain, while he slowly drowns within his own body's fluids.
There’s no guarantee as regards either one of these cancers, only as smoking doesn’t guarantee you will get lung cancer, but if you do, it’s very unpleasant, and with both of these cancer, even if treated successfully, they can have life long affects.
On a personal level, when your teen daughter is dating, have a requirement that he have Friday night dinner at your home and put Saltpeter contained by his food. I didn’t get my first grandchild until my daughter were in their 20s.
I option you luck.
lol, most of these questions are from 45 yr old bored men trying to catch a high from reading about people describing a 12 yr old girl how to kiss.
or else it's cops waiting for some perv to offer to show them.
Ignore it
You can't stop her from being brisk if she's going to be.most teenagers do what they want to do and deal with the punishment later.but most potential she will make the right decision with that quality of thing since it seems you have skilled her well.there might be some peer pressure but I'm sure she's a smart girl and will do the right thing.adjectives you can do is hope!good luck :D
get her away from tv... thats why kids learn all of this.
im 13
I focus a lot of it comes down to the parenting and guidance you give them as they get elder.what are 11 year olds doing on this site asking those questions unsupervised?
Children are growing up faster now, but there are a great deal of parents willing to stand by and let that happen. Some even assume it's cute.
I'm sure you don't have anything to worry about. While I'm not your daughter and can't articulate for certain, if you've raised her well and qualified her what's right and what's wrong, she'll do the smart thing. I myself am 16 and am in my first real relationship, and it lone started a month ago. This is mostly due to the fact that my mother has talked to me countless times in the order of boys, and how I'm too young to be 'dating' (this was when I was fourteen) If you've skilled her well, she will most likely think boys are icky until she's 13. If she does completion up like most other girls, do the back up my mom did: tell her she's unacceptable to have a boyfriend until she's AT LEAST 16. That'll do it.
I think you should basically talk to her about everything.. boys..puberty..everything. tell her some vibrations she might feel and make her comfortable enough to when she wishes to talk to someone she will feel comfortable coming to you
hope i helped
=] Source(s): only just my opinion..
um, wutevr woman.
Im almost 14 and prgnat. tat shows how muture i am. Im not like those kids, dey dot kno what teyre doin. i do tho. fuk thos ppl who sasy i cant smok and drink, it my life, so fukk u and evrybody like u!1
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This crap scares me because I hold a 10yr old daughter myself and I think I would beat the brakes sour her if she ever asked anything like that . I mean I was a delayed bloomer when it came to boys . I didn't have my 1st boyfriend until I was a month away from 16 yrs matured .
I believe I have taught my daughter well satisfactory , that she wont be fast like most girls her age but Im still worried !
What can I do to make sure she doesn't grow up too quickly ? HELP ME PLZ !!
Keep contained by mind that many of these "kids" are really drunk 19 yr old idiots trying to get you adjectives worked up.
Change your attitude.
Let her know that if she does have questions like that she can turn to you and not enjoy to resort to a dodgy website for info.
You cant compare yourself to kids these days as they have access to so much more and 'grow up' a lot quicker. Just consent to her know she can trust you, including the uncomfortable sex questions.
They are fully fledged trolls.
well what you can do is educate your child within sex ed. make sure they know everything...not just about a interval and pregnancy, but about STD and AIDS. She at an age where she can understand and it will comfort her when the peer pressure is greater at school, to make the right choices.
Last thing is do your best to trust the child.
My son have the talk at 9 and then again at 13...he's 17 and safe...he have sex but with a condom...I would buy it for him. I'm not ready to be a grand-ma yet...
I am 19 years old and I completely understand you. I be an early bloomer that lost it at a very young age and I m exceedingly disappointed about it. When I lost it around that year I grew more and more concerned about today's society. It's honestly horrible. Children in 5th class are starting to have sex and smoke and I thought I was young surrounded by seventh grade. Being one of those children myself I suggest talking to her a little roughly speaking boys, I find it's better to hear things from your parents then from big mouths at school who over exaggerate stories. I never really had a mother and a father and at the age of 5 my nuts step mom pushed sex on me and from in that it was all I knew, dreadfully. You should never let your child know anything such as sex is wrong because it is common for then to dissident. My father always gave me enough rope to dangle myself, I hung myself once and I slowly earned my trust back. I've never lied to my father about a entry and he gave me enough trust so I grew up fine. You need to permit your child know that she will encounter things like sex and drugs growing up and that she can always go to you no business what, just make sure things aren't awkward. Sometimes it's good to hold on to the relationship with your child as friends let parenting come when you need it to.
shes a human you just can get mad at something that shes thinking of. I bring up next to my mom all the time if i get pregnant at 16 what would you do? and she tells me i don't know if it happen it happens but for now it never happened so i don't know. so if she brings it up and in recent times tell her that shes too young.
