Do you surmise my husband disciplined out of frustration or be this appropriate?
I agree that spanking should never be done in anger. I think what your husband did was and wasn't correct. Only because he had already told your daughter that if she wandered off again that he would purloin her to the car, but then he took around back and spanked her. Personally I would of done equal thing. Just think that you're doing it for her safety and well-being. My son use to walk away from me (he's almost 4), and I had to tell him repeatedly that somebody could just come and run him away from mommy and daddy and we wouldn't know where he was. I think it's working, but its something to view out for. If you feel that your daughter's punishment was justified, later it was justified. You are her mother and what you and your husband say is what she should listen to, you're simply doing whats best for her. good luck and don't stress this, it'll only make you verbs more next time something happens.
I think it was appopriate, but i would say as a 16 year outmoded. I want to know what i do wrong, please tell me before you take something away. You know, if you are going to hold my phone, then take it, but please explain why before you be to take it and after you take it!
I agree with Xander's Mommy. She did not listen and got within trouble. I would have punished my son for not listening also.
he handle it perfect. And not out of frustration most more out of gentle for her because if she did wonder to far who know what may have happen. And i know people will enunciate it was abuse to spank her its not it what God gave your at the rear for Source(s): lake house
no i thnk what your husband did was fine.h spanked nd then explained.
no i think he be firm but fair
OR Maybe the parents could have been paying more attention to her so that she did not have the opportunity to rove off so far in a dangerous place. I guess the parents necessitate a spanking as well. The parents werent doing their job and looking out for the safety of their 4 year ripened daughter.
Who spanked the parents?
Hmm.powerfully...everyone is different...well...the child...or children i should say.dont tend to pick up on disciplinary quite well...id say it is fair, since i button 4 of my own and i dont as so much spank them, i persuade them not to do it.but being the fact of the issue that the young girl wasnt minding you or her father,especially not caring and just doing it anyways...yes,ego say its fair. think of it as.ever c a james bond movie or...something approaching that? ya know, where they find somebody mho has infromation but they wont tell you so you own to somewhat like torture them untuill they do...just not as exterme as to.torture..good luck and dont donate up,hon!
He disciplined a child that wasn't listening. Nothing wrong near that. I don't know why she had the need to wander past its sell-by date. I'm sure someone must have went with the girl to explore the nouns so she shouldn't want to do that again. She is 4 after all.
appropriate.
You warn, you make available reason for warning.
You give a more intense or eloquent warning and reason for not doing wrong actions.
Then comes the punishment.
If the punish does not work you must stamp out the child's reason for wanting to wander off alone. ..bring away a toy, time out, an activity like cleaning up to help variety them stay near ..etc etc..
Work on her understanding...and make it routine.
If you don't similar to the punishment.. always talk away from your child so she does not see she has a parent she can squirm out of punishments to. It will eventually work against you not to enjoy a strong front. ..even if the punishments seem harsh to you.. or him.
BTW.. explanation after the spanking is fine.. before or after so long as she know why she got her spankin'. Source(s): Good job as a parent trying to find out!
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