17 year infirm step daughter problem?
my 17 year old step daughter was in her room and i go upstairs to give her a cup of tea and she was masturbating with a sex toy so i ripped the toy out of her and put it within the bin she wont talk to me now and i feel bleak how can i make it up to her
Do it for her.
You cant make it up to her . Why would you do that ? Its her room, her private space be thankful she was masturbating and didnt own a boyfriend in her room . She is 17 you had no right to do that and you should have knock 1st it's no wonder she wont talk to you the poor girls embarrassed what she was doing is completely conventional you should be ashamed of yourself .
Bet you never told her dad either did you ?
no offense but at least she's exploring her body herself and not with someone. Be glad, step back, serenity down, and have a talk with her, explain why you grain its bad to masturbate, but also that you don't want her having sex yet.
Apologize to her and realize that a toy cannot get her pregnant. She is exploring her sexuality obviously, and that is okay. Just be glad its not near a guy. Perhaps knock on her door next time too, that will save both of ya from being feeling guilty.
Why do you feel impossible? Does she look after you and bring you Tea to your room?
Pretty rude of you - don't you KNOCK past entering? I would express a huge SO SORRY to her and explain that you were just embarrassed and react without thinking first and perhaps offer to put a LOCK on her door!
Answers: The first thing you should have done be respected her privacy and knocked before you entered her room.
Talking something like this could be uncomfortable so why not purchase a lock for her bedroom door and have it fitted as a peace offering?
You could write her a letter, explaining that you be shocked, know that you reacted in a bad opening and hope that you can get past this.
You need to recognize that at 17 years old she is almost an adult, possibly having sex, and, put it this bearing, she can't get pregnant or catch a nasty disease by masturbating can she?
It's rugged to accept that children are growing up but it's something every parent has to accept.
Could be worse as economically, My mum walked in on me and a 'friend' in a compromising position (thought she be out). Also, my mum, sister and nan had gone away for the weekend, I was following on thew Saturday as I couldn't get out of work. My boyfriend (now husband) stayed over, I asked if he could move the toys previously he left. He reassured me he would. Needless to say, he didn't and my grandmother switched on the rabbit and asked what it be used for. She was 70 years old. Lol.
You have to out in mind, there is always someone within a worse situation. Feel free to tell her what I have told you if it will help you two move previous this.
Good luck. X
Shes 17 knock before you enter.
Talk to her and update her you were surprised by what you seen and that she wasn't doing anything wrong.
there is zilch wrong with it... she probally is going to lose her virginity soon and u cant do anything to stop it
Sense when is masterbating a problem?! You need to give her her toy back. And permit her masterbate.
First, you need to talk to her and explain that its ok to use sex toys and that you be just startled to walk in on her. Second, administer her money for a new sex toy to make up for the one you threw away. Finally, it's ABSOLUTELY UNACCEPTABLE for you to walk into your 17 year infirm daughters room without knocking. How would you feel if she walk in on you while you are making love to your partner? She's an adult, you need to tender her the privacy she deserves and you would expect.
ur a very sick minded person.
in a minute had you said you quickly left after axiom sorry i may have believed you,but ripping it out of her.i think your ripping it out of us.
get it out of the bin and give it support to her o yeah maybe clean aswell
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Do it for her.
You cant make it up to her . Why would you do that ? Its her room, her private space be thankful she was masturbating and didnt own a boyfriend in her room . She is 17 you had no right to do that and you should have knock 1st it's no wonder she wont talk to you the poor girls embarrassed what she was doing is completely conventional you should be ashamed of yourself .
Bet you never told her dad either did you ?
no offense but at least she's exploring her body herself and not with someone. Be glad, step back, serenity down, and have a talk with her, explain why you grain its bad to masturbate, but also that you don't want her having sex yet.
Apologize to her and realize that a toy cannot get her pregnant. She is exploring her sexuality obviously, and that is okay. Just be glad its not near a guy. Perhaps knock on her door next time too, that will save both of ya from being feeling guilty.
Why do you feel impossible? Does she look after you and bring you Tea to your room?
Pretty rude of you - don't you KNOCK past entering? I would express a huge SO SORRY to her and explain that you were just embarrassed and react without thinking first and perhaps offer to put a LOCK on her door!
Answers: The first thing you should have done be respected her privacy and knocked before you entered her room.
Talking something like this could be uncomfortable so why not purchase a lock for her bedroom door and have it fitted as a peace offering?
You could write her a letter, explaining that you be shocked, know that you reacted in a bad opening and hope that you can get past this.
You need to recognize that at 17 years old she is almost an adult, possibly having sex, and, put it this bearing, she can't get pregnant or catch a nasty disease by masturbating can she?
It's rugged to accept that children are growing up but it's something every parent has to accept.
Could be worse as economically, My mum walked in on me and a 'friend' in a compromising position (thought she be out). Also, my mum, sister and nan had gone away for the weekend, I was following on thew Saturday as I couldn't get out of work. My boyfriend (now husband) stayed over, I asked if he could move the toys previously he left. He reassured me he would. Needless to say, he didn't and my grandmother switched on the rabbit and asked what it be used for. She was 70 years old. Lol.
You have to out in mind, there is always someone within a worse situation. Feel free to tell her what I have told you if it will help you two move previous this.
Good luck. X
Shes 17 knock before you enter.
Talk to her and update her you were surprised by what you seen and that she wasn't doing anything wrong.
there is zilch wrong with it... she probally is going to lose her virginity soon and u cant do anything to stop it
Sense when is masterbating a problem?! You need to give her her toy back. And permit her masterbate.
First, you need to talk to her and explain that its ok to use sex toys and that you be just startled to walk in on her. Second, administer her money for a new sex toy to make up for the one you threw away. Finally, it's ABSOLUTELY UNACCEPTABLE for you to walk into your 17 year infirm daughters room without knocking. How would you feel if she walk in on you while you are making love to your partner? She's an adult, you need to tender her the privacy she deserves and you would expect.
ur a very sick minded person.
in a minute had you said you quickly left after axiom sorry i may have believed you,but ripping it out of her.i think your ripping it out of us.
get it out of the bin and give it support to her o yeah maybe clean aswell
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