Answers: If the child is over 13, consider giving them one of these books:
Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess up Their Lives
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Ten-Stu…
Ten Stupid Things Men Do to Mess up Their Lives
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Ten-Stu…
Now, if they are below the age of consent, this is something you can tell all the children under that age. It is not merely illegal for an adult to be having sex beside them, but also for them to be having consensual sex with an adult, or even someone of their own age. If they do (don't use the word "are"), you will see to it the charges are also file against them. A Kansas mother did this on her own daughter.
IT SHOULD BE NOTED THAT 20% OF SEXUALLY ACTIVE GIRLS OVER THE AGE OF 12 ARE TRYING TO GET PREGNANT ACORDING TO A STUDY SPONSORED BY TYRA BANKS LAST JANUARY.
There are no easy answers here. Communication is key, but please try not to fall wager on on the idea they need to just use protection. Aside from the breakdown rate, a girl who wants to get pregnant will find a way around it, including impregnate herself with a used condom. Also, a Florida doctor learned that oral sex doesn’t prevent pregnancy. He now pays $1800 a month surrounded by child support.
If it is a girl, remind her that if she gets pregnant, it substantially increases her chances of getting breast cancer in her 30s. Even if she get an abortion. The only way to repair the damage is breast nurture the child for two years minimum, but for best results, four years.
If she thinks that she’s ready to marry the guy, 85% of divorces involve marriages below the age of 24. According to a Rutgers University Study, “Should We Live Together?”, cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to wedding.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications…
For a boy, tell them it increases their chance of developing testicle cancer, the NUMBER ONE form of cancer males now gain between age 15 and 35. The rates have been steadily increasing. It is not a venereal disease. The sexual activity when the masculine body is not ready for it, produces hormones that does cellular damage to the testicles and the immune system.
Caught early, treatment involves removal of one or both testicles, sometimes referred to as castration. This is followed by radiation treatment.
If caught unsettled, it is 100% fatal, as it metastasizes to the brain and lungs. He slowly goes insane as it eats away at the brain, while he slowly drowns within his own body's fluids.
There’s no guarantee as regards either one of these cancers, only as smoking doesn’t guarantee you will get lung cancer, but if you do, it’s very unpleasant, and with both of these cancer, even if treated successfully, they can have life long affects.
On a personal level, when your teen daughter is dating, have a requirement that he have Friday night dinner at your home and put Saltpeter contained by his food. I didn’t get my first grandchild until my daughter were in their 20s.
I option you luck.
lol, most of these questions are from 45 yr old bored men trying to catch a high from reading about people describing a 12 yr old girl how to kiss.
or else it's cops waiting for some perv to offer to show them.
Ignore it
You can't stop her from being brisk if she's going to be.most teenagers do what they want to do and deal with the punishment later.but most potential she will make the right decision with that quality of thing since it seems you have skilled her well.there might be some peer pressure but I'm sure she's a smart girl and will do the right thing.adjectives you can do is hope!good luck :D
get her away from tv... thats why kids learn all of this.
im 13
I focus a lot of it comes down to the parenting and guidance you give them as they get elder.what are 11 year olds doing on this site asking those questions unsupervised?
Children are growing up faster now, but there are a great deal of parents willing to stand by and let that happen. Some even assume it's cute.
I'm sure you don't have anything to worry about. While I'm not your daughter and can't articulate for certain, if you've raised her well and qualified her what's right and what's wrong, she'll do the smart thing. I myself am 16 and am in my first real relationship, and it lone started a month ago. This is mostly due to the fact that my mother has talked to me countless times in the order of boys, and how I'm too young to be 'dating' (this was when I was fourteen) If you've skilled her well, she will most likely think boys are icky until she's 13. If she does completion up like most other girls, do the back up my mom did: tell her she's unacceptable to have a boyfriend until she's AT LEAST 16. That'll do it.
I think you should basically talk to her about everything.. boys..puberty..everything. tell her some vibrations she might feel and make her comfortable enough to when she wishes to talk to someone she will feel comfortable coming to you
hope i helped
=] Source(s): only just my opinion..
um, wutevr woman.
Im almost 14 and prgnat. tat shows how muture i am. Im not like those kids, dey dot kno what teyre doin. i do tho. fuk thos ppl who sasy i cant smok and drink, it my life, so fukk u and evrybody like u!1
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