Unsure of how to do business next to my daughter's growing attitude problem?
use a belt
my daughter was the same way. And no..no spanking right very soon.
what did I do? I ignored her...what you have to realize is..at this age..they have no instrument of expressing themselves, nor have control over they're actions when they are upset. So you have to hand over them signals..smiles and kisses and happiness when they are being good and no aversion what so ever when they are being bad.
now the food feed thing is okay..so let her feed herself.
but diaper change..simply change her diaper, let her scream and fit
clothing..same item..getting in the car seat? same item...just do it, as quickly as possible,..but remain stoic the entire time..ignore her..no comments close to..its okay or ...mommy is almost done..simply say nothing and simply do nothing.
when it comes to the grocery pushcart..I put mine in and went on with my shopping..while she be screaming away..I used to get hung up on those who were watching me..now I well-read..I ignore them too :)
First of all, stop the biting and hitting. A serene swat on the hand may do, or put her immediately in her crib and shut the door. The screaming will win louder, but she will know that you mean business and quit.
At 10 months she is trying to do things for herself. Let her feed herself, it won't hurt. And she may be ready to start giving up a bottle if you are still using one.
Anything vigour related like diapers, putting her in a car form, or medicine; take a no nonsense attitude yourself. And a moment ago do it. She may still protest, but it sounds like your are trying to reason with a 10 month antiquated. It can't be done.
I have a 19 month old he be HORRIBLE! We didn't hit or spank him all we did was tap him on the mitt and say no sir. he cried for a couple seconds and would try it again but we done the same article and after that he quit. You will have to tap her hand and narrate her no to show her you are in charge when she relizes she cant get her way every time she will soothing down i promise. It wont happen overnight but she will get better over a couple weeks.
Your daughter is trying to tell you something but its not like she can talk that's her road of communicating
Im 13, i remember my mom telling me the same thing around myself, i love babies/children and are around them all the time and babysit them.
She might grow out of it, or maybe shes getting what she wants too much, (not accusing, a moment ago throwing out possibilites). I grew up getting whatever i wanted and i still fight next to my mother constantly whenever i dont get what i want. Half of the time im doing things for myself but if i want something only she can get for me i freak out. Talk to someone you know that have children and maybe they know what you could do.
Shes probably just going through a phase, or a VERY early grim 2's :)
You might want to talk to your doctor if things dont change to make sure shes not mortal irratible because of some sort of hidden rash or something.
I hope i helped, Good luck! :)
My son started acting like this at 7 or 8 months. He is a HANDFUL! Every diaper change is a m¨ºl¨¦e, every time i have to take something away he throws a fit and throws himself onto the floor or screams. Just don't administer in! When this happens it's when you have to transition from mothering to parenting! Parenting can be rough. At her age the non-spoon feed is fine. She's old enough not to use a spoon now.. but I wouldn't coach her when she throws the spoon she gets to feed herself. If she throws the spoon I would point at her and give her a firm "NO-NO!".. next take her out of her highchair and sit her on the floor right away. They generally hate this. That's how I get my son to stop hitting and scratching while he was nursing. If he slapped me in the obverse I de-latched him and sat him on the floor. You would think I tore his heart out!! Then I waiting a few seconds and picked him up and kept nursing.. if he did it again I did it again and respectively time left him on the floor longer. Or you can hold their hands still if she doesn't like that. It's really a constant contest and I think it will be until they are out of the house! It's just beginning! I don't estimate spanking for these things will do any good. To me that's just lazy. It's trouble-free to just whack them.. it's hard to set rules, limitations, structure, punishments and follow through consistently... but in the long run I cogitate it raises better children.
